Imagine this...
Say your girlfriend is on her period and you make a mistake such as getting into a fight with her, or slipping up and calling her out on her pms symptoms (thus starting a fight).
Everything has gone to hell and even you yourself (as the guy) can't control yourself from yelling at her.
You both say things that you don't mean, and you both walk away from the fight angry.
How do you recover from this?
Thanks!So your girl is on her period and you accidentally pisses her off really bad. What do you do to recover?
buy her flowers and show up with them unexpectedSo your girl is on her period and you accidentally pisses her off really bad. What do you do to recover?
Okay, clue # 1 NEVER call out a woman with PMS.
2, say sorry, give her chocolate, flowers or cuddles or whatever you think would make her feel better(she may not seem to appreciate it but she does and she could pretend to be mad still.).
Also, she may bring stuff back up and complain about it or whatever, don't lose your cool and don't bother arguing back unless it's worth fighting over (It's probably not or you wouldn't care about trying to make it better now.)
Make sure to be nice tomorrow. :)
You gotta pick your battles.
tell her your sorry and never meant to do it
give her what she likes such as Chocolate, flowers, necklace, or just do a surprise such as go to her and hug her and hold her hand and pull out a rose or something
Friday, August 20, 2010
Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
I have a bunch of things that I attempted to translate in Russian (with help of an online translator). I already asked someone (to check for mistakes and they said there were many mistakes). There also some stuff that is totally untranslated. Do not translate this stuff with an Online translator (I already did that). It would help if you are a Native Russian speaker. But if you are not, You are still welcomed to answer, because I know you took ur time to try and help me. I thank everyone. Let me know which things are correctly translated/ incorrectly translate. that is why I have the stuff numbered. Do NOT translate the stuff that is in (), thats stuff to help u understand what I am saying/or why I am saying it.
34. exactly
34. точно
35. ';Come with me, You won't regret it. Let me show you how much I love you.';
35. ';Идите со мной, Вы не будете сожалеть об этом. Позвольте мне показывать Вам, насколько я люблю Вас.';
36. ';Can you hear me? Can you feel me in your arms?';
36. ';Вы можете услышать меня? Вы можете чувствовать меня в вашем оружии?';
37. ';Why are you trying to make fun of me? Do you think it is funny? What do you think it is going to do to me?';
37. ';Почему Вы пробуете высмеять меня? Вы думаете, что это забавно? Что Вы думаете, что это собирается делать ко мне?';
38. '; Do not cry to me. If you loved me, you would be here with me. If you want me, Come find me. Make up your mind.';
38. ';Не кричите ко мне. Если бы Вы любили меня, то Вы были бы здесь со мной. Если Вы хотите меня, Прибытый находят меня. Решить.';
UNTRANSLATED Things:
39. It is going to be windy today
40. it is going to be raining today
41. It is going to be cloudy today
42. It is going to be sunny today.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
45. Now enlighten me, What the hell do you know about about my life? Exactly, You do not know anything about me, My family, you know nothing ok? But I love how you think you do know everything about my life. (telling the person why do u think u know everything about me, especially you not knowing me)
46. Why is my life so interesting that you need to know everything about it?
47. You stalking me got really old, really fast the first time around and there is seriously not about to be a second time. (warning a person that they got a way with stalking me once, but the second time they will get in big trouble.)
48. Excuse me? It seems to me that I clearly told you to leave me alone. (tell that someone when they dont listen to u the first time).
49. You probably stole all of wrestling stuff (ideas, and interest in the sport) from me. Lord knows that you dont have the communication skills to even go ot a wrestling match, let alone understand the sport.( telling the person how they decided to copy of of me , try to be like me. the person does not know a thing about wrestling)
50. Are you wearing that Holy Cross (a college tee shirt) to irk your dad (drive dad crazy)? (my cousin's dad said that to me because My dad went to a different college, and was wondering if I wore a Holy cross shirt because my dad did not go to that college.)
51. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my boyfriend during a study hall and said to him ';I heard something about your girlfriend.'; You are disgusting.
52. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my sister during a study hall and said to her ';I heard something about your sister.'; You are disgusting.Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
35. Вы, Вам is right, but if you say formally. It´s better to say:
Пойдём со мной, ты не пожалеешь. Позволь мне показать, как сильно я тебя люблю.
36.Ты меня не слышишь? Можешь ощущать меня в своих руках?
(оружиe = weapon; arms)
37.Зачем ты пытаешься надсмеяться надо мной? Думаешь, это смешно? Что, ты думаешь, мне от этого будет?
38.Не кричи на меня! Если бы ты любил меня, то ты был бы здесь со мной. Если ты хочешь меня, давай, найди меня. Решись наконец.
39.Сегодня будет ветрено.
40.Сегодня будет дождь / Сегодня пойдёт дождь
41.Сегодня будет облачно (пасмурно).
42. Сегодня будет солнечно.
43.У тебя никогда не получится быть как я, даже не пытайся.
44. Откуда Вы знаете доктора Дииорио? (formally) / Откуда ты знаешь доктора Дииорио? (informally)
45. Сейчас просвети меня, что ты знаешь о моей жизни? Точно, ты ничего не знаешь обо мне, ни о моей семье? Но мне нравится, как ты думаешь, что знаешь абсолютно всё о моей жизни.
46. Почему моя жизнь настолько интересна, что тебе надо всё о ней знать?
47. Твои попытки подкрасться ко мне уже не новы. Тебя удалось это однажды, но не получится повторить этого. (I hope I‘ve understood right)
48. Извини? Мне кажется, я уже уже просила оставить меня в покое.
49. Возможно, ты перенял(а) у меня интерес к борьбе (реслингу). Бог знает, у тебя даже нет навыков общения, чтобы попасть на матч, оставь меня в покое, я понимаю спорт.
50. Ты носишь футболку Holy Cross, чтобы вывести своего отца?
51. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моему парнем в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей девушке». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
52. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моей сестре в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей сестре». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
(in brackets if you say to a female)Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
39. It is going to be windy today
Будет ветрено сегодня.
40. it is going to be raining today
Пойдёт дождь сегодня.
41. It is going to be cloudy today
Будет облачно сегодня.
42. It is going to be sunny today.
Будет сольнечно сегодня.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
Вы никогда не будете меня. Даже не думаете.
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
Откуда Вы знаете Doctor Diiorio?
That's about all I can do.
I gotta tell you, kid. Some of this crap you want translated really makes me wonder about you.
34. exactly
34. точно
35. ';Come with me, You won't regret it. Let me show you how much I love you.';
35. ';Идите со мной, Вы не будете сожалеть об этом. Позвольте мне показывать Вам, насколько я люблю Вас.';
36. ';Can you hear me? Can you feel me in your arms?';
36. ';Вы можете услышать меня? Вы можете чувствовать меня в вашем оружии?';
37. ';Why are you trying to make fun of me? Do you think it is funny? What do you think it is going to do to me?';
37. ';Почему Вы пробуете высмеять меня? Вы думаете, что это забавно? Что Вы думаете, что это собирается делать ко мне?';
38. '; Do not cry to me. If you loved me, you would be here with me. If you want me, Come find me. Make up your mind.';
38. ';Не кричите ко мне. Если бы Вы любили меня, то Вы были бы здесь со мной. Если Вы хотите меня, Прибытый находят меня. Решить.';
UNTRANSLATED Things:
39. It is going to be windy today
40. it is going to be raining today
41. It is going to be cloudy today
42. It is going to be sunny today.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
45. Now enlighten me, What the hell do you know about about my life? Exactly, You do not know anything about me, My family, you know nothing ok? But I love how you think you do know everything about my life. (telling the person why do u think u know everything about me, especially you not knowing me)
46. Why is my life so interesting that you need to know everything about it?
47. You stalking me got really old, really fast the first time around and there is seriously not about to be a second time. (warning a person that they got a way with stalking me once, but the second time they will get in big trouble.)
48. Excuse me? It seems to me that I clearly told you to leave me alone. (tell that someone when they dont listen to u the first time).
49. You probably stole all of wrestling stuff (ideas, and interest in the sport) from me. Lord knows that you dont have the communication skills to even go ot a wrestling match, let alone understand the sport.( telling the person how they decided to copy of of me , try to be like me. the person does not know a thing about wrestling)
50. Are you wearing that Holy Cross (a college tee shirt) to irk your dad (drive dad crazy)? (my cousin's dad said that to me because My dad went to a different college, and was wondering if I wore a Holy cross shirt because my dad did not go to that college.)
51. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my boyfriend during a study hall and said to him ';I heard something about your girlfriend.'; You are disgusting.
52. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my sister during a study hall and said to her ';I heard something about your sister.'; You are disgusting.Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
35. Вы, Вам is right, but if you say formally. It´s better to say:
Пойдём со мной, ты не пожалеешь. Позволь мне показать, как сильно я тебя люблю.
36.Ты меня не слышишь? Можешь ощущать меня в своих руках?
(оружиe = weapon; arms)
37.Зачем ты пытаешься надсмеяться надо мной? Думаешь, это смешно? Что, ты думаешь, мне от этого будет?
38.Не кричи на меня! Если бы ты любил меня, то ты был бы здесь со мной. Если ты хочешь меня, давай, найди меня. Решись наконец.
39.Сегодня будет ветрено.
40.Сегодня будет дождь / Сегодня пойдёт дождь
41.Сегодня будет облачно (пасмурно).
42. Сегодня будет солнечно.
43.У тебя никогда не получится быть как я, даже не пытайся.
44. Откуда Вы знаете доктора Дииорио? (formally) / Откуда ты знаешь доктора Дииорио? (informally)
45. Сейчас просвети меня, что ты знаешь о моей жизни? Точно, ты ничего не знаешь обо мне, ни о моей семье? Но мне нравится, как ты думаешь, что знаешь абсолютно всё о моей жизни.
46. Почему моя жизнь настолько интересна, что тебе надо всё о ней знать?
47. Твои попытки подкрасться ко мне уже не новы. Тебя удалось это однажды, но не получится повторить этого. (I hope I‘ve understood right)
48. Извини? Мне кажется, я уже уже просила оставить меня в покое.
49. Возможно, ты перенял(а) у меня интерес к борьбе (реслингу). Бог знает, у тебя даже нет навыков общения, чтобы попасть на матч, оставь меня в покое, я понимаю спорт.
50. Ты носишь футболку Holy Cross, чтобы вывести своего отца?
51. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моему парнем в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей девушке». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
52. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моей сестре в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей сестре». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
(in brackets if you say to a female)Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
39. It is going to be windy today
Будет ветрено сегодня.
40. it is going to be raining today
Пойдёт дождь сегодня.
41. It is going to be cloudy today
Будет облачно сегодня.
42. It is going to be sunny today.
Будет сольнечно сегодня.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
Вы никогда не будете меня. Даже не думаете.
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
Откуда Вы знаете Doctor Diiorio?
That's about all I can do.
I gotta tell you, kid. Some of this crap you want translated really makes me wonder about you.
Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Im 22 and Ive been in a relationship for over 2 years, but Ive known him since high school. He goes to college thats a few hours away so its a long distance relationship. We have (or had) a lot of trust but this summer has been a downward spiral of our entire relationship and I dont know what to do! I dont know if im overreacting or not. So i need some advice.
Ok I see my boyfriend about once every 3 months. He came home from school this summer and we were both broke and taking summer classes so we didnt have money to really do anything fun, which is fine with me. My problem is though. He spent a weekend away with his friends (which he lied about and i didnt know he was going until he was already gone) Anyway i was pissed but he said he only spent 15 dollars the entire time, and I believe him cuz he went somewhere thats really cheap. But still!
Do i have a right to be pissed? In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority, he knew i didnt want him to go but he lied and went anyway! And then on top of that he NEVER takes me anywhereee complaining about being broke but then he spends a weekend away! There are other waysss that are cheap to make your girlfriend feel special but he doesnt do ANY of those things ever...unless, of course, hes trying to make up for something. Why cant he just do nice things without me having to TELL him or get MAD at him?!?
And thats only half of it. On top of that whole situation he confessed that he went to get coffee with this girl he knew from high school and paid for her and everything...wtf? like a date? He said nothing happened and it was just once but WTF?! You have a girlfriend thats already unhappy that we never go anywhere cuz we are broke college students and then u go and take another girl out behind my back?!
So my question is..Am I being crazy? Am I overreacting?
Or is he just using me? because thats the way it feels!
Does he just not give a **** or is he just oblivious to my feelings??
I have no idea what to do. Weve been fighting for the past 2 weeks and Im on the verge of leaving him. But i love him and want it to work but NOT with a guy that doesnt care about me.
Hes apologized profusely and doesnt want to break up but I dont know what else to do to get my point across that this is NOT ok behavior and thats not how u treat your girlfriend!
If I take him back, is anything even going to changee?? I doubt it...
What do I doooo??Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Let him go, my dear. In his mind, he is leaving you already. After being away at college and only seeing each other every 3 months- he has become accustomed to being without you. He doesn't miss you anymore. Set him free. Some relationships just don't last because 2 people develop in different directions- and this is especially true of couples who meet young. Even though you have known him since high school doesn't mean you have to hang on, and doesn't mean you cannot make room for somebody new. Start dating in your college because I have the feeling that he is, too. If he isn't then I think he wants to. He might be commended for his honesty towards you- but when it came to his weekend with the guys- he felt he had to lie to you, because he wanted it but knew you would create a scene. He wants these things, and it wont last with him trying to please you without pleasing himself.
Let him go with a hug. He doesn't want the same things as you anymore. Creating scenes wont help and will only make you feel more and more like a witch, which I am sure you are not.Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
whats love got to do with it? I can look back to the past about all the guys i ';loved';...im glad i moved on with my life. Sounds like its time for a new chapter for you. Leave him.
move on sweetie.
agree with first post
tell him your feelings straight out no strings attached
';In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority';
Do you make HIS happiness your priority?
You sound like a ';score keeper';. That's no way to be in a relationship. Give until you can't give anymore, without regard for what you get in return.
I doesn't really seem like he did anything that bad. He likes to hang out with his friends, and he needs a break every once in a while. Like he told you, it's not like he's been spending all that much when he's with his friends. You just need to give him some room. So what if he got coffee with a friend of his from high school? Many guys have girls that we hang out with every once in a while. I think you should do what you like to do, just as long as you don't demand anything from him. Most people don't like to feel like dating is an obligation. Most guys just see dating as fun and relaxing, and sometimes overlook the needs to their girlfriends. But as soon as the relationship becomes demanding, he's not going to want it anymore.
I suggest you get him something nice and maybe do something new and creative for him. That might add a spark to your relationship. If you want something to change about the relationship, there is no way you are going to change him. Take him or leave him. But you can change your own attitude and make him want you more. If you add to the relationship rather than taking away form it through fighting and arguing, you'll become more attractive to him, and he will want to see you rather than feel obligated to see you.
Did you read this jumble of complaints before you posted it? Everything is about you, poor little you, and how you try to control that guy. GET A CLUE! Long distance relationships don't work for very long. He is young and full of testosterone; what do you think he is doing during the three months he is away from you, playing the violin?
You wrote a thousand clues that tell you he isn't into you. Release him and let him go and move on with your life or you are going to be very miserable. I don't think he's around long enough to be using you, but you could just happen to be a booty call when nothing else is available.
He can't treat you that dirty unless you allow him to. It's time you put a stop to it and pretend he was a very bad dream.
he does love you and you love him, but your both unhappy -- he is unhappy also. you need to move on, staying together is not a good idea, it hurts like hell, but you'll both get over it as soon as you meet other people.
Aggggggg! I feel your frustration. Sometimes guys are just oblivious, they dont get it. It takes practice and yes you telling him. You wouldnt think you would have tell or teach some one to be considerate of anothers feelings, but if they havent had to do that you suffer for it by having to teach them. The paying for another girls coffee totally not acceptable, that is like a date. I would not let that fade away, and leaving and not even telling you ouch! The fact that he still wants to be with you shows he cares, but the way he is treating you is unexceptable. You teach others how to treat you. Its gonna be a hard decision to make if he is worth teaching or not with him treating you the way he is already.
Good luck!
I have been in a 3 year relationship that ended 6 months ago with a guy who i also had to TELL to do things for me. And we shouldn't have to. They should just know to do them. However, doing things AFTER they are told to most of the time is ONLY because they were told to do them and to shut us up. My ex fiance apologized to me profusely many many many times and the reality of it is that he never changed. I also loved him, but he left me. I mean, it takes two to tango. Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you tell him what to do. I know this and am guilty of it as well. So what you can attempt to do if you love him is sit his *** down and talk tings over. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he wants out of the relationship. Just like i had this problem, it sounds like you have a communication failure. Talk first and then see where you two stand and if it's worth moving on together or part ways. Good Luck girl. Hope this helped you.
Dump that spaz. He knows you wanna go and hang out with him, yet he spends his money on another chick???????? Sounds fishy. Time to move on hun!
i know what u mena 2 years is a lot of memories, love and time u will throwing away but as i was reading this i could not help and thik that he is not right for treating u this way. really.. i guy should make his gf happiness a priority, ! and spend just a lil on her or make up w a good attitude, or nice sweet things.. and y is he going out w another girl and paying?.... yes, sounded like a date that he confessed to.. look, its going to be hard as hell and ur going to feel like u can work through this, and he will change but chances are he is not... leave him and be on ur own to experience diff. emotions and situations.... besides, he is away which will make it easier.. goo d luck, u know what the right thing to do is, so just do it,,,
i dont think he is going to change, but u gotta stand up for yourself. give him like a warning that if he doesnt make u more of a priority, than u will leave. give him some time and if he doesn't chanhe, levae. im sure u r having a hard time, i feel for u! good luck and pray to God.
well it sounds as if your mind is made up. i sense that he is feeling trapped in a long relationship and his friends are out jumping in bed with anything that moves and inside hes a little jealous, but does love to be with you. the problem is that you cant change someone they will only change if they want to. you most likely brake up with with him and not date for a bit. It will feel lonely but it will help you focus on school and date when you have the time to put into a relationship because its a lot of work. If he really loves you you will be his number one priority and everything else will come second.
Make The Question Shorter Then i will answer properly.
If it's something to do with your personal life then decide for yourself don't ask the strangers of yahoo XDskin care hair spray
Ok I see my boyfriend about once every 3 months. He came home from school this summer and we were both broke and taking summer classes so we didnt have money to really do anything fun, which is fine with me. My problem is though. He spent a weekend away with his friends (which he lied about and i didnt know he was going until he was already gone) Anyway i was pissed but he said he only spent 15 dollars the entire time, and I believe him cuz he went somewhere thats really cheap. But still!
Do i have a right to be pissed? In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority, he knew i didnt want him to go but he lied and went anyway! And then on top of that he NEVER takes me anywhereee complaining about being broke but then he spends a weekend away! There are other waysss that are cheap to make your girlfriend feel special but he doesnt do ANY of those things ever...unless, of course, hes trying to make up for something. Why cant he just do nice things without me having to TELL him or get MAD at him?!?
And thats only half of it. On top of that whole situation he confessed that he went to get coffee with this girl he knew from high school and paid for her and everything...wtf? like a date? He said nothing happened and it was just once but WTF?! You have a girlfriend thats already unhappy that we never go anywhere cuz we are broke college students and then u go and take another girl out behind my back?!
So my question is..Am I being crazy? Am I overreacting?
Or is he just using me? because thats the way it feels!
Does he just not give a **** or is he just oblivious to my feelings??
I have no idea what to do. Weve been fighting for the past 2 weeks and Im on the verge of leaving him. But i love him and want it to work but NOT with a guy that doesnt care about me.
Hes apologized profusely and doesnt want to break up but I dont know what else to do to get my point across that this is NOT ok behavior and thats not how u treat your girlfriend!
If I take him back, is anything even going to changee?? I doubt it...
What do I doooo??Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Let him go, my dear. In his mind, he is leaving you already. After being away at college and only seeing each other every 3 months- he has become accustomed to being without you. He doesn't miss you anymore. Set him free. Some relationships just don't last because 2 people develop in different directions- and this is especially true of couples who meet young. Even though you have known him since high school doesn't mean you have to hang on, and doesn't mean you cannot make room for somebody new. Start dating in your college because I have the feeling that he is, too. If he isn't then I think he wants to. He might be commended for his honesty towards you- but when it came to his weekend with the guys- he felt he had to lie to you, because he wanted it but knew you would create a scene. He wants these things, and it wont last with him trying to please you without pleasing himself.
Let him go with a hug. He doesn't want the same things as you anymore. Creating scenes wont help and will only make you feel more and more like a witch, which I am sure you are not.Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
whats love got to do with it? I can look back to the past about all the guys i ';loved';...im glad i moved on with my life. Sounds like its time for a new chapter for you. Leave him.
move on sweetie.
agree with first post
tell him your feelings straight out no strings attached
';In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority';
Do you make HIS happiness your priority?
You sound like a ';score keeper';. That's no way to be in a relationship. Give until you can't give anymore, without regard for what you get in return.
I doesn't really seem like he did anything that bad. He likes to hang out with his friends, and he needs a break every once in a while. Like he told you, it's not like he's been spending all that much when he's with his friends. You just need to give him some room. So what if he got coffee with a friend of his from high school? Many guys have girls that we hang out with every once in a while. I think you should do what you like to do, just as long as you don't demand anything from him. Most people don't like to feel like dating is an obligation. Most guys just see dating as fun and relaxing, and sometimes overlook the needs to their girlfriends. But as soon as the relationship becomes demanding, he's not going to want it anymore.
I suggest you get him something nice and maybe do something new and creative for him. That might add a spark to your relationship. If you want something to change about the relationship, there is no way you are going to change him. Take him or leave him. But you can change your own attitude and make him want you more. If you add to the relationship rather than taking away form it through fighting and arguing, you'll become more attractive to him, and he will want to see you rather than feel obligated to see you.
Did you read this jumble of complaints before you posted it? Everything is about you, poor little you, and how you try to control that guy. GET A CLUE! Long distance relationships don't work for very long. He is young and full of testosterone; what do you think he is doing during the three months he is away from you, playing the violin?
You wrote a thousand clues that tell you he isn't into you. Release him and let him go and move on with your life or you are going to be very miserable. I don't think he's around long enough to be using you, but you could just happen to be a booty call when nothing else is available.
He can't treat you that dirty unless you allow him to. It's time you put a stop to it and pretend he was a very bad dream.
he does love you and you love him, but your both unhappy -- he is unhappy also. you need to move on, staying together is not a good idea, it hurts like hell, but you'll both get over it as soon as you meet other people.
Aggggggg! I feel your frustration. Sometimes guys are just oblivious, they dont get it. It takes practice and yes you telling him. You wouldnt think you would have tell or teach some one to be considerate of anothers feelings, but if they havent had to do that you suffer for it by having to teach them. The paying for another girls coffee totally not acceptable, that is like a date. I would not let that fade away, and leaving and not even telling you ouch! The fact that he still wants to be with you shows he cares, but the way he is treating you is unexceptable. You teach others how to treat you. Its gonna be a hard decision to make if he is worth teaching or not with him treating you the way he is already.
Good luck!
I have been in a 3 year relationship that ended 6 months ago with a guy who i also had to TELL to do things for me. And we shouldn't have to. They should just know to do them. However, doing things AFTER they are told to most of the time is ONLY because they were told to do them and to shut us up. My ex fiance apologized to me profusely many many many times and the reality of it is that he never changed. I also loved him, but he left me. I mean, it takes two to tango. Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you tell him what to do. I know this and am guilty of it as well. So what you can attempt to do if you love him is sit his *** down and talk tings over. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he wants out of the relationship. Just like i had this problem, it sounds like you have a communication failure. Talk first and then see where you two stand and if it's worth moving on together or part ways. Good Luck girl. Hope this helped you.
Dump that spaz. He knows you wanna go and hang out with him, yet he spends his money on another chick???????? Sounds fishy. Time to move on hun!
i know what u mena 2 years is a lot of memories, love and time u will throwing away but as i was reading this i could not help and thik that he is not right for treating u this way. really.. i guy should make his gf happiness a priority, ! and spend just a lil on her or make up w a good attitude, or nice sweet things.. and y is he going out w another girl and paying?.... yes, sounded like a date that he confessed to.. look, its going to be hard as hell and ur going to feel like u can work through this, and he will change but chances are he is not... leave him and be on ur own to experience diff. emotions and situations.... besides, he is away which will make it easier.. goo d luck, u know what the right thing to do is, so just do it,,,
i dont think he is going to change, but u gotta stand up for yourself. give him like a warning that if he doesnt make u more of a priority, than u will leave. give him some time and if he doesn't chanhe, levae. im sure u r having a hard time, i feel for u! good luck and pray to God.
well it sounds as if your mind is made up. i sense that he is feeling trapped in a long relationship and his friends are out jumping in bed with anything that moves and inside hes a little jealous, but does love to be with you. the problem is that you cant change someone they will only change if they want to. you most likely brake up with with him and not date for a bit. It will feel lonely but it will help you focus on school and date when you have the time to put into a relationship because its a lot of work. If he really loves you you will be his number one priority and everything else will come second.
Make The Question Shorter Then i will answer properly.
If it's something to do with your personal life then decide for yourself don't ask the strangers of yahoo XD
How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
My girlfriend broke up with me recently because she found out that i slept( I repeat, ';slept'; not an affair, it was just that one night) with another girl almost a year ago. apparently, one of her nosey friend dug it up and told her. I really want her back. how can i make her forgive me for my mistakes? We have been living together for 2 years, now she just totally disapeared from my life and wont talk to me.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
If you're married, it's an affair. If you're just boyfriend, girlfriend, you went out on her. So, affair is correct. Don't matter if it's 1 or 100 times. An affair is an affair.
A woman scorn......You have to start all over again. You threw away 2 years of this relationship for a one night stand. You've broken the cardinal rule. She may forgive you, but she will never forget. She may come back, but at what level? In a relationship, the person hurt is the judge and jury and right now you're sentenced. How long? Depends on her. Bow down man and pay your dues.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
**** a man in front of her, than she believe that you don't mean anything when you sleep with that woman...
Move on. You f'd up with her. It will be too hard for her to let that one go. Why is it so hard for guys to keep their ***** in their pants?
I just can't believe you people.... You manage to find a good girl, and you just throw her away by sleeping with someone else. You're going to die old and alone.
yeah. good luck with that one chump!!!
You make it sound like it doesn't count because it was only once.
It doesn't matter if it was once or one hundred %26amp; once. A cheater is a cheater. You should have thought of the consequences before you did it at all.
I am glad she won't talk to you. she deserves better than you.
Admit to her you made a mistake .maybe shell forgive you . But seriously you should just move ahead . You made a mistake and now youre paying for it .
Live with it .
You don't deserve another chance. You will never get her trust back, which is good because you'd probably just break it again. You make it sound like because it was only once it wasn't actually cheating. A cheater is a cheater, it doesn't matter how many times or with how many people. You're a pathetic excuse for a human being who deserves to die alone. You didn't care about your girlfriend. If you did you wouldn't have cheated on her. And her friend did the right thing. She wasn't being nosy, she was looking out for the best interest of someone she cared about. I hope you never hear from your ex girlfriend again. She deserves a lot better than a disgusting pig like you.
you made the mistake of sleeping with another girl if you really wanted your girlfriend maybe you shouldn't have slept with the other girl bad choice....your choice
sit down with her and say i want u back say the things she wasnt giving u im sure she would understand
you don't deserve it!
to be honest with you you guys can become friends again but not like before and she will never trust you again.
i don't think u should go for her anymore u broke her and in ur quest u didn't say anything about being in love with her so leave her alone!
She deserves better than you!
DOnt expect her to want you back.
you ******** heartbreaker.
poor girl.
i don't blame her for leaving you. if u are trying to look for some support u are not going to get anything, cheaters are one of the worst type of people in the world. u will never get her back she deserves way better than u scum!
If you're married, it's an affair. If you're just boyfriend, girlfriend, you went out on her. So, affair is correct. Don't matter if it's 1 or 100 times. An affair is an affair.
A woman scorn......You have to start all over again. You threw away 2 years of this relationship for a one night stand. You've broken the cardinal rule. She may forgive you, but she will never forget. She may come back, but at what level? In a relationship, the person hurt is the judge and jury and right now you're sentenced. How long? Depends on her. Bow down man and pay your dues.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
**** a man in front of her, than she believe that you don't mean anything when you sleep with that woman...
Move on. You f'd up with her. It will be too hard for her to let that one go. Why is it so hard for guys to keep their ***** in their pants?
I just can't believe you people.... You manage to find a good girl, and you just throw her away by sleeping with someone else. You're going to die old and alone.
yeah. good luck with that one chump!!!
You make it sound like it doesn't count because it was only once.
It doesn't matter if it was once or one hundred %26amp; once. A cheater is a cheater. You should have thought of the consequences before you did it at all.
I am glad she won't talk to you. she deserves better than you.
Admit to her you made a mistake .maybe shell forgive you . But seriously you should just move ahead . You made a mistake and now youre paying for it .
Live with it .
You don't deserve another chance. You will never get her trust back, which is good because you'd probably just break it again. You make it sound like because it was only once it wasn't actually cheating. A cheater is a cheater, it doesn't matter how many times or with how many people. You're a pathetic excuse for a human being who deserves to die alone. You didn't care about your girlfriend. If you did you wouldn't have cheated on her. And her friend did the right thing. She wasn't being nosy, she was looking out for the best interest of someone she cared about. I hope you never hear from your ex girlfriend again. She deserves a lot better than a disgusting pig like you.
you made the mistake of sleeping with another girl if you really wanted your girlfriend maybe you shouldn't have slept with the other girl bad choice....your choice
sit down with her and say i want u back say the things she wasnt giving u im sure she would understand
you don't deserve it!
to be honest with you you guys can become friends again but not like before and she will never trust you again.
i don't think u should go for her anymore u broke her and in ur quest u didn't say anything about being in love with her so leave her alone!
She deserves better than you!
DOnt expect her to want you back.
you ******** heartbreaker.
poor girl.
i don't blame her for leaving you. if u are trying to look for some support u are not going to get anything, cheaters are one of the worst type of people in the world. u will never get her back she deserves way better than u scum!
Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION AND I APPRECIATE ALL THOSE WHO WILL TAKE THE TIME TO ANSWER
I'm trying to get more opinions as possible in order not to mess things up more than they already are, so here's the story. (My Friend name will be Mark and his Girlfriend Mary)
So at thebeginningg me and mark were really enemies, we uses to hang out with the same group of friends but always ended up fighting we sometimes also tried to beat each other up. During the last two years we became really gr8 friends, something which I can't explain how it happened. We're always at each others house, call each other many times a day and send sms, we're very caring of each other. A year ago or so my friend Mark started dating Mary a girl which I already knew and unfortunately we were never on good terms. Mary started making things difficult between us to and tried several times to break up ourfriendshipp always without success. She always told mark to stop coming at my house and not to call me and stuff like that (Mark always kept coming and calling) she would always be annoyed when I called him and other things like that, in short she wanted the relationship between me and my buddy to end because she was jealous. It has been going like this for nearly a year, and mark can't handle it anymore now. Yesterday he broke up with her, when I tried to cheer him up, he told that he didn't want to discuss the issue coz at the moment he was feeling angry both at me and at Mary due to the fact that he felt too much pressure from both sides to end one relationship or another. I am being completely hones when I say that I never told him to break up with her, on the contrary I told him some time ago (more than once) that it would have been better for us (me and mark) to take some time away from each other coz our friendship was harming his relationship with mary and for me the most important thing was to see him happy, I never wanted him to feel bad as he is now andI knew that the situation was no longer bearable so I had decided to step down. At the moment mark speaks to both of us but has made it clear that he needs to take a decision and choose between the two. It find it something very ridiculous for a person to end up in such a situation to choose between your best buddy and your girlfriend. I've been feeling very bad over the last week, and especially the last two days.
Something which I did not mention is that I'm bi-polar and I really find it difficult to handle situations like these, and the pills seem that are not helping anymore. I fear that I will lose my best m8 ever, just because of his jealous girlfriend, when I did nothing wrong. I am not trying to talk him out of this decision coz I feel that he needs to decide by himself. thanks for all those who will take time to answer my question, I am literally desperate I don;t know what to do I don;t want to lose my buddy and I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because, I just wish that she was never jealous and that his whole situation would have never happened.
Thanks once again.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Friends will come and go in your life. True friends will stand the test of time. Long behind jealous girlfriends, and meaningless fights. If your friendship was meant to be, you two will be friends.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Awh thats really sad,
I just felt bad coz i read your question and didnt no how to answer but then when no1 elce has answered i thought it would be nice, sorry if im not very helpful then X
I think you should write him a letter/e-mail/card saying your sorry for making things so awkward with him and Mary and you, and then tell him how you feel about it that you dont think that he should need to break up with her and that you just want him to be happy because you can make more friends.
I no men dont like talking about feelings so dont go on too much, just kinda let him no. Also u cud rremind him that your bi-polar and this is hard for you too.
U cud try just talking to him about it but it might be harder for u to come across right.
Hope i helped X
Go and speak to him and help him plan something romantic for his girlfriend to prove that you are on his side and don't want them to split because of you. If this works, ask him to set up a little 'meeting' at a cafe or something between just you and the girlfriend and explain that you are both in his life and that you don't want to make things difficult. Ask if there's anything particular that she feels you have done to upset her. Does he maybe have a hobby that she isn't interested in, so the two of you could do together?
Also, are you 100% sure that she has been trying to split you and your mate up. I remember once when I first got with a boyfriend I would tell my friends that he didn't want me to go out, because I didn't want to admit that I was soooo wrapped up with my new bloke that I just wanted to spend every second with him. Obviously, in time that wore off tho and things went back to normal.
She sound like a really needy girl and needs be proven to that you are not trying to take her guy away from her. It must be hard for you seeings you haven't done anything to suggest you will, but evidently your friend is not proving to her that he's all hers either.
You sound like a good friend, so stick with it.
you should try to talk to mary. ask her what her problem with you is. you have been friends for a longer time than she has been around. the three of you need to go out and have fun for mark.
Maybe you should write Mary and e-mail or something explaining to her that you don't want to mess up her relationship with Mark. It wasn't your intention. Explain to her that he is your best friend, and that she should respect that, even if she doesn't like you, it's not her life, and she should let him be friends with who he wants. Tell her that he's made his choice, to get used to it. That he appreciates your friendship more than he did the relationship, but if the two of you work in harmony it will make Mark really happy. If she truly cares about him, then she would realize that it's not just about her, that it's about him, and making his life completely happy. Isn't that what a girlfriend is for? Tell Mark that he can make the decisions he wants in his life, that it's up to no one else but himself. Things will work out fine, don't worry. (:
I'm trying to get more opinions as possible in order not to mess things up more than they already are, so here's the story. (My Friend name will be Mark and his Girlfriend Mary)
So at thebeginningg me and mark were really enemies, we uses to hang out with the same group of friends but always ended up fighting we sometimes also tried to beat each other up. During the last two years we became really gr8 friends, something which I can't explain how it happened. We're always at each others house, call each other many times a day and send sms, we're very caring of each other. A year ago or so my friend Mark started dating Mary a girl which I already knew and unfortunately we were never on good terms. Mary started making things difficult between us to and tried several times to break up ourfriendshipp always without success. She always told mark to stop coming at my house and not to call me and stuff like that (Mark always kept coming and calling) she would always be annoyed when I called him and other things like that, in short she wanted the relationship between me and my buddy to end because she was jealous. It has been going like this for nearly a year, and mark can't handle it anymore now. Yesterday he broke up with her, when I tried to cheer him up, he told that he didn't want to discuss the issue coz at the moment he was feeling angry both at me and at Mary due to the fact that he felt too much pressure from both sides to end one relationship or another. I am being completely hones when I say that I never told him to break up with her, on the contrary I told him some time ago (more than once) that it would have been better for us (me and mark) to take some time away from each other coz our friendship was harming his relationship with mary and for me the most important thing was to see him happy, I never wanted him to feel bad as he is now andI knew that the situation was no longer bearable so I had decided to step down. At the moment mark speaks to both of us but has made it clear that he needs to take a decision and choose between the two. It find it something very ridiculous for a person to end up in such a situation to choose between your best buddy and your girlfriend. I've been feeling very bad over the last week, and especially the last two days.
Something which I did not mention is that I'm bi-polar and I really find it difficult to handle situations like these, and the pills seem that are not helping anymore. I fear that I will lose my best m8 ever, just because of his jealous girlfriend, when I did nothing wrong. I am not trying to talk him out of this decision coz I feel that he needs to decide by himself. thanks for all those who will take time to answer my question, I am literally desperate I don;t know what to do I don;t want to lose my buddy and I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because, I just wish that she was never jealous and that his whole situation would have never happened.
Thanks once again.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Friends will come and go in your life. True friends will stand the test of time. Long behind jealous girlfriends, and meaningless fights. If your friendship was meant to be, you two will be friends.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Awh thats really sad,
I just felt bad coz i read your question and didnt no how to answer but then when no1 elce has answered i thought it would be nice, sorry if im not very helpful then X
I think you should write him a letter/e-mail/card saying your sorry for making things so awkward with him and Mary and you, and then tell him how you feel about it that you dont think that he should need to break up with her and that you just want him to be happy because you can make more friends.
I no men dont like talking about feelings so dont go on too much, just kinda let him no. Also u cud rremind him that your bi-polar and this is hard for you too.
U cud try just talking to him about it but it might be harder for u to come across right.
Hope i helped X
Go and speak to him and help him plan something romantic for his girlfriend to prove that you are on his side and don't want them to split because of you. If this works, ask him to set up a little 'meeting' at a cafe or something between just you and the girlfriend and explain that you are both in his life and that you don't want to make things difficult. Ask if there's anything particular that she feels you have done to upset her. Does he maybe have a hobby that she isn't interested in, so the two of you could do together?
Also, are you 100% sure that she has been trying to split you and your mate up. I remember once when I first got with a boyfriend I would tell my friends that he didn't want me to go out, because I didn't want to admit that I was soooo wrapped up with my new bloke that I just wanted to spend every second with him. Obviously, in time that wore off tho and things went back to normal.
She sound like a really needy girl and needs be proven to that you are not trying to take her guy away from her. It must be hard for you seeings you haven't done anything to suggest you will, but evidently your friend is not proving to her that he's all hers either.
You sound like a good friend, so stick with it.
you should try to talk to mary. ask her what her problem with you is. you have been friends for a longer time than she has been around. the three of you need to go out and have fun for mark.
Maybe you should write Mary and e-mail or something explaining to her that you don't want to mess up her relationship with Mark. It wasn't your intention. Explain to her that he is your best friend, and that she should respect that, even if she doesn't like you, it's not her life, and she should let him be friends with who he wants. Tell her that he's made his choice, to get used to it. That he appreciates your friendship more than he did the relationship, but if the two of you work in harmony it will make Mark really happy. If she truly cares about him, then she would realize that it's not just about her, that it's about him, and making his life completely happy. Isn't that what a girlfriend is for? Tell Mark that he can make the decisions he wants in his life, that it's up to no one else but himself. Things will work out fine, don't worry. (:
Girls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Me(18) and my girlfriend(19) broke up about a month and a half ago. after a few weeks she said she missed me as her boyfriend but didnt think it was fair she treated me bad when she was stressed. then later for awhile we didnt say a word to each other. Then she tells me she missed me and couldnt connect with other dudes like her and i did then started getting upset about how she ruined our relationship and treated me badly. i comforted her and we have been talking and joking and teasing ever since. She calls me Jare rather than jared and aww's stuff i say and takes the time to actually talk to me. does she want me back? your proly gonna be like ';how do you feel'; this girl was my first love, she means everything to me.
i got answers to that question but now what do i actually SAY to her, what would make a girl melt? i need legit feedback, no bologna about how i'll do anything and what not, i dont want to sound desperateGirls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Start off by telling her that ';she's your first love and she means everything to you';. Then try to go further with your emotions. Girls are emotional creatures, so it helps us connect with guys better when they're comfortable with their emotions as well.
i got answers to that question but now what do i actually SAY to her, what would make a girl melt? i need legit feedback, no bologna about how i'll do anything and what not, i dont want to sound desperateGirls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Start off by telling her that ';she's your first love and she means everything to you';. Then try to go further with your emotions. Girls are emotional creatures, so it helps us connect with guys better when they're comfortable with their emotions as well.
How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
So me and my girlfriend and her friend were biking together. Weve been biking for like 5 hours and my girlfriend started complaining about rash in her a**.
I kept telling her to get over it because we were done biking, we were gonna play some basketball outside. She kept nagging about it and I had the evil idea come up.
I suddenly changed my mind and told her ill get her something that will help her. so she sprays it ';you know where'; and all you can here is her shouting ';ohhh my but-hole hurts like hill';
I acted like I had no clue whats going on, I just lost it and went down to the floor laughing and her friend started laughing her *** off too when she realized what I did.
My girl flips the thing over and it says ';DO NOT SPRAY NEAR VAGINAL OR ANAL AREA'; So know me and her friend are spraying her a** with a hose.
I think it really hurt because it was painful enough for her to basically take every thing off and spread open that a** for the water, she was jumping and hurting sooooo bad.
OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.
So we dial poison control and they told us to use water and soap. She went to the washroom and I could hear her mopping. She went out and she was crying, she took her friend and left.
Now I guess im just looking for a way to apologize, I cant even start thinking baout that. lol
If she doesnot want to make up im gonna send her a link to this question to make her feel even more silly. Im such a b**** sometimesHow mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
How would you feel if somebody set your balls on fire? What would you do if your girlfriend ';jokingly'; put poisonous stuff on your balls and laughed it off as you squealed in pain?
Thought so. Put yourself in her shoes. Thank God she was strong enough to dump you. And trust me, if she doesn't take you back (which she won't), and you send her this link, it'll just confirm every reason why she should have broken up with you in the first place.
Honestly, you need some help if you think that physically harming somebody close to you is simply funny. I'll pray for you.How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
Yeah, this isn't even a question. That's mean and you should get something worse done to you. I hope she doesn't forgive you because she deserves better. Hurting people like that and making them cry and then sending the link to show them that they've been publicly humiliated is definitely the farthest thing from epic.
AHAHAHAHHAHHAHA I CANT STOP LAUGHING AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAH. . . ahem, anyway wut u should do is tell her straight up sorry, and if that doesnt work tell her that she can spray some of that stuff up ur butt. . . yea, relationships, tough. MUAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH BAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH
You could have had a solid relationship, sir.
You decided to play a prank that will destroy any chance of that happening.
You destroyed what could have been your only chance at happiness.
Have a nice life knowing that.
your a bad boyfriend. Its one thing to know you made a mistake, but
';OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.';
shows you dont regret it.
She deserves better.
Lol, that was mean. I think if my bf was to do taht I'll cry and would break up woth him, until I get over it. One of these day she'll probably look back and laugh about it so don't worry if she does break up with you.
o.o that sucks. at least you can admit that your a jerk, and if i were her i'd probably be pretty pissed off at you especially since it was intended.
i would break up with you, but perhaps not before feeding you a bowl of dog sht. remember that if she takes you back and invites you over for dinner now.
Well I probably dump you because that is pretty mean and if you did that to me I would have ***** slapped you right then and there.. Lol though! But I might not if you apologized very soon. :)
Lol Good Luck Though..
Facetha?
You should facetha fact that you are mean spirited!
To purposely prank someone to hurting themselves is what I call evil!
You need to seek professional counceling!
WTF DID YOU DO?
you obviously don't care about her even a little bit, and you're a ******* retard for playing a prank like that on her.
I hope she shoves itching powder up your ***.
hahaha you're a cold boyfriend! the prank was hilarious,but it was definitely something you should've pulled on a bud or another friend that's a girl. JUST NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!
wow. you ******. if i had been stupid enough to date you in the first place, i think i'd not only dump you but also do my best to beat the crap out of you. good god. you ******.
I think Its Funny. If I was her I would Just get over it. You were joking around like all guys do, ya Know! But to Be fair Spray It On your A** to See how it feels And it will Give her a good Laugh.
ohhh. my. gossh.
you butt.
i would dumpo you in an instance.
do you realize how much pain that had to be?!
idiot.
i hope she pretends to make up with you then when youre sleeping she sprays that stuff into your crotch.
you deserve to die in a fire
wow... that was really mean...
i mean... like seriously wtf?
If i was your girlfriend i would back hand you and break up asap
that was kind of an asshole-ish move on your part buddy.
grow the **** up.
id break up with you
!
That is really mean :/
that was'nt nice
your a jerk..
**** yeah but first i would of kicked his assssssssssssssss
yeah I would dump him. who wants to be with a d*ck like that
wow dude ur a douche bag? It sounds like you don't even regret it, you don't deserve your girlfriend. go fail irl
C-R-U-E-L!
well just tell her that you are really sorry and that you just wanted to play a little prank but you didnt know that i was going to bad... and just when ever you tell her something keep telling her that you are really really sorry and that you want to make up with her and be in a realationship again.... well hope it works... good luck!!!
Omg you're such a bad boyfriend why would you do that to her? Did you do because YOU wanted to break up with her becuse you're a dumb a**! It seems like you don't care about her and don't regret doing what you did because you were laughing at her when she was in tears and you Want to do that to someone else again before you die?! You don't regret it at all! I'm glad she ended things with you because she deserves sooo much better!
That was awful, you are a bad boyfriend and a bad person. You could have seriously hurt her. Plus, how humiliating for her to be in that predicament in front of a group of friends. If you were my boyfriend, I would dump you and never speak to you again.
Real men don't endanger the health of their girlfriend. Good luck being single.
yes.
you are supposed to have her back. not patronize her, and ESPECIALLY not make her feel worse when she already feels like crap.
you hurt her pride along with her backside, and even worse, she feels like she can't count on you for ****.
I'm not saying second chances don't exist, but however you do it, do it well.
p.s. do you even feel bad? you didn't mention anything close to that here... if you don't then please do your girlfriend a favor and don't even try to get back together with her
I kept telling her to get over it because we were done biking, we were gonna play some basketball outside. She kept nagging about it and I had the evil idea come up.
I suddenly changed my mind and told her ill get her something that will help her. so she sprays it ';you know where'; and all you can here is her shouting ';ohhh my but-hole hurts like hill';
I acted like I had no clue whats going on, I just lost it and went down to the floor laughing and her friend started laughing her *** off too when she realized what I did.
My girl flips the thing over and it says ';DO NOT SPRAY NEAR VAGINAL OR ANAL AREA'; So know me and her friend are spraying her a** with a hose.
I think it really hurt because it was painful enough for her to basically take every thing off and spread open that a** for the water, she was jumping and hurting sooooo bad.
OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.
So we dial poison control and they told us to use water and soap. She went to the washroom and I could hear her mopping. She went out and she was crying, she took her friend and left.
Now I guess im just looking for a way to apologize, I cant even start thinking baout that. lol
If she doesnot want to make up im gonna send her a link to this question to make her feel even more silly. Im such a b**** sometimesHow mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
How would you feel if somebody set your balls on fire? What would you do if your girlfriend ';jokingly'; put poisonous stuff on your balls and laughed it off as you squealed in pain?
Thought so. Put yourself in her shoes. Thank God she was strong enough to dump you. And trust me, if she doesn't take you back (which she won't), and you send her this link, it'll just confirm every reason why she should have broken up with you in the first place.
Honestly, you need some help if you think that physically harming somebody close to you is simply funny. I'll pray for you.How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
Yeah, this isn't even a question. That's mean and you should get something worse done to you. I hope she doesn't forgive you because she deserves better. Hurting people like that and making them cry and then sending the link to show them that they've been publicly humiliated is definitely the farthest thing from epic.
AHAHAHAHHAHHAHA I CANT STOP LAUGHING AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAH. . . ahem, anyway wut u should do is tell her straight up sorry, and if that doesnt work tell her that she can spray some of that stuff up ur butt. . . yea, relationships, tough. MUAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH BAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH
You could have had a solid relationship, sir.
You decided to play a prank that will destroy any chance of that happening.
You destroyed what could have been your only chance at happiness.
Have a nice life knowing that.
your a bad boyfriend. Its one thing to know you made a mistake, but
';OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.';
shows you dont regret it.
She deserves better.
Lol, that was mean. I think if my bf was to do taht I'll cry and would break up woth him, until I get over it. One of these day she'll probably look back and laugh about it so don't worry if she does break up with you.
o.o that sucks. at least you can admit that your a jerk, and if i were her i'd probably be pretty pissed off at you especially since it was intended.
i would break up with you, but perhaps not before feeding you a bowl of dog sht. remember that if she takes you back and invites you over for dinner now.
Well I probably dump you because that is pretty mean and if you did that to me I would have ***** slapped you right then and there.. Lol though! But I might not if you apologized very soon. :)
Lol Good Luck Though..
Facetha?
You should facetha fact that you are mean spirited!
To purposely prank someone to hurting themselves is what I call evil!
You need to seek professional counceling!
WTF DID YOU DO?
you obviously don't care about her even a little bit, and you're a ******* retard for playing a prank like that on her.
I hope she shoves itching powder up your ***.
hahaha you're a cold boyfriend! the prank was hilarious,but it was definitely something you should've pulled on a bud or another friend that's a girl. JUST NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!
wow. you ******. if i had been stupid enough to date you in the first place, i think i'd not only dump you but also do my best to beat the crap out of you. good god. you ******.
I think Its Funny. If I was her I would Just get over it. You were joking around like all guys do, ya Know! But to Be fair Spray It On your A** to See how it feels And it will Give her a good Laugh.
ohhh. my. gossh.
you butt.
i would dumpo you in an instance.
do you realize how much pain that had to be?!
idiot.
i hope she pretends to make up with you then when youre sleeping she sprays that stuff into your crotch.
you deserve to die in a fire
wow... that was really mean...
i mean... like seriously wtf?
If i was your girlfriend i would back hand you and break up asap
that was kind of an asshole-ish move on your part buddy.
grow the **** up.
id break up with you
!
That is really mean :/
that was'nt nice
your a jerk..
**** yeah but first i would of kicked his assssssssssssssss
yeah I would dump him. who wants to be with a d*ck like that
wow dude ur a douche bag? It sounds like you don't even regret it, you don't deserve your girlfriend. go fail irl
C-R-U-E-L!
well just tell her that you are really sorry and that you just wanted to play a little prank but you didnt know that i was going to bad... and just when ever you tell her something keep telling her that you are really really sorry and that you want to make up with her and be in a realationship again.... well hope it works... good luck!!!
Omg you're such a bad boyfriend why would you do that to her? Did you do because YOU wanted to break up with her becuse you're a dumb a**! It seems like you don't care about her and don't regret doing what you did because you were laughing at her when she was in tears and you Want to do that to someone else again before you die?! You don't regret it at all! I'm glad she ended things with you because she deserves sooo much better!
That was awful, you are a bad boyfriend and a bad person. You could have seriously hurt her. Plus, how humiliating for her to be in that predicament in front of a group of friends. If you were my boyfriend, I would dump you and never speak to you again.
Real men don't endanger the health of their girlfriend. Good luck being single.
yes.
you are supposed to have her back. not patronize her, and ESPECIALLY not make her feel worse when she already feels like crap.
you hurt her pride along with her backside, and even worse, she feels like she can't count on you for ****.
I'm not saying second chances don't exist, but however you do it, do it well.
p.s. do you even feel bad? you didn't mention anything close to that here... if you don't then please do your girlfriend a favor and don't even try to get back together with her
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