Imagine this...
Say your girlfriend is on her period and you make a mistake such as getting into a fight with her, or slipping up and calling her out on her pms symptoms (thus starting a fight).
Everything has gone to hell and even you yourself (as the guy) can't control yourself from yelling at her.
You both say things that you don't mean, and you both walk away from the fight angry.
How do you recover from this?
Thanks!So your girl is on her period and you accidentally pisses her off really bad. What do you do to recover?
buy her flowers and show up with them unexpectedSo your girl is on her period and you accidentally pisses her off really bad. What do you do to recover?
Okay, clue # 1 NEVER call out a woman with PMS.
2, say sorry, give her chocolate, flowers or cuddles or whatever you think would make her feel better(she may not seem to appreciate it but she does and she could pretend to be mad still.).
Also, she may bring stuff back up and complain about it or whatever, don't lose your cool and don't bother arguing back unless it's worth fighting over (It's probably not or you wouldn't care about trying to make it better now.)
Make sure to be nice tomorrow. :)
You gotta pick your battles.
tell her your sorry and never meant to do it
give her what she likes such as Chocolate, flowers, necklace, or just do a surprise such as go to her and hug her and hold her hand and pull out a rose or something
Friday, August 20, 2010
Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
I have a bunch of things that I attempted to translate in Russian (with help of an online translator). I already asked someone (to check for mistakes and they said there were many mistakes). There also some stuff that is totally untranslated. Do not translate this stuff with an Online translator (I already did that). It would help if you are a Native Russian speaker. But if you are not, You are still welcomed to answer, because I know you took ur time to try and help me. I thank everyone. Let me know which things are correctly translated/ incorrectly translate. that is why I have the stuff numbered. Do NOT translate the stuff that is in (), thats stuff to help u understand what I am saying/or why I am saying it.
34. exactly
34. точно
35. ';Come with me, You won't regret it. Let me show you how much I love you.';
35. ';Идите со мной, Вы не будете сожалеть об этом. Позвольте мне показывать Вам, насколько я люблю Вас.';
36. ';Can you hear me? Can you feel me in your arms?';
36. ';Вы можете услышать меня? Вы можете чувствовать меня в вашем оружии?';
37. ';Why are you trying to make fun of me? Do you think it is funny? What do you think it is going to do to me?';
37. ';Почему Вы пробуете высмеять меня? Вы думаете, что это забавно? Что Вы думаете, что это собирается делать ко мне?';
38. '; Do not cry to me. If you loved me, you would be here with me. If you want me, Come find me. Make up your mind.';
38. ';Не кричите ко мне. Если бы Вы любили меня, то Вы были бы здесь со мной. Если Вы хотите меня, Прибытый находят меня. Решить.';
UNTRANSLATED Things:
39. It is going to be windy today
40. it is going to be raining today
41. It is going to be cloudy today
42. It is going to be sunny today.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
45. Now enlighten me, What the hell do you know about about my life? Exactly, You do not know anything about me, My family, you know nothing ok? But I love how you think you do know everything about my life. (telling the person why do u think u know everything about me, especially you not knowing me)
46. Why is my life so interesting that you need to know everything about it?
47. You stalking me got really old, really fast the first time around and there is seriously not about to be a second time. (warning a person that they got a way with stalking me once, but the second time they will get in big trouble.)
48. Excuse me? It seems to me that I clearly told you to leave me alone. (tell that someone when they dont listen to u the first time).
49. You probably stole all of wrestling stuff (ideas, and interest in the sport) from me. Lord knows that you dont have the communication skills to even go ot a wrestling match, let alone understand the sport.( telling the person how they decided to copy of of me , try to be like me. the person does not know a thing about wrestling)
50. Are you wearing that Holy Cross (a college tee shirt) to irk your dad (drive dad crazy)? (my cousin's dad said that to me because My dad went to a different college, and was wondering if I wore a Holy cross shirt because my dad did not go to that college.)
51. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my boyfriend during a study hall and said to him ';I heard something about your girlfriend.'; You are disgusting.
52. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my sister during a study hall and said to her ';I heard something about your sister.'; You are disgusting.Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
35. Вы, Вам is right, but if you say formally. It´s better to say:
Пойдём со мной, ты не пожалеешь. Позволь мне показать, как сильно я тебя люблю.
36.Ты меня не слышишь? Можешь ощущать меня в своих руках?
(оружиe = weapon; arms)
37.Зачем ты пытаешься надсмеяться надо мной? Думаешь, это смешно? Что, ты думаешь, мне от этого будет?
38.Не кричи на меня! Если бы ты любил меня, то ты был бы здесь со мной. Если ты хочешь меня, давай, найди меня. Решись наконец.
39.Сегодня будет ветрено.
40.Сегодня будет дождь / Сегодня пойдёт дождь
41.Сегодня будет облачно (пасмурно).
42. Сегодня будет солнечно.
43.У тебя никогда не получится быть как я, даже не пытайся.
44. Откуда Вы знаете доктора Дииорио? (formally) / Откуда ты знаешь доктора Дииорио? (informally)
45. Сейчас просвети меня, что ты знаешь о моей жизни? Точно, ты ничего не знаешь обо мне, ни о моей семье? Но мне нравится, как ты думаешь, что знаешь абсолютно всё о моей жизни.
46. Почему моя жизнь настолько интересна, что тебе надо всё о ней знать?
47. Твои попытки подкрасться ко мне уже не новы. Тебя удалось это однажды, но не получится повторить этого. (I hope I‘ve understood right)
48. Извини? Мне кажется, я уже уже просила оставить меня в покое.
49. Возможно, ты перенял(а) у меня интерес к борьбе (реслингу). Бог знает, у тебя даже нет навыков общения, чтобы попасть на матч, оставь меня в покое, я понимаю спорт.
50. Ты носишь футболку Holy Cross, чтобы вывести своего отца?
51. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моему парнем в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей девушке». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
52. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моей сестре в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей сестре». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
(in brackets if you say to a female)Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
39. It is going to be windy today
Будет ветрено сегодня.
40. it is going to be raining today
Пойдёт дождь сегодня.
41. It is going to be cloudy today
Будет облачно сегодня.
42. It is going to be sunny today.
Будет сольнечно сегодня.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
Вы никогда не будете меня. Даже не думаете.
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
Откуда Вы знаете Doctor Diiorio?
That's about all I can do.
I gotta tell you, kid. Some of this crap you want translated really makes me wonder about you.
34. exactly
34. точно
35. ';Come with me, You won't regret it. Let me show you how much I love you.';
35. ';Идите со мной, Вы не будете сожалеть об этом. Позвольте мне показывать Вам, насколько я люблю Вас.';
36. ';Can you hear me? Can you feel me in your arms?';
36. ';Вы можете услышать меня? Вы можете чувствовать меня в вашем оружии?';
37. ';Why are you trying to make fun of me? Do you think it is funny? What do you think it is going to do to me?';
37. ';Почему Вы пробуете высмеять меня? Вы думаете, что это забавно? Что Вы думаете, что это собирается делать ко мне?';
38. '; Do not cry to me. If you loved me, you would be here with me. If you want me, Come find me. Make up your mind.';
38. ';Не кричите ко мне. Если бы Вы любили меня, то Вы были бы здесь со мной. Если Вы хотите меня, Прибытый находят меня. Решить.';
UNTRANSLATED Things:
39. It is going to be windy today
40. it is going to be raining today
41. It is going to be cloudy today
42. It is going to be sunny today.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
45. Now enlighten me, What the hell do you know about about my life? Exactly, You do not know anything about me, My family, you know nothing ok? But I love how you think you do know everything about my life. (telling the person why do u think u know everything about me, especially you not knowing me)
46. Why is my life so interesting that you need to know everything about it?
47. You stalking me got really old, really fast the first time around and there is seriously not about to be a second time. (warning a person that they got a way with stalking me once, but the second time they will get in big trouble.)
48. Excuse me? It seems to me that I clearly told you to leave me alone. (tell that someone when they dont listen to u the first time).
49. You probably stole all of wrestling stuff (ideas, and interest in the sport) from me. Lord knows that you dont have the communication skills to even go ot a wrestling match, let alone understand the sport.( telling the person how they decided to copy of of me , try to be like me. the person does not know a thing about wrestling)
50. Are you wearing that Holy Cross (a college tee shirt) to irk your dad (drive dad crazy)? (my cousin's dad said that to me because My dad went to a different college, and was wondering if I wore a Holy cross shirt because my dad did not go to that college.)
51. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my boyfriend during a study hall and said to him ';I heard something about your girlfriend.'; You are disgusting.
52. You do not have any friends, how could you? The fact that you walked up to my sister during a study hall and said to her ';I heard something about your sister.'; You are disgusting.Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
35. Вы, Вам is right, but if you say formally. It´s better to say:
Пойдём со мной, ты не пожалеешь. Позволь мне показать, как сильно я тебя люблю.
36.Ты меня не слышишь? Можешь ощущать меня в своих руках?
(оружиe = weapon; arms)
37.Зачем ты пытаешься надсмеяться надо мной? Думаешь, это смешно? Что, ты думаешь, мне от этого будет?
38.Не кричи на меня! Если бы ты любил меня, то ты был бы здесь со мной. Если ты хочешь меня, давай, найди меня. Решись наконец.
39.Сегодня будет ветрено.
40.Сегодня будет дождь / Сегодня пойдёт дождь
41.Сегодня будет облачно (пасмурно).
42. Сегодня будет солнечно.
43.У тебя никогда не получится быть как я, даже не пытайся.
44. Откуда Вы знаете доктора Дииорио? (formally) / Откуда ты знаешь доктора Дииорио? (informally)
45. Сейчас просвети меня, что ты знаешь о моей жизни? Точно, ты ничего не знаешь обо мне, ни о моей семье? Но мне нравится, как ты думаешь, что знаешь абсолютно всё о моей жизни.
46. Почему моя жизнь настолько интересна, что тебе надо всё о ней знать?
47. Твои попытки подкрасться ко мне уже не новы. Тебя удалось это однажды, но не получится повторить этого. (I hope I‘ve understood right)
48. Извини? Мне кажется, я уже уже просила оставить меня в покое.
49. Возможно, ты перенял(а) у меня интерес к борьбе (реслингу). Бог знает, у тебя даже нет навыков общения, чтобы попасть на матч, оставь меня в покое, я понимаю спорт.
50. Ты носишь футболку Holy Cross, чтобы вывести своего отца?
51. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моему парнем в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей девушке». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
52. У тебя нет друзей? Как ты мог(ла)? Ты же подходил(а) к моей сестре в школьном вестибюле и говорил(а) ему: «Я слышал(а) кое-что о твоей сестре». Ты отвратителен (отвратительна).
(in brackets if you say to a female)Russian Translation/correction Part ThrEE?
39. It is going to be windy today
Будет ветрено сегодня.
40. it is going to be raining today
Пойдёт дождь сегодня.
41. It is going to be cloudy today
Будет облачно сегодня.
42. It is going to be sunny today.
Будет сольнечно сегодня.
43; You cannot be be so do not even try (telling someone they can never be like me )
Вы никогда не будете меня. Даже не думаете.
44. How do you know Doctor Diiorio? I am suspicious. (your asking a person (that I dont know) how know my cousin's dad.)
Откуда Вы знаете Doctor Diiorio?
That's about all I can do.
I gotta tell you, kid. Some of this crap you want translated really makes me wonder about you.
Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Im 22 and Ive been in a relationship for over 2 years, but Ive known him since high school. He goes to college thats a few hours away so its a long distance relationship. We have (or had) a lot of trust but this summer has been a downward spiral of our entire relationship and I dont know what to do! I dont know if im overreacting or not. So i need some advice.
Ok I see my boyfriend about once every 3 months. He came home from school this summer and we were both broke and taking summer classes so we didnt have money to really do anything fun, which is fine with me. My problem is though. He spent a weekend away with his friends (which he lied about and i didnt know he was going until he was already gone) Anyway i was pissed but he said he only spent 15 dollars the entire time, and I believe him cuz he went somewhere thats really cheap. But still!
Do i have a right to be pissed? In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority, he knew i didnt want him to go but he lied and went anyway! And then on top of that he NEVER takes me anywhereee complaining about being broke but then he spends a weekend away! There are other waysss that are cheap to make your girlfriend feel special but he doesnt do ANY of those things ever...unless, of course, hes trying to make up for something. Why cant he just do nice things without me having to TELL him or get MAD at him?!?
And thats only half of it. On top of that whole situation he confessed that he went to get coffee with this girl he knew from high school and paid for her and everything...wtf? like a date? He said nothing happened and it was just once but WTF?! You have a girlfriend thats already unhappy that we never go anywhere cuz we are broke college students and then u go and take another girl out behind my back?!
So my question is..Am I being crazy? Am I overreacting?
Or is he just using me? because thats the way it feels!
Does he just not give a **** or is he just oblivious to my feelings??
I have no idea what to do. Weve been fighting for the past 2 weeks and Im on the verge of leaving him. But i love him and want it to work but NOT with a guy that doesnt care about me.
Hes apologized profusely and doesnt want to break up but I dont know what else to do to get my point across that this is NOT ok behavior and thats not how u treat your girlfriend!
If I take him back, is anything even going to changee?? I doubt it...
What do I doooo??Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Let him go, my dear. In his mind, he is leaving you already. After being away at college and only seeing each other every 3 months- he has become accustomed to being without you. He doesn't miss you anymore. Set him free. Some relationships just don't last because 2 people develop in different directions- and this is especially true of couples who meet young. Even though you have known him since high school doesn't mean you have to hang on, and doesn't mean you cannot make room for somebody new. Start dating in your college because I have the feeling that he is, too. If he isn't then I think he wants to. He might be commended for his honesty towards you- but when it came to his weekend with the guys- he felt he had to lie to you, because he wanted it but knew you would create a scene. He wants these things, and it wont last with him trying to please you without pleasing himself.
Let him go with a hug. He doesn't want the same things as you anymore. Creating scenes wont help and will only make you feel more and more like a witch, which I am sure you are not.Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
whats love got to do with it? I can look back to the past about all the guys i ';loved';...im glad i moved on with my life. Sounds like its time for a new chapter for you. Leave him.
move on sweetie.
agree with first post
tell him your feelings straight out no strings attached
';In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority';
Do you make HIS happiness your priority?
You sound like a ';score keeper';. That's no way to be in a relationship. Give until you can't give anymore, without regard for what you get in return.
I doesn't really seem like he did anything that bad. He likes to hang out with his friends, and he needs a break every once in a while. Like he told you, it's not like he's been spending all that much when he's with his friends. You just need to give him some room. So what if he got coffee with a friend of his from high school? Many guys have girls that we hang out with every once in a while. I think you should do what you like to do, just as long as you don't demand anything from him. Most people don't like to feel like dating is an obligation. Most guys just see dating as fun and relaxing, and sometimes overlook the needs to their girlfriends. But as soon as the relationship becomes demanding, he's not going to want it anymore.
I suggest you get him something nice and maybe do something new and creative for him. That might add a spark to your relationship. If you want something to change about the relationship, there is no way you are going to change him. Take him or leave him. But you can change your own attitude and make him want you more. If you add to the relationship rather than taking away form it through fighting and arguing, you'll become more attractive to him, and he will want to see you rather than feel obligated to see you.
Did you read this jumble of complaints before you posted it? Everything is about you, poor little you, and how you try to control that guy. GET A CLUE! Long distance relationships don't work for very long. He is young and full of testosterone; what do you think he is doing during the three months he is away from you, playing the violin?
You wrote a thousand clues that tell you he isn't into you. Release him and let him go and move on with your life or you are going to be very miserable. I don't think he's around long enough to be using you, but you could just happen to be a booty call when nothing else is available.
He can't treat you that dirty unless you allow him to. It's time you put a stop to it and pretend he was a very bad dream.
he does love you and you love him, but your both unhappy -- he is unhappy also. you need to move on, staying together is not a good idea, it hurts like hell, but you'll both get over it as soon as you meet other people.
Aggggggg! I feel your frustration. Sometimes guys are just oblivious, they dont get it. It takes practice and yes you telling him. You wouldnt think you would have tell or teach some one to be considerate of anothers feelings, but if they havent had to do that you suffer for it by having to teach them. The paying for another girls coffee totally not acceptable, that is like a date. I would not let that fade away, and leaving and not even telling you ouch! The fact that he still wants to be with you shows he cares, but the way he is treating you is unexceptable. You teach others how to treat you. Its gonna be a hard decision to make if he is worth teaching or not with him treating you the way he is already.
Good luck!
I have been in a 3 year relationship that ended 6 months ago with a guy who i also had to TELL to do things for me. And we shouldn't have to. They should just know to do them. However, doing things AFTER they are told to most of the time is ONLY because they were told to do them and to shut us up. My ex fiance apologized to me profusely many many many times and the reality of it is that he never changed. I also loved him, but he left me. I mean, it takes two to tango. Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you tell him what to do. I know this and am guilty of it as well. So what you can attempt to do if you love him is sit his *** down and talk tings over. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he wants out of the relationship. Just like i had this problem, it sounds like you have a communication failure. Talk first and then see where you two stand and if it's worth moving on together or part ways. Good Luck girl. Hope this helped you.
Dump that spaz. He knows you wanna go and hang out with him, yet he spends his money on another chick???????? Sounds fishy. Time to move on hun!
i know what u mena 2 years is a lot of memories, love and time u will throwing away but as i was reading this i could not help and thik that he is not right for treating u this way. really.. i guy should make his gf happiness a priority, ! and spend just a lil on her or make up w a good attitude, or nice sweet things.. and y is he going out w another girl and paying?.... yes, sounded like a date that he confessed to.. look, its going to be hard as hell and ur going to feel like u can work through this, and he will change but chances are he is not... leave him and be on ur own to experience diff. emotions and situations.... besides, he is away which will make it easier.. goo d luck, u know what the right thing to do is, so just do it,,,
i dont think he is going to change, but u gotta stand up for yourself. give him like a warning that if he doesnt make u more of a priority, than u will leave. give him some time and if he doesn't chanhe, levae. im sure u r having a hard time, i feel for u! good luck and pray to God.
well it sounds as if your mind is made up. i sense that he is feeling trapped in a long relationship and his friends are out jumping in bed with anything that moves and inside hes a little jealous, but does love to be with you. the problem is that you cant change someone they will only change if they want to. you most likely brake up with with him and not date for a bit. It will feel lonely but it will help you focus on school and date when you have the time to put into a relationship because its a lot of work. If he really loves you you will be his number one priority and everything else will come second.
Make The Question Shorter Then i will answer properly.
If it's something to do with your personal life then decide for yourself don't ask the strangers of yahoo XDskin care hair spray
Ok I see my boyfriend about once every 3 months. He came home from school this summer and we were both broke and taking summer classes so we didnt have money to really do anything fun, which is fine with me. My problem is though. He spent a weekend away with his friends (which he lied about and i didnt know he was going until he was already gone) Anyway i was pissed but he said he only spent 15 dollars the entire time, and I believe him cuz he went somewhere thats really cheap. But still!
Do i have a right to be pissed? In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority, he knew i didnt want him to go but he lied and went anyway! And then on top of that he NEVER takes me anywhereee complaining about being broke but then he spends a weekend away! There are other waysss that are cheap to make your girlfriend feel special but he doesnt do ANY of those things ever...unless, of course, hes trying to make up for something. Why cant he just do nice things without me having to TELL him or get MAD at him?!?
And thats only half of it. On top of that whole situation he confessed that he went to get coffee with this girl he knew from high school and paid for her and everything...wtf? like a date? He said nothing happened and it was just once but WTF?! You have a girlfriend thats already unhappy that we never go anywhere cuz we are broke college students and then u go and take another girl out behind my back?!
So my question is..Am I being crazy? Am I overreacting?
Or is he just using me? because thats the way it feels!
Does he just not give a **** or is he just oblivious to my feelings??
I have no idea what to do. Weve been fighting for the past 2 weeks and Im on the verge of leaving him. But i love him and want it to work but NOT with a guy that doesnt care about me.
Hes apologized profusely and doesnt want to break up but I dont know what else to do to get my point across that this is NOT ok behavior and thats not how u treat your girlfriend!
If I take him back, is anything even going to changee?? I doubt it...
What do I doooo??Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
Let him go, my dear. In his mind, he is leaving you already. After being away at college and only seeing each other every 3 months- he has become accustomed to being without you. He doesn't miss you anymore. Set him free. Some relationships just don't last because 2 people develop in different directions- and this is especially true of couples who meet young. Even though you have known him since high school doesn't mean you have to hang on, and doesn't mean you cannot make room for somebody new. Start dating in your college because I have the feeling that he is, too. If he isn't then I think he wants to. He might be commended for his honesty towards you- but when it came to his weekend with the guys- he felt he had to lie to you, because he wanted it but knew you would create a scene. He wants these things, and it wont last with him trying to please you without pleasing himself.
Let him go with a hug. He doesn't want the same things as you anymore. Creating scenes wont help and will only make you feel more and more like a witch, which I am sure you are not.Should I stay or should I go? I love him!?
whats love got to do with it? I can look back to the past about all the guys i ';loved';...im glad i moved on with my life. Sounds like its time for a new chapter for you. Leave him.
move on sweetie.
agree with first post
tell him your feelings straight out no strings attached
';In my mind most boyfriends would make their girlfriends happiness a priority';
Do you make HIS happiness your priority?
You sound like a ';score keeper';. That's no way to be in a relationship. Give until you can't give anymore, without regard for what you get in return.
I doesn't really seem like he did anything that bad. He likes to hang out with his friends, and he needs a break every once in a while. Like he told you, it's not like he's been spending all that much when he's with his friends. You just need to give him some room. So what if he got coffee with a friend of his from high school? Many guys have girls that we hang out with every once in a while. I think you should do what you like to do, just as long as you don't demand anything from him. Most people don't like to feel like dating is an obligation. Most guys just see dating as fun and relaxing, and sometimes overlook the needs to their girlfriends. But as soon as the relationship becomes demanding, he's not going to want it anymore.
I suggest you get him something nice and maybe do something new and creative for him. That might add a spark to your relationship. If you want something to change about the relationship, there is no way you are going to change him. Take him or leave him. But you can change your own attitude and make him want you more. If you add to the relationship rather than taking away form it through fighting and arguing, you'll become more attractive to him, and he will want to see you rather than feel obligated to see you.
Did you read this jumble of complaints before you posted it? Everything is about you, poor little you, and how you try to control that guy. GET A CLUE! Long distance relationships don't work for very long. He is young and full of testosterone; what do you think he is doing during the three months he is away from you, playing the violin?
You wrote a thousand clues that tell you he isn't into you. Release him and let him go and move on with your life or you are going to be very miserable. I don't think he's around long enough to be using you, but you could just happen to be a booty call when nothing else is available.
He can't treat you that dirty unless you allow him to. It's time you put a stop to it and pretend he was a very bad dream.
he does love you and you love him, but your both unhappy -- he is unhappy also. you need to move on, staying together is not a good idea, it hurts like hell, but you'll both get over it as soon as you meet other people.
Aggggggg! I feel your frustration. Sometimes guys are just oblivious, they dont get it. It takes practice and yes you telling him. You wouldnt think you would have tell or teach some one to be considerate of anothers feelings, but if they havent had to do that you suffer for it by having to teach them. The paying for another girls coffee totally not acceptable, that is like a date. I would not let that fade away, and leaving and not even telling you ouch! The fact that he still wants to be with you shows he cares, but the way he is treating you is unexceptable. You teach others how to treat you. Its gonna be a hard decision to make if he is worth teaching or not with him treating you the way he is already.
Good luck!
I have been in a 3 year relationship that ended 6 months ago with a guy who i also had to TELL to do things for me. And we shouldn't have to. They should just know to do them. However, doing things AFTER they are told to most of the time is ONLY because they were told to do them and to shut us up. My ex fiance apologized to me profusely many many many times and the reality of it is that he never changed. I also loved him, but he left me. I mean, it takes two to tango. Maybe he doesn't like the fact that you tell him what to do. I know this and am guilty of it as well. So what you can attempt to do if you love him is sit his *** down and talk tings over. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he wants out of the relationship. Just like i had this problem, it sounds like you have a communication failure. Talk first and then see where you two stand and if it's worth moving on together or part ways. Good Luck girl. Hope this helped you.
Dump that spaz. He knows you wanna go and hang out with him, yet he spends his money on another chick???????? Sounds fishy. Time to move on hun!
i know what u mena 2 years is a lot of memories, love and time u will throwing away but as i was reading this i could not help and thik that he is not right for treating u this way. really.. i guy should make his gf happiness a priority, ! and spend just a lil on her or make up w a good attitude, or nice sweet things.. and y is he going out w another girl and paying?.... yes, sounded like a date that he confessed to.. look, its going to be hard as hell and ur going to feel like u can work through this, and he will change but chances are he is not... leave him and be on ur own to experience diff. emotions and situations.... besides, he is away which will make it easier.. goo d luck, u know what the right thing to do is, so just do it,,,
i dont think he is going to change, but u gotta stand up for yourself. give him like a warning that if he doesnt make u more of a priority, than u will leave. give him some time and if he doesn't chanhe, levae. im sure u r having a hard time, i feel for u! good luck and pray to God.
well it sounds as if your mind is made up. i sense that he is feeling trapped in a long relationship and his friends are out jumping in bed with anything that moves and inside hes a little jealous, but does love to be with you. the problem is that you cant change someone they will only change if they want to. you most likely brake up with with him and not date for a bit. It will feel lonely but it will help you focus on school and date when you have the time to put into a relationship because its a lot of work. If he really loves you you will be his number one priority and everything else will come second.
Make The Question Shorter Then i will answer properly.
If it's something to do with your personal life then decide for yourself don't ask the strangers of yahoo XD
How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
My girlfriend broke up with me recently because she found out that i slept( I repeat, ';slept'; not an affair, it was just that one night) with another girl almost a year ago. apparently, one of her nosey friend dug it up and told her. I really want her back. how can i make her forgive me for my mistakes? We have been living together for 2 years, now she just totally disapeared from my life and wont talk to me.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
If you're married, it's an affair. If you're just boyfriend, girlfriend, you went out on her. So, affair is correct. Don't matter if it's 1 or 100 times. An affair is an affair.
A woman scorn......You have to start all over again. You threw away 2 years of this relationship for a one night stand. You've broken the cardinal rule. She may forgive you, but she will never forget. She may come back, but at what level? In a relationship, the person hurt is the judge and jury and right now you're sentenced. How long? Depends on her. Bow down man and pay your dues.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
**** a man in front of her, than she believe that you don't mean anything when you sleep with that woman...
Move on. You f'd up with her. It will be too hard for her to let that one go. Why is it so hard for guys to keep their ***** in their pants?
I just can't believe you people.... You manage to find a good girl, and you just throw her away by sleeping with someone else. You're going to die old and alone.
yeah. good luck with that one chump!!!
You make it sound like it doesn't count because it was only once.
It doesn't matter if it was once or one hundred %26amp; once. A cheater is a cheater. You should have thought of the consequences before you did it at all.
I am glad she won't talk to you. she deserves better than you.
Admit to her you made a mistake .maybe shell forgive you . But seriously you should just move ahead . You made a mistake and now youre paying for it .
Live with it .
You don't deserve another chance. You will never get her trust back, which is good because you'd probably just break it again. You make it sound like because it was only once it wasn't actually cheating. A cheater is a cheater, it doesn't matter how many times or with how many people. You're a pathetic excuse for a human being who deserves to die alone. You didn't care about your girlfriend. If you did you wouldn't have cheated on her. And her friend did the right thing. She wasn't being nosy, she was looking out for the best interest of someone she cared about. I hope you never hear from your ex girlfriend again. She deserves a lot better than a disgusting pig like you.
you made the mistake of sleeping with another girl if you really wanted your girlfriend maybe you shouldn't have slept with the other girl bad choice....your choice
sit down with her and say i want u back say the things she wasnt giving u im sure she would understand
you don't deserve it!
to be honest with you you guys can become friends again but not like before and she will never trust you again.
i don't think u should go for her anymore u broke her and in ur quest u didn't say anything about being in love with her so leave her alone!
She deserves better than you!
DOnt expect her to want you back.
you ******** heartbreaker.
poor girl.
i don't blame her for leaving you. if u are trying to look for some support u are not going to get anything, cheaters are one of the worst type of people in the world. u will never get her back she deserves way better than u scum!
If you're married, it's an affair. If you're just boyfriend, girlfriend, you went out on her. So, affair is correct. Don't matter if it's 1 or 100 times. An affair is an affair.
A woman scorn......You have to start all over again. You threw away 2 years of this relationship for a one night stand. You've broken the cardinal rule. She may forgive you, but she will never forget. She may come back, but at what level? In a relationship, the person hurt is the judge and jury and right now you're sentenced. How long? Depends on her. Bow down man and pay your dues.How do gain your girlfriend's trust back, after she caught you sleeping with another woman?
**** a man in front of her, than she believe that you don't mean anything when you sleep with that woman...
Move on. You f'd up with her. It will be too hard for her to let that one go. Why is it so hard for guys to keep their ***** in their pants?
I just can't believe you people.... You manage to find a good girl, and you just throw her away by sleeping with someone else. You're going to die old and alone.
yeah. good luck with that one chump!!!
You make it sound like it doesn't count because it was only once.
It doesn't matter if it was once or one hundred %26amp; once. A cheater is a cheater. You should have thought of the consequences before you did it at all.
I am glad she won't talk to you. she deserves better than you.
Admit to her you made a mistake .maybe shell forgive you . But seriously you should just move ahead . You made a mistake and now youre paying for it .
Live with it .
You don't deserve another chance. You will never get her trust back, which is good because you'd probably just break it again. You make it sound like because it was only once it wasn't actually cheating. A cheater is a cheater, it doesn't matter how many times or with how many people. You're a pathetic excuse for a human being who deserves to die alone. You didn't care about your girlfriend. If you did you wouldn't have cheated on her. And her friend did the right thing. She wasn't being nosy, she was looking out for the best interest of someone she cared about. I hope you never hear from your ex girlfriend again. She deserves a lot better than a disgusting pig like you.
you made the mistake of sleeping with another girl if you really wanted your girlfriend maybe you shouldn't have slept with the other girl bad choice....your choice
sit down with her and say i want u back say the things she wasnt giving u im sure she would understand
you don't deserve it!
to be honest with you you guys can become friends again but not like before and she will never trust you again.
i don't think u should go for her anymore u broke her and in ur quest u didn't say anything about being in love with her so leave her alone!
She deserves better than you!
DOnt expect her to want you back.
you ******** heartbreaker.
poor girl.
i don't blame her for leaving you. if u are trying to look for some support u are not going to get anything, cheaters are one of the worst type of people in the world. u will never get her back she deserves way better than u scum!
Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
THIS IS A SERIOUS QUESTION AND I APPRECIATE ALL THOSE WHO WILL TAKE THE TIME TO ANSWER
I'm trying to get more opinions as possible in order not to mess things up more than they already are, so here's the story. (My Friend name will be Mark and his Girlfriend Mary)
So at thebeginningg me and mark were really enemies, we uses to hang out with the same group of friends but always ended up fighting we sometimes also tried to beat each other up. During the last two years we became really gr8 friends, something which I can't explain how it happened. We're always at each others house, call each other many times a day and send sms, we're very caring of each other. A year ago or so my friend Mark started dating Mary a girl which I already knew and unfortunately we were never on good terms. Mary started making things difficult between us to and tried several times to break up ourfriendshipp always without success. She always told mark to stop coming at my house and not to call me and stuff like that (Mark always kept coming and calling) she would always be annoyed when I called him and other things like that, in short she wanted the relationship between me and my buddy to end because she was jealous. It has been going like this for nearly a year, and mark can't handle it anymore now. Yesterday he broke up with her, when I tried to cheer him up, he told that he didn't want to discuss the issue coz at the moment he was feeling angry both at me and at Mary due to the fact that he felt too much pressure from both sides to end one relationship or another. I am being completely hones when I say that I never told him to break up with her, on the contrary I told him some time ago (more than once) that it would have been better for us (me and mark) to take some time away from each other coz our friendship was harming his relationship with mary and for me the most important thing was to see him happy, I never wanted him to feel bad as he is now andI knew that the situation was no longer bearable so I had decided to step down. At the moment mark speaks to both of us but has made it clear that he needs to take a decision and choose between the two. It find it something very ridiculous for a person to end up in such a situation to choose between your best buddy and your girlfriend. I've been feeling very bad over the last week, and especially the last two days.
Something which I did not mention is that I'm bi-polar and I really find it difficult to handle situations like these, and the pills seem that are not helping anymore. I fear that I will lose my best m8 ever, just because of his jealous girlfriend, when I did nothing wrong. I am not trying to talk him out of this decision coz I feel that he needs to decide by himself. thanks for all those who will take time to answer my question, I am literally desperate I don;t know what to do I don;t want to lose my buddy and I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because, I just wish that she was never jealous and that his whole situation would have never happened.
Thanks once again.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Friends will come and go in your life. True friends will stand the test of time. Long behind jealous girlfriends, and meaningless fights. If your friendship was meant to be, you two will be friends.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Awh thats really sad,
I just felt bad coz i read your question and didnt no how to answer but then when no1 elce has answered i thought it would be nice, sorry if im not very helpful then X
I think you should write him a letter/e-mail/card saying your sorry for making things so awkward with him and Mary and you, and then tell him how you feel about it that you dont think that he should need to break up with her and that you just want him to be happy because you can make more friends.
I no men dont like talking about feelings so dont go on too much, just kinda let him no. Also u cud rremind him that your bi-polar and this is hard for you too.
U cud try just talking to him about it but it might be harder for u to come across right.
Hope i helped X
Go and speak to him and help him plan something romantic for his girlfriend to prove that you are on his side and don't want them to split because of you. If this works, ask him to set up a little 'meeting' at a cafe or something between just you and the girlfriend and explain that you are both in his life and that you don't want to make things difficult. Ask if there's anything particular that she feels you have done to upset her. Does he maybe have a hobby that she isn't interested in, so the two of you could do together?
Also, are you 100% sure that she has been trying to split you and your mate up. I remember once when I first got with a boyfriend I would tell my friends that he didn't want me to go out, because I didn't want to admit that I was soooo wrapped up with my new bloke that I just wanted to spend every second with him. Obviously, in time that wore off tho and things went back to normal.
She sound like a really needy girl and needs be proven to that you are not trying to take her guy away from her. It must be hard for you seeings you haven't done anything to suggest you will, but evidently your friend is not proving to her that he's all hers either.
You sound like a good friend, so stick with it.
you should try to talk to mary. ask her what her problem with you is. you have been friends for a longer time than she has been around. the three of you need to go out and have fun for mark.
Maybe you should write Mary and e-mail or something explaining to her that you don't want to mess up her relationship with Mark. It wasn't your intention. Explain to her that he is your best friend, and that she should respect that, even if she doesn't like you, it's not her life, and she should let him be friends with who he wants. Tell her that he's made his choice, to get used to it. That he appreciates your friendship more than he did the relationship, but if the two of you work in harmony it will make Mark really happy. If she truly cares about him, then she would realize that it's not just about her, that it's about him, and making his life completely happy. Isn't that what a girlfriend is for? Tell Mark that he can make the decisions he wants in his life, that it's up to no one else but himself. Things will work out fine, don't worry. (:
I'm trying to get more opinions as possible in order not to mess things up more than they already are, so here's the story. (My Friend name will be Mark and his Girlfriend Mary)
So at thebeginningg me and mark were really enemies, we uses to hang out with the same group of friends but always ended up fighting we sometimes also tried to beat each other up. During the last two years we became really gr8 friends, something which I can't explain how it happened. We're always at each others house, call each other many times a day and send sms, we're very caring of each other. A year ago or so my friend Mark started dating Mary a girl which I already knew and unfortunately we were never on good terms. Mary started making things difficult between us to and tried several times to break up ourfriendshipp always without success. She always told mark to stop coming at my house and not to call me and stuff like that (Mark always kept coming and calling) she would always be annoyed when I called him and other things like that, in short she wanted the relationship between me and my buddy to end because she was jealous. It has been going like this for nearly a year, and mark can't handle it anymore now. Yesterday he broke up with her, when I tried to cheer him up, he told that he didn't want to discuss the issue coz at the moment he was feeling angry both at me and at Mary due to the fact that he felt too much pressure from both sides to end one relationship or another. I am being completely hones when I say that I never told him to break up with her, on the contrary I told him some time ago (more than once) that it would have been better for us (me and mark) to take some time away from each other coz our friendship was harming his relationship with mary and for me the most important thing was to see him happy, I never wanted him to feel bad as he is now andI knew that the situation was no longer bearable so I had decided to step down. At the moment mark speaks to both of us but has made it clear that he needs to take a decision and choose between the two. It find it something very ridiculous for a person to end up in such a situation to choose between your best buddy and your girlfriend. I've been feeling very bad over the last week, and especially the last two days.
Something which I did not mention is that I'm bi-polar and I really find it difficult to handle situations like these, and the pills seem that are not helping anymore. I fear that I will lose my best m8 ever, just because of his jealous girlfriend, when I did nothing wrong. I am not trying to talk him out of this decision coz I feel that he needs to decide by himself. thanks for all those who will take time to answer my question, I am literally desperate I don;t know what to do I don;t want to lose my buddy and I don't want him to break up with his girlfriend because, I just wish that she was never jealous and that his whole situation would have never happened.
Thanks once again.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Friends will come and go in your life. True friends will stand the test of time. Long behind jealous girlfriends, and meaningless fights. If your friendship was meant to be, you two will be friends.Losing your best buddy because of his Girlfriend . .?
Awh thats really sad,
I just felt bad coz i read your question and didnt no how to answer but then when no1 elce has answered i thought it would be nice, sorry if im not very helpful then X
I think you should write him a letter/e-mail/card saying your sorry for making things so awkward with him and Mary and you, and then tell him how you feel about it that you dont think that he should need to break up with her and that you just want him to be happy because you can make more friends.
I no men dont like talking about feelings so dont go on too much, just kinda let him no. Also u cud rremind him that your bi-polar and this is hard for you too.
U cud try just talking to him about it but it might be harder for u to come across right.
Hope i helped X
Go and speak to him and help him plan something romantic for his girlfriend to prove that you are on his side and don't want them to split because of you. If this works, ask him to set up a little 'meeting' at a cafe or something between just you and the girlfriend and explain that you are both in his life and that you don't want to make things difficult. Ask if there's anything particular that she feels you have done to upset her. Does he maybe have a hobby that she isn't interested in, so the two of you could do together?
Also, are you 100% sure that she has been trying to split you and your mate up. I remember once when I first got with a boyfriend I would tell my friends that he didn't want me to go out, because I didn't want to admit that I was soooo wrapped up with my new bloke that I just wanted to spend every second with him. Obviously, in time that wore off tho and things went back to normal.
She sound like a really needy girl and needs be proven to that you are not trying to take her guy away from her. It must be hard for you seeings you haven't done anything to suggest you will, but evidently your friend is not proving to her that he's all hers either.
You sound like a good friend, so stick with it.
you should try to talk to mary. ask her what her problem with you is. you have been friends for a longer time than she has been around. the three of you need to go out and have fun for mark.
Maybe you should write Mary and e-mail or something explaining to her that you don't want to mess up her relationship with Mark. It wasn't your intention. Explain to her that he is your best friend, and that she should respect that, even if she doesn't like you, it's not her life, and she should let him be friends with who he wants. Tell her that he's made his choice, to get used to it. That he appreciates your friendship more than he did the relationship, but if the two of you work in harmony it will make Mark really happy. If she truly cares about him, then she would realize that it's not just about her, that it's about him, and making his life completely happy. Isn't that what a girlfriend is for? Tell Mark that he can make the decisions he wants in his life, that it's up to no one else but himself. Things will work out fine, don't worry. (:
Girls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Me(18) and my girlfriend(19) broke up about a month and a half ago. after a few weeks she said she missed me as her boyfriend but didnt think it was fair she treated me bad when she was stressed. then later for awhile we didnt say a word to each other. Then she tells me she missed me and couldnt connect with other dudes like her and i did then started getting upset about how she ruined our relationship and treated me badly. i comforted her and we have been talking and joking and teasing ever since. She calls me Jare rather than jared and aww's stuff i say and takes the time to actually talk to me. does she want me back? your proly gonna be like ';how do you feel'; this girl was my first love, she means everything to me.
i got answers to that question but now what do i actually SAY to her, what would make a girl melt? i need legit feedback, no bologna about how i'll do anything and what not, i dont want to sound desperateGirls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Start off by telling her that ';she's your first love and she means everything to you';. Then try to go further with your emotions. Girls are emotional creatures, so it helps us connect with guys better when they're comfortable with their emotions as well.
i got answers to that question but now what do i actually SAY to her, what would make a girl melt? i need legit feedback, no bologna about how i'll do anything and what not, i dont want to sound desperateGirls, what would you want me to say to you? what would make your aww and blush?
Start off by telling her that ';she's your first love and she means everything to you';. Then try to go further with your emotions. Girls are emotional creatures, so it helps us connect with guys better when they're comfortable with their emotions as well.
How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
So me and my girlfriend and her friend were biking together. Weve been biking for like 5 hours and my girlfriend started complaining about rash in her a**.
I kept telling her to get over it because we were done biking, we were gonna play some basketball outside. She kept nagging about it and I had the evil idea come up.
I suddenly changed my mind and told her ill get her something that will help her. so she sprays it ';you know where'; and all you can here is her shouting ';ohhh my but-hole hurts like hill';
I acted like I had no clue whats going on, I just lost it and went down to the floor laughing and her friend started laughing her *** off too when she realized what I did.
My girl flips the thing over and it says ';DO NOT SPRAY NEAR VAGINAL OR ANAL AREA'; So know me and her friend are spraying her a** with a hose.
I think it really hurt because it was painful enough for her to basically take every thing off and spread open that a** for the water, she was jumping and hurting sooooo bad.
OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.
So we dial poison control and they told us to use water and soap. She went to the washroom and I could hear her mopping. She went out and she was crying, she took her friend and left.
Now I guess im just looking for a way to apologize, I cant even start thinking baout that. lol
If she doesnot want to make up im gonna send her a link to this question to make her feel even more silly. Im such a b**** sometimesHow mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
How would you feel if somebody set your balls on fire? What would you do if your girlfriend ';jokingly'; put poisonous stuff on your balls and laughed it off as you squealed in pain?
Thought so. Put yourself in her shoes. Thank God she was strong enough to dump you. And trust me, if she doesn't take you back (which she won't), and you send her this link, it'll just confirm every reason why she should have broken up with you in the first place.
Honestly, you need some help if you think that physically harming somebody close to you is simply funny. I'll pray for you.How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
Yeah, this isn't even a question. That's mean and you should get something worse done to you. I hope she doesn't forgive you because she deserves better. Hurting people like that and making them cry and then sending the link to show them that they've been publicly humiliated is definitely the farthest thing from epic.
AHAHAHAHHAHHAHA I CANT STOP LAUGHING AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAH. . . ahem, anyway wut u should do is tell her straight up sorry, and if that doesnt work tell her that she can spray some of that stuff up ur butt. . . yea, relationships, tough. MUAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH BAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH
You could have had a solid relationship, sir.
You decided to play a prank that will destroy any chance of that happening.
You destroyed what could have been your only chance at happiness.
Have a nice life knowing that.
your a bad boyfriend. Its one thing to know you made a mistake, but
';OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.';
shows you dont regret it.
She deserves better.
Lol, that was mean. I think if my bf was to do taht I'll cry and would break up woth him, until I get over it. One of these day she'll probably look back and laugh about it so don't worry if she does break up with you.
o.o that sucks. at least you can admit that your a jerk, and if i were her i'd probably be pretty pissed off at you especially since it was intended.
i would break up with you, but perhaps not before feeding you a bowl of dog sht. remember that if she takes you back and invites you over for dinner now.
Well I probably dump you because that is pretty mean and if you did that to me I would have ***** slapped you right then and there.. Lol though! But I might not if you apologized very soon. :)
Lol Good Luck Though..
Facetha?
You should facetha fact that you are mean spirited!
To purposely prank someone to hurting themselves is what I call evil!
You need to seek professional counceling!
WTF DID YOU DO?
you obviously don't care about her even a little bit, and you're a ******* retard for playing a prank like that on her.
I hope she shoves itching powder up your ***.
hahaha you're a cold boyfriend! the prank was hilarious,but it was definitely something you should've pulled on a bud or another friend that's a girl. JUST NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!
wow. you ******. if i had been stupid enough to date you in the first place, i think i'd not only dump you but also do my best to beat the crap out of you. good god. you ******.
I think Its Funny. If I was her I would Just get over it. You were joking around like all guys do, ya Know! But to Be fair Spray It On your A** to See how it feels And it will Give her a good Laugh.
ohhh. my. gossh.
you butt.
i would dumpo you in an instance.
do you realize how much pain that had to be?!
idiot.
i hope she pretends to make up with you then when youre sleeping she sprays that stuff into your crotch.
you deserve to die in a fire
wow... that was really mean...
i mean... like seriously wtf?
If i was your girlfriend i would back hand you and break up asap
that was kind of an asshole-ish move on your part buddy.
grow the **** up.
id break up with you
!
That is really mean :/
that was'nt nice
your a jerk..
**** yeah but first i would of kicked his assssssssssssssss
yeah I would dump him. who wants to be with a d*ck like that
wow dude ur a douche bag? It sounds like you don't even regret it, you don't deserve your girlfriend. go fail irl
C-R-U-E-L!
well just tell her that you are really sorry and that you just wanted to play a little prank but you didnt know that i was going to bad... and just when ever you tell her something keep telling her that you are really really sorry and that you want to make up with her and be in a realationship again.... well hope it works... good luck!!!
Omg you're such a bad boyfriend why would you do that to her? Did you do because YOU wanted to break up with her becuse you're a dumb a**! It seems like you don't care about her and don't regret doing what you did because you were laughing at her when she was in tears and you Want to do that to someone else again before you die?! You don't regret it at all! I'm glad she ended things with you because she deserves sooo much better!
That was awful, you are a bad boyfriend and a bad person. You could have seriously hurt her. Plus, how humiliating for her to be in that predicament in front of a group of friends. If you were my boyfriend, I would dump you and never speak to you again.
Real men don't endanger the health of their girlfriend. Good luck being single.
yes.
you are supposed to have her back. not patronize her, and ESPECIALLY not make her feel worse when she already feels like crap.
you hurt her pride along with her backside, and even worse, she feels like she can't count on you for ****.
I'm not saying second chances don't exist, but however you do it, do it well.
p.s. do you even feel bad? you didn't mention anything close to that here... if you don't then please do your girlfriend a favor and don't even try to get back together with her
I kept telling her to get over it because we were done biking, we were gonna play some basketball outside. She kept nagging about it and I had the evil idea come up.
I suddenly changed my mind and told her ill get her something that will help her. so she sprays it ';you know where'; and all you can here is her shouting ';ohhh my but-hole hurts like hill';
I acted like I had no clue whats going on, I just lost it and went down to the floor laughing and her friend started laughing her *** off too when she realized what I did.
My girl flips the thing over and it says ';DO NOT SPRAY NEAR VAGINAL OR ANAL AREA'; So know me and her friend are spraying her a** with a hose.
I think it really hurt because it was painful enough for her to basically take every thing off and spread open that a** for the water, she was jumping and hurting sooooo bad.
OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.
So we dial poison control and they told us to use water and soap. She went to the washroom and I could hear her mopping. She went out and she was crying, she took her friend and left.
Now I guess im just looking for a way to apologize, I cant even start thinking baout that. lol
If she doesnot want to make up im gonna send her a link to this question to make her feel even more silly. Im such a b**** sometimesHow mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
How would you feel if somebody set your balls on fire? What would you do if your girlfriend ';jokingly'; put poisonous stuff on your balls and laughed it off as you squealed in pain?
Thought so. Put yourself in her shoes. Thank God she was strong enough to dump you. And trust me, if she doesn't take you back (which she won't), and you send her this link, it'll just confirm every reason why she should have broken up with you in the first place.
Honestly, you need some help if you think that physically harming somebody close to you is simply funny. I'll pray for you.How mean is that. It was just a prank, would you break up with your boyfriend if he did this?
Yeah, this isn't even a question. That's mean and you should get something worse done to you. I hope she doesn't forgive you because she deserves better. Hurting people like that and making them cry and then sending the link to show them that they've been publicly humiliated is definitely the farthest thing from epic.
AHAHAHAHHAHHAHA I CANT STOP LAUGHING AHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAH. . . ahem, anyway wut u should do is tell her straight up sorry, and if that doesnt work tell her that she can spray some of that stuff up ur butt. . . yea, relationships, tough. MUAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH BAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAH
You could have had a solid relationship, sir.
You decided to play a prank that will destroy any chance of that happening.
You destroyed what could have been your only chance at happiness.
Have a nice life knowing that.
your a bad boyfriend. Its one thing to know you made a mistake, but
';OMG THAT **** WAS EPICCC SON. I PRAY THAT I MIGHT RANK ANYONE ELSE WITH THE SAME THING B4 I DIE.';
shows you dont regret it.
She deserves better.
Lol, that was mean. I think if my bf was to do taht I'll cry and would break up woth him, until I get over it. One of these day she'll probably look back and laugh about it so don't worry if she does break up with you.
o.o that sucks. at least you can admit that your a jerk, and if i were her i'd probably be pretty pissed off at you especially since it was intended.
i would break up with you, but perhaps not before feeding you a bowl of dog sht. remember that if she takes you back and invites you over for dinner now.
Well I probably dump you because that is pretty mean and if you did that to me I would have ***** slapped you right then and there.. Lol though! But I might not if you apologized very soon. :)
Lol Good Luck Though..
Facetha?
You should facetha fact that you are mean spirited!
To purposely prank someone to hurting themselves is what I call evil!
You need to seek professional counceling!
WTF DID YOU DO?
you obviously don't care about her even a little bit, and you're a ******* retard for playing a prank like that on her.
I hope she shoves itching powder up your ***.
hahaha you're a cold boyfriend! the prank was hilarious,but it was definitely something you should've pulled on a bud or another friend that's a girl. JUST NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!
wow. you ******. if i had been stupid enough to date you in the first place, i think i'd not only dump you but also do my best to beat the crap out of you. good god. you ******.
I think Its Funny. If I was her I would Just get over it. You were joking around like all guys do, ya Know! But to Be fair Spray It On your A** to See how it feels And it will Give her a good Laugh.
ohhh. my. gossh.
you butt.
i would dumpo you in an instance.
do you realize how much pain that had to be?!
idiot.
i hope she pretends to make up with you then when youre sleeping she sprays that stuff into your crotch.
you deserve to die in a fire
wow... that was really mean...
i mean... like seriously wtf?
If i was your girlfriend i would back hand you and break up asap
that was kind of an asshole-ish move on your part buddy.
grow the **** up.
id break up with you
!
That is really mean :/
that was'nt nice
your a jerk..
**** yeah but first i would of kicked his assssssssssssssss
yeah I would dump him. who wants to be with a d*ck like that
wow dude ur a douche bag? It sounds like you don't even regret it, you don't deserve your girlfriend. go fail irl
C-R-U-E-L!
well just tell her that you are really sorry and that you just wanted to play a little prank but you didnt know that i was going to bad... and just when ever you tell her something keep telling her that you are really really sorry and that you want to make up with her and be in a realationship again.... well hope it works... good luck!!!
Omg you're such a bad boyfriend why would you do that to her? Did you do because YOU wanted to break up with her becuse you're a dumb a**! It seems like you don't care about her and don't regret doing what you did because you were laughing at her when she was in tears and you Want to do that to someone else again before you die?! You don't regret it at all! I'm glad she ended things with you because she deserves sooo much better!
That was awful, you are a bad boyfriend and a bad person. You could have seriously hurt her. Plus, how humiliating for her to be in that predicament in front of a group of friends. If you were my boyfriend, I would dump you and never speak to you again.
Real men don't endanger the health of their girlfriend. Good luck being single.
yes.
you are supposed to have her back. not patronize her, and ESPECIALLY not make her feel worse when she already feels like crap.
you hurt her pride along with her backside, and even worse, she feels like she can't count on you for ****.
I'm not saying second chances don't exist, but however you do it, do it well.
p.s. do you even feel bad? you didn't mention anything close to that here... if you don't then please do your girlfriend a favor and don't even try to get back together with her
How sympathic are you to our soldiers in Iraq and elsewhere...?
Something to think about...
You stay up for 16 hours
He stays up for days on end.
You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.
You complain of a 'headache', and call in sick.
He gets shot at as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.
You put on your anti war/don't support the troops shirt, and go meet up with your friends.
He stil l fights for your right to wear that shirt.
You make sure you're cell phone is in your pocket.
He clutches the cross hanging on his chain next to his dog tags.
You talk trash about your 'buddies' that aren't with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.
You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He patrols the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.
You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his brow.
You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He doesn't get to eat today.
Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for weeks, but makes sure his weapons are clean.
You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He d oesn't have time to brush his teeth today.
You're angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He's told he will be held over an extra 2 months.
You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.
You hug and kiss your gi rlfrie nd, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love's perfume.
You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they'll ever meet.
You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own people and remembers why he is fighting.
; You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of men like him.
He hears the gunfire, bombs and screams of the wounded.
You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the broken bodies lying around him.
You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't.
He does exactly what he is told even if it puts his life in danger.
You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call, write home, sleep, and eat.
You crawl into your soft bed, with down pillows, and get comfortable.
He tries to sleep but gets woken by mortars and helicopters all night long.How sympathic are you to our soldiers in Iraq and elsewhere...?
I'm really supportive of the troops because I have friends, family and most importantly my hubby is fighting for out freedom!How sympathic are you to our soldiers in Iraq and elsewhere...?
I am very sympathetic. We send packages to them. If you don't already have a website with information on how to send packages to the soldiers overseas, go to www.doonenicething.com.
i think the majority of people DO support our troops..
it's the how, why, %26amp; who sent them there that is in question.
i love our men %26amp; women in service, just sorry about the Bush/Cheney/Rumsfeld and all the other d***heads
If no one wanted to go out to sacrifice themselves for the sake of LAND, money, power , and control to have over other countries, well then it would be us against our own.
I just hope %26amp; pray they hurry %26amp; come home safe..I've always said that if I'm ever in trouble in a foreign land, the first person I'd hope to see is a US Marine!
I am very sympathetic, and I thank them for all the sacrifices they are making to keep us safe.
I pray for them all the time. I was in the Navy for five years, my Husband for 21. He was in Desert shield and storm. I have so much respect for those who choose to serve and I thank them all the time.
the pictures that go with this are awesomed. I have some live footage one of my boys sent me. I miss my boys. But I'm also in the reserves, it hurts!
You stay up for 16 hours
He stays up for days on end.
You take a warm shower to help you wake up.
He goes days or weeks without running water.
You complain of a 'headache', and call in sick.
He gets shot at as others are hit, and keeps moving forward.
You put on your anti war/don't support the troops shirt, and go meet up with your friends.
He stil l fights for your right to wear that shirt.
You make sure you're cell phone is in your pocket.
He clutches the cross hanging on his chain next to his dog tags.
You talk trash about your 'buddies' that aren't with you.
He knows he may not see some of his buddies again.
You walk down the beach, staring at all the pretty girls.
He patrols the streets, searching for insurgents and terrorists.
You complain about how hot it is.
He wears his heavy gear, not daring to take off his helmet to wipe his brow.
You go out to lunch, and complain because the restaurant got your order wrong.
He doesn't get to eat today.
Your maid makes your bed and washes your clothes.
He wears the same things for weeks, but makes sure his weapons are clean.
You go to the mall and get your hair redone.
He d oesn't have time to brush his teeth today.
You're angry because your class ran 5 minutes over.
He's told he will be held over an extra 2 months.
You call your girlfriend and set a date for tonight.
He waits for the mail to see if there is a letter from home.
You hug and kiss your gi rlfrie nd, like you do everyday.
He holds his letter close and smells his love's perfume.
You roll your eyes as a baby cries.
He gets a letter with pictures of his new child, and wonders if they'll ever meet.
You criticize your government, and say that war never solves anything.
He sees the innocent tortured and killed by their own people and remembers why he is fighting.
; You hear the jokes about the war, and make fun of men like him.
He hears the gunfire, bombs and screams of the wounded.
You see only what the media wants you to see.
He sees the broken bodies lying around him.
You are asked to go to the store by your parents. You don't.
He does exactly what he is told even if it puts his life in danger.
You stay at home and watch TV.
He takes whatever time he is given to call, write home, sleep, and eat.
You crawl into your soft bed, with down pillows, and get comfortable.
He tries to sleep but gets woken by mortars and helicopters all night long.How sympathic are you to our soldiers in Iraq and elsewhere...?
I'm really supportive of the troops because I have friends, family and most importantly my hubby is fighting for out freedom!How sympathic are you to our soldiers in Iraq and elsewhere...?
I am very sympathetic. We send packages to them. If you don't already have a website with information on how to send packages to the soldiers overseas, go to www.doonenicething.com.
i think the majority of people DO support our troops..
it's the how, why, %26amp; who sent them there that is in question.
i love our men %26amp; women in service, just sorry about the Bush/Cheney/Rumsfeld and all the other d***heads
If no one wanted to go out to sacrifice themselves for the sake of LAND, money, power , and control to have over other countries, well then it would be us against our own.
I just hope %26amp; pray they hurry %26amp; come home safe..I've always said that if I'm ever in trouble in a foreign land, the first person I'd hope to see is a US Marine!
I am very sympathetic, and I thank them for all the sacrifices they are making to keep us safe.
I pray for them all the time. I was in the Navy for five years, my Husband for 21. He was in Desert shield and storm. I have so much respect for those who choose to serve and I thank them all the time.
the pictures that go with this are awesomed. I have some live footage one of my boys sent me. I miss my boys. But I'm also in the reserves, it hurts!
How many of these are true for anime lovers?
You call your dog Shinji.
You perform a canon ball dive into a pool while yelling ';Spirit Bomb!';
Your house has an anime room.
You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
You get an anime tattoo even though you're scared of needles.
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
If you use the term ';kawaii'; for describing everything.
You try to convince your girlfriend that ';cat ears'; and ';tail'; really looks good on them.
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
You spent hours looking through your library for a copy of ';The Universe of Four Gods';
You have legally changed your name to that of your favorite charcter.
You wear a necklace and fall down every time someone says ';sit boy.';
You insist on having an entrance that includes spotlights, music, and raining cherry blossoms (while you hold a rose if you're a guy).
Your only dream is to attend Tokyo U with a girl you haven't seen in 15 years.
You play an instrument and you nickname it Inuyasha
For Valentines Day you buy a stuffed dog and make up your own Japanese name for it.
You get mad at your teacher and draw a picture of her as an anime demon cat.
You watch Iron Chef constantly to pick up great recipes.
You've bought a twenty dollar ring in the shape of a dragon to show off at school.
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
You think that falling flat on your back with your legs in the air is a normal reaction to big news.
You are worried because you don't have several desirable members of the opposite sex frantically trying to make you fall in love with them.
You shave a cresent moon onto your cat's head, dye the cat purple, then take it to school and insist it's Luna, your talking cat.
You go around town trying to eat donuts and act all crazy-like, all the while saying you're Vash the Stampede.
To resolve a conflict, you insist on a duel.
The employees at Gamestop know you, and tell you when you walk in if they've gotten a new shipment of anime DVDs.
You've gotten angry at someone and placed two fingers on your forehead shouted the word ';Makanekasopo!'; (special beam cannon or light of death) and then poked them in the eye.
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
You map out points in Tokyo where the Dragons of Earth might attack.
You believe it is possible for a person to be severly beaten in the head with a large hammer, stick, etc...and still come out alive.
You have a moment of confusion whenever you go to school because there are no girls in those tiny little skirts that come with their school uniform.
You yell out 'Baka hanyou Inu-Yasha!' at your birthday party and everyone (except your parents) knows you're talking to your boyfriend.
You tell your parents you need to stay out past curfew to save the colonies.
Each time you see a stray animal, you turn your hat sideways and throw one of those plastic Pokeballs Burger King was giving out in their kids' meals yelling, ';POKEBALL, GO!';
You add ';no da'; to the end of all statements you make.
The majority of your CDs are Japanese or the English version of a Japanese soundtrack or the English soundtrack of an anime that just decided that it would use English in its songs.
You misplace your manga and someone at school you don't even know gives it to you saying they knew it was yours.
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
You try to read every book from right to left.
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
You call your parents Okaa-san and Otou-san.
You say ITADAKIMASU!! before you eat your meals.
You think that locket your boyfriend gave you will turn you into a magical girl.
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
You constantly say ';w00p'; after almost every sentance.
You insist on chopsticks for everyday use.
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
You stop listening to the radio because English makes no sense to you anymore and it's your first spoken language.
You call yourself ';otaku.';
All of your family portraits have been altered to the proper super large eye size.
Random battles seem to erupt wherever you go.
You take the time to write messages on your cigarettes, only to burn them right away.
Your dreams are animated.
You Naru-punch all the guys at school, and then wonder why they don't follow you around like Keitaro follows Naru.
You hold your eyes really wide all day trying to make them stay big
Duct tape is really funny to you andHow many of these are true for anime lovers?
Hello~!! =D
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That's a long list. Here goes~
You call your dog Shinji.
:::: False
:::: Don't have a dog. D:
You perform a canon ball dive into a pool while yelling ';Spirit Bomb!';
:::: False
:::: I don't cannonball into pools. xDD
Your house has an anime room.
:::: True
:::: My room. xDD
You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
:::: Occasionally and Partly True
:::: xDD Most of my friends (including me) ARE girls. But I don't make peace signs. Some of my guy friends do.
You get an anime tattoo even though you're scared of needles.
:::: O.o';';';'; FALSE.
:::: Never gotten any tattoos, nor do I want any.
:::: And I'm not scared of needles...! I wanna be a doctor someday! And when I get blood taken from me... this is me:
Me: O.O
=D
xDD Yes, I stare at the doctor's blood-testing tools while I'm having a blood test.
My little brother, though, cringes and looks away even when I have the blood test.
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
:::: False. Haven't bought any (no idea where to, and too lazy to look)
:::: But that might sorta describe my computer and cell phone. %26gt;w%26lt;
If you use the term ';kawaii'; for describing everything.
:::: With people I've met in real life (not online) who don't really watch anime... False.
:::: With people who DO watch anime (online or not), then TRUE.
You try to convince your girlfriend that ';cat ears'; and ';tail'; really looks good on them.
:::: False. No girlfriend. I'm a girl, lol
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
:::: TRUE! %26gt;w%26lt;
You spent hours looking through your library for a copy of ';The Universe of Four Gods';
:::: False
You have legally changed your name to that of your favorite charcter.
:::: False
You wear a necklace and fall down every time someone says ';sit boy.';
:::: False... O.o';';';';';
You insist on having an entrance that includes spotlights, music, and raining cherry blossoms (while you hold a rose if you're a guy).
:::: False
Your only dream is to attend Tokyo U with a girl you haven't seen in 15 years.
:::: False
You play an instrument and you nickname it Inuyasha
:::: True and False
:::: I play instruments but I don't name them. O.o';';';';';
For Valentines Day you buy a stuffed dog and make up your own Japanese name for it.
:::: False
:::: But IF and WHEN I buy one, and IF I made up my own name for it, it would be Japanese. xP
You get mad at your teacher and draw a picture of her as an anime demon cat.
:::: False
You watch Iron Chef constantly to pick up great recipes.
:::: False
You've bought a twenty dollar ring in the shape of a dragon to show off at school.
:::: False
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
:::: False
You think that falling flat on your back with your legs in the air is a normal reaction to big news.
:::: False
You are worried because you don't have several desirable members of the opposite sex frantically trying to make you fall in love with them.
:::: False
You shave a cresent moon onto your cat's head, dye the cat purple, then take it to school and insist it's Luna, your talking cat.
:::: False
:::: No cat either.
You go around town trying to eat donuts and act all crazy-like, all the while saying you're Vash the Stampede.
:::: False
To resolve a conflict, you insist on a duel.
:::: False... o.O';';';';
The employees at Gamestop know you, and tell you when you walk in if they've gotten a new shipment of anime DVDs.
:::: False
:::: Don't go to Gamestop lol
You've gotten angry at someone and placed two fingers on your forehead shouted the word ';Makanekasopo!'; (special beam cannon or light of death) and then poked them in the eye.
:::: False
:::: O.o';';'; Violence... gahhh. No.
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
:::: False.
:::: %26lt;-- ish a GIRL
You map out points in Tokyo where the Dragons of Earth might attack.
:::: False
You believe it is possible for a person to be severly beaten in the head with a large hammer, stick, etc...and still come out alive.
:::: False
You have a moment of confusion whenever you go to school because there are no girls in those tiny little skirts that come with their school uniform.
:::: False
:::: We have no school uniform.
You yell out 'Baka hanyou Inu-Yasha!' at your birthday party and everyone (except your parents) knows you're talking to your boyfriend.
:::: False
:::: Don't have birthday parties and don't have a boyfriend lol
You tell your parents you need to stay out past curfew to save the colonies.
:::: False
:::: Oh wow. xDD
Each time you see a stray animal, you turn your hat sideways and throw one of those plastic Pokeballs Burger King was giving out in their kids' meals yelling, ';POKEBALL, GO!';
:::: False
:::: Not that much of a Pokemon fan.
You add ';no da'; to the end of all statements you make.
:::: FALSE!
:::: No way.
The majority of your CDs are Japanese or the English version of a Japanese soundtrack or the English soundtrack of an anime that just decided that it would use English in its songs.
:::: False
:::: The majority of my downloaded music are Japanese though. ^-^
You misplace your manga and someone at school you don't even know gives it to you saying they knew it was yours.
:::: False
:::: I don't bring manga to school. I borrow manga from the school library (of all places) sometimes, but I just bring it home to read it. I might damage it if I carry it around school. xDD
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
:::: True
:::: XP In my doodles, yes.
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
:::: True... sometimes.
You try to read every book from right to left.
:::: True, kinda
:::: I do that for every comic/cartoon that I see though. And for manhwa (Korean version of manga), which is left-to-right.
But I do this for every book that's tankobon-sized. XP
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
:::: False
:::: Not nicknamed Lord Conti. No nickname, actually.
:::: But I spend most of my computer time (not counting hw) on MAL and C%26amp;A... and on Onemanga.com... xDD
You call your parents Okaa-san and Otou-san.
:::: False
:::: I used that in fanfiction before though.
You say ITADAKIMASU!! before you eat your meals.
:::: False
You think that locket your boyfriend gave you will turn you into a magical girl.
:::: False
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
:::: True... lol
You constantly say ';w00p'; after almost every sentance.
:::: False
You insist on chopsticks for everyday use.
:::: False
:::: I don't insist. We use chopsticks everyday anyways.
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
:::: False
:::: No bookshelf. xP
You stop listening to the radio because English makes no sense to you anymore and it's your first spoken language.
:::: False and True
:::: I never really listened to the radio or watched TV. But listening/watching that stuff has gotten so that I go...
GAHHHHH Stop this!
... every time my parents//little brother//friends do.
You call yourself ';otaku.';
:::: True
lol
All of your family portraits have been altered to the proper super large eye size.
:::: False
Random battles seem to erupt wherever you go.
:::: False
You take the time to write messages on your cigarettes, only to burn them right away.
:::: False
:::: No cigarettes. Smoking is bad for your health.
Your dreams are animated.
:::: True, sometimes
:::: I rarely have dreams though.
You Naru-punch all the guys at school, and then wonder why they don't follow you around like Keitaro follows Naru.
:::: False
You hold your eyes really wide all day trying to make them stay big
:::: False
Duct tape is really funny to you and most of your threats involve taping people to walls.
:::: False
:::: I don't have duct tape lol... and I don't really make threats... much.
When you're washing dishes you yell out ';SUPAH WAVE SMASHUH!'; or any water attack.
:::: False
:::: When I wash dishes I sing whatever Japanese song I'm hooked on at the moment. xDD
You run out of space on your computer because the hard drive is taken up by hundreds of anime pics, mp3s, midis, and music videos.
:::: False
:::: I run out of space because it's full of my dad's old work stuff.
%26lt;-- because I got my dad's really old computer. =D Good that it's my own though. Kinda.
You spend all night trying to figure out how many people you can get to go in with you on buying the complete collection of Sailor Moon episodes in Japanese.
:::: False
:::: Don't like Sailor Moon much. %26gt;.%26gt;
You spend your whole spring break working on an anime webpage.
:::: True
:::: I might.
You expect to see a sweatdrop over someone's head when they get embarressed.
:::: True
:::: XP
You start to speak with an odd accent.
:::: False
You can watch two animes in the same room at the same time and still have the TV off.
:::: False
You know yourHow many of these are true for anime lovers?
Hey everyone!
I am selling anime and manga for half price or cheaper!!
Here are some of my listings!
Take a look here please!
I need the money!! PLEAASE!
Click on the name MushuSells on there to see all my stuff!
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You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
true
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
true
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
true
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
true
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
sometimes true
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
true
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
true, but not those words
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
true
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
true
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
true
Your dreams are animated.
true
Duct tape is really funny to you and most of your threats involve taping people to walls.
true
You know your favorite character's bloodtype.
true
You actually get these jokes and pass them on to other friends who are addicted to anime.
true
i love animemedium hair cuts hair spray
You perform a canon ball dive into a pool while yelling ';Spirit Bomb!';
Your house has an anime room.
You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
You get an anime tattoo even though you're scared of needles.
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
If you use the term ';kawaii'; for describing everything.
You try to convince your girlfriend that ';cat ears'; and ';tail'; really looks good on them.
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
You spent hours looking through your library for a copy of ';The Universe of Four Gods';
You have legally changed your name to that of your favorite charcter.
You wear a necklace and fall down every time someone says ';sit boy.';
You insist on having an entrance that includes spotlights, music, and raining cherry blossoms (while you hold a rose if you're a guy).
Your only dream is to attend Tokyo U with a girl you haven't seen in 15 years.
You play an instrument and you nickname it Inuyasha
For Valentines Day you buy a stuffed dog and make up your own Japanese name for it.
You get mad at your teacher and draw a picture of her as an anime demon cat.
You watch Iron Chef constantly to pick up great recipes.
You've bought a twenty dollar ring in the shape of a dragon to show off at school.
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
You think that falling flat on your back with your legs in the air is a normal reaction to big news.
You are worried because you don't have several desirable members of the opposite sex frantically trying to make you fall in love with them.
You shave a cresent moon onto your cat's head, dye the cat purple, then take it to school and insist it's Luna, your talking cat.
You go around town trying to eat donuts and act all crazy-like, all the while saying you're Vash the Stampede.
To resolve a conflict, you insist on a duel.
The employees at Gamestop know you, and tell you when you walk in if they've gotten a new shipment of anime DVDs.
You've gotten angry at someone and placed two fingers on your forehead shouted the word ';Makanekasopo!'; (special beam cannon or light of death) and then poked them in the eye.
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
You map out points in Tokyo where the Dragons of Earth might attack.
You believe it is possible for a person to be severly beaten in the head with a large hammer, stick, etc...and still come out alive.
You have a moment of confusion whenever you go to school because there are no girls in those tiny little skirts that come with their school uniform.
You yell out 'Baka hanyou Inu-Yasha!' at your birthday party and everyone (except your parents) knows you're talking to your boyfriend.
You tell your parents you need to stay out past curfew to save the colonies.
Each time you see a stray animal, you turn your hat sideways and throw one of those plastic Pokeballs Burger King was giving out in their kids' meals yelling, ';POKEBALL, GO!';
You add ';no da'; to the end of all statements you make.
The majority of your CDs are Japanese or the English version of a Japanese soundtrack or the English soundtrack of an anime that just decided that it would use English in its songs.
You misplace your manga and someone at school you don't even know gives it to you saying they knew it was yours.
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
You try to read every book from right to left.
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
You call your parents Okaa-san and Otou-san.
You say ITADAKIMASU!! before you eat your meals.
You think that locket your boyfriend gave you will turn you into a magical girl.
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
You constantly say ';w00p'; after almost every sentance.
You insist on chopsticks for everyday use.
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
You stop listening to the radio because English makes no sense to you anymore and it's your first spoken language.
You call yourself ';otaku.';
All of your family portraits have been altered to the proper super large eye size.
Random battles seem to erupt wherever you go.
You take the time to write messages on your cigarettes, only to burn them right away.
Your dreams are animated.
You Naru-punch all the guys at school, and then wonder why they don't follow you around like Keitaro follows Naru.
You hold your eyes really wide all day trying to make them stay big
Duct tape is really funny to you andHow many of these are true for anime lovers?
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That's a long list. Here goes~
You call your dog Shinji.
:::: False
:::: Don't have a dog. D:
You perform a canon ball dive into a pool while yelling ';Spirit Bomb!';
:::: False
:::: I don't cannonball into pools. xDD
Your house has an anime room.
:::: True
:::: My room. xDD
You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
:::: Occasionally and Partly True
:::: xDD Most of my friends (including me) ARE girls. But I don't make peace signs. Some of my guy friends do.
You get an anime tattoo even though you're scared of needles.
:::: O.o';';';'; FALSE.
:::: Never gotten any tattoos, nor do I want any.
:::: And I'm not scared of needles...! I wanna be a doctor someday! And when I get blood taken from me... this is me:
Me: O.O
=D
xDD Yes, I stare at the doctor's blood-testing tools while I'm having a blood test.
My little brother, though, cringes and looks away even when I have the blood test.
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
:::: False. Haven't bought any (no idea where to, and too lazy to look)
:::: But that might sorta describe my computer and cell phone. %26gt;w%26lt;
If you use the term ';kawaii'; for describing everything.
:::: With people I've met in real life (not online) who don't really watch anime... False.
:::: With people who DO watch anime (online or not), then TRUE.
You try to convince your girlfriend that ';cat ears'; and ';tail'; really looks good on them.
:::: False. No girlfriend. I'm a girl, lol
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
:::: TRUE! %26gt;w%26lt;
You spent hours looking through your library for a copy of ';The Universe of Four Gods';
:::: False
You have legally changed your name to that of your favorite charcter.
:::: False
You wear a necklace and fall down every time someone says ';sit boy.';
:::: False... O.o';';';';';
You insist on having an entrance that includes spotlights, music, and raining cherry blossoms (while you hold a rose if you're a guy).
:::: False
Your only dream is to attend Tokyo U with a girl you haven't seen in 15 years.
:::: False
You play an instrument and you nickname it Inuyasha
:::: True and False
:::: I play instruments but I don't name them. O.o';';';';';
For Valentines Day you buy a stuffed dog and make up your own Japanese name for it.
:::: False
:::: But IF and WHEN I buy one, and IF I made up my own name for it, it would be Japanese. xP
You get mad at your teacher and draw a picture of her as an anime demon cat.
:::: False
You watch Iron Chef constantly to pick up great recipes.
:::: False
You've bought a twenty dollar ring in the shape of a dragon to show off at school.
:::: False
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
:::: False
You think that falling flat on your back with your legs in the air is a normal reaction to big news.
:::: False
You are worried because you don't have several desirable members of the opposite sex frantically trying to make you fall in love with them.
:::: False
You shave a cresent moon onto your cat's head, dye the cat purple, then take it to school and insist it's Luna, your talking cat.
:::: False
:::: No cat either.
You go around town trying to eat donuts and act all crazy-like, all the while saying you're Vash the Stampede.
:::: False
To resolve a conflict, you insist on a duel.
:::: False... o.O';';';';
The employees at Gamestop know you, and tell you when you walk in if they've gotten a new shipment of anime DVDs.
:::: False
:::: Don't go to Gamestop lol
You've gotten angry at someone and placed two fingers on your forehead shouted the word ';Makanekasopo!'; (special beam cannon or light of death) and then poked them in the eye.
:::: False
:::: O.o';';'; Violence... gahhh. No.
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
:::: False.
:::: %26lt;-- ish a GIRL
You map out points in Tokyo where the Dragons of Earth might attack.
:::: False
You believe it is possible for a person to be severly beaten in the head with a large hammer, stick, etc...and still come out alive.
:::: False
You have a moment of confusion whenever you go to school because there are no girls in those tiny little skirts that come with their school uniform.
:::: False
:::: We have no school uniform.
You yell out 'Baka hanyou Inu-Yasha!' at your birthday party and everyone (except your parents) knows you're talking to your boyfriend.
:::: False
:::: Don't have birthday parties and don't have a boyfriend lol
You tell your parents you need to stay out past curfew to save the colonies.
:::: False
:::: Oh wow. xDD
Each time you see a stray animal, you turn your hat sideways and throw one of those plastic Pokeballs Burger King was giving out in their kids' meals yelling, ';POKEBALL, GO!';
:::: False
:::: Not that much of a Pokemon fan.
You add ';no da'; to the end of all statements you make.
:::: FALSE!
:::: No way.
The majority of your CDs are Japanese or the English version of a Japanese soundtrack or the English soundtrack of an anime that just decided that it would use English in its songs.
:::: False
:::: The majority of my downloaded music are Japanese though. ^-^
You misplace your manga and someone at school you don't even know gives it to you saying they knew it was yours.
:::: False
:::: I don't bring manga to school. I borrow manga from the school library (of all places) sometimes, but I just bring it home to read it. I might damage it if I carry it around school. xDD
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
:::: True
:::: XP In my doodles, yes.
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
:::: True... sometimes.
You try to read every book from right to left.
:::: True, kinda
:::: I do that for every comic/cartoon that I see though. And for manhwa (Korean version of manga), which is left-to-right.
But I do this for every book that's tankobon-sized. XP
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
:::: False
:::: Not nicknamed Lord Conti. No nickname, actually.
:::: But I spend most of my computer time (not counting hw) on MAL and C%26amp;A... and on Onemanga.com... xDD
You call your parents Okaa-san and Otou-san.
:::: False
:::: I used that in fanfiction before though.
You say ITADAKIMASU!! before you eat your meals.
:::: False
You think that locket your boyfriend gave you will turn you into a magical girl.
:::: False
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
:::: True... lol
You constantly say ';w00p'; after almost every sentance.
:::: False
You insist on chopsticks for everyday use.
:::: False
:::: I don't insist. We use chopsticks everyday anyways.
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
:::: False
:::: No bookshelf. xP
You stop listening to the radio because English makes no sense to you anymore and it's your first spoken language.
:::: False and True
:::: I never really listened to the radio or watched TV. But listening/watching that stuff has gotten so that I go...
GAHHHHH Stop this!
... every time my parents//little brother//friends do.
You call yourself ';otaku.';
:::: True
lol
All of your family portraits have been altered to the proper super large eye size.
:::: False
Random battles seem to erupt wherever you go.
:::: False
You take the time to write messages on your cigarettes, only to burn them right away.
:::: False
:::: No cigarettes. Smoking is bad for your health.
Your dreams are animated.
:::: True, sometimes
:::: I rarely have dreams though.
You Naru-punch all the guys at school, and then wonder why they don't follow you around like Keitaro follows Naru.
:::: False
You hold your eyes really wide all day trying to make them stay big
:::: False
Duct tape is really funny to you and most of your threats involve taping people to walls.
:::: False
:::: I don't have duct tape lol... and I don't really make threats... much.
When you're washing dishes you yell out ';SUPAH WAVE SMASHUH!'; or any water attack.
:::: False
:::: When I wash dishes I sing whatever Japanese song I'm hooked on at the moment. xDD
You run out of space on your computer because the hard drive is taken up by hundreds of anime pics, mp3s, midis, and music videos.
:::: False
:::: I run out of space because it's full of my dad's old work stuff.
%26lt;-- because I got my dad's really old computer. =D Good that it's my own though. Kinda.
You spend all night trying to figure out how many people you can get to go in with you on buying the complete collection of Sailor Moon episodes in Japanese.
:::: False
:::: Don't like Sailor Moon much. %26gt;.%26gt;
You spend your whole spring break working on an anime webpage.
:::: True
:::: I might.
You expect to see a sweatdrop over someone's head when they get embarressed.
:::: True
:::: XP
You start to speak with an odd accent.
:::: False
You can watch two animes in the same room at the same time and still have the TV off.
:::: False
You know yourHow many of these are true for anime lovers?
Hey everyone!
I am selling anime and manga for half price or cheaper!!
Here are some of my listings!
Take a look here please!
I need the money!! PLEAASE!
Click on the name MushuSells on there to see all my stuff!
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem%26amp;Item=260385628434%26amp;Category=8575
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You and your friends flash peace signs and take girlish poses when you are happy.
true
Your walls are covered in wallscrolls and posters from your favorite series.
true
You can sing songs from your favorite shows, in Japanese, even though you dont speak Japanese...
true
You always have your hair covering your left eye and always fliping it so you look like an anime character.
true
You waste countless amounts of hair gel to get that ';Goku look.';
sometimes true
You incorporate Japanese, somehow, into every class.
true
You use random Japanese words such as baka, kawaii, and hentai.
true, but not those words
You take a break from watching anime to go to your computer (nicknamed Lord Conti) to download anime (for previewing purposes only! ;) ), while visiting your favorite anime forum, while listening to Japanese webradio...
true
You'll risk grounding to get a good new fanfic.
true
Your bookshelf is filled with anime box sets and no books.
true
Your dreams are animated.
true
Duct tape is really funny to you and most of your threats involve taping people to walls.
true
You know your favorite character's bloodtype.
true
You actually get these jokes and pass them on to other friends who are addicted to anime.
true
i love anime
Girlfriend broke up with me! HELP!!?
My girlfriend and me were together for 2 years. We broke up on wedsday after she broke up with me. My heart was broken and i have crying my butt off. Some guys know how it feels to love a girl and then that girl breaking your heart. There was a promise between us that she broke. She promised me she would not drink. Well she did with her cousions and got drunk in Arizona. She lied to me and told me she did nothing wrong. Then when she comes back i see her as a different person. She acts different and does not show me the love she use to show me. She tells me she loves me one hour then the next hour she says she does not love me and cant be with me because she does not feel the same. She said she doesnt believe she is the girl for me? I recently just saw her yesterday and she looked completely different. In our 2 years together she NEVER wore alot of makeup i mean dark makeup around her eyes. Well i saw her walking to school with the bag i bought her and the shirt i bought her. She looked so different with new style of hair and makeup she never did with me. What does this mean? Im really heartbroken and sad.Whats weird is that i told her your making the worst mistake of your life because i did everything for her. I was there for her anytime she needed a thing.She tells me if she did shel call me but dont call her and she wanted to be friends and all she said was we cant because all you would want to do is try to get back with me. It has been 2 days and i changed my phone number and have not called her. Seeing as she is a senior in high school she is going to relize that high school guys just want sex and will use her. Make her regret that the only man that was mature and cared for her was me. do you think shell come back looking for me? Im 20 she is 17 turing 18 soon.Please help!Girlfriend broke up with me! HELP!!?
dont wait anymore. she made the mistake and as the sound of it,you didnt deserve that. she doesnt sound like she has her head on straight. by the way, im very sorry. 2 years is a long time to be with someone, but somtimes it takes that long for the real girl that was hiding to come out and obviously if she couldnt keep ur promise,than she was not a good gf to begin with.
keep looking,the one for you is out there and will be able to keep ur promises.
good luckGirlfriend broke up with me! HELP!!?
I dont know i have been with my bf since i was 6 to 13 71/2 years it was but it was a loooooooooong time ago but when we brokeup i was fine and with my sec one
she is over you. She might want to try new things since she was tied up with you since she was 15!!
Im sorry man, that really sucks. I would say just forget about her, she broke that promise, who knows what other promises she broke in Arizona...?
Or maybe she cant remember if she broke any other promises... Sounds like she's turning into a major biach, just forget about her bro. Try to stop thinking about her.
Why would you change your number? Well anyways.. she's been in this relationship for a while she needed a break she's young and wants to live without being tied down at such a young age. Let her go, and if she loves you she'll come back. But don't waste your time waiting around.
dont wait anymore. she made the mistake and as the sound of it,you didnt deserve that. she doesnt sound like she has her head on straight. by the way, im very sorry. 2 years is a long time to be with someone, but somtimes it takes that long for the real girl that was hiding to come out and obviously if she couldnt keep ur promise,than she was not a good gf to begin with.
keep looking,the one for you is out there and will be able to keep ur promises.
good luckGirlfriend broke up with me! HELP!!?
I dont know i have been with my bf since i was 6 to 13 71/2 years it was but it was a loooooooooong time ago but when we brokeup i was fine and with my sec one
she is over you. She might want to try new things since she was tied up with you since she was 15!!
Im sorry man, that really sucks. I would say just forget about her, she broke that promise, who knows what other promises she broke in Arizona...?
Or maybe she cant remember if she broke any other promises... Sounds like she's turning into a major biach, just forget about her bro. Try to stop thinking about her.
Why would you change your number? Well anyways.. she's been in this relationship for a while she needed a break she's young and wants to live without being tied down at such a young age. Let her go, and if she loves you she'll come back. But don't waste your time waiting around.
After a break up, do you feel alone and miss your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot?
I recently broke up with my bf of 3 months. My family disliked him and forced me to end the relationship because we were caught making out. It hurt me so much and i'm so confused.. did i do the right thing?
I can't stop thinking of him for the past week, and i try to occupy myself with work and other things but somehow memories of us always come across my mind and it kills.
I WANT to talk to him so badly but i don't know if i should call since i'm the one who ended it. I just want to know how he's feeling and how he's doing but i know my parents would be upset if i talk to him so soon.
All my bf said was ';ok'; when i told him that i couldn't continue in our relationship.. which left me wondering if he even cares.. or if he feels as hurt as i do. I just feel like something is missing in my life now. I got used to having someone there always for me, i wish i didn't grow so attached.
I want to be atleast friends with him but i don't know if there's a chance to get together again.After a break up, do you feel alone and miss your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot?
woww this kinda sounds like what happened to me and my boyfriend...
i had to break up with him too,
because my mom didnt approve of us...
he said he was cool with it,
he told me we'd still be best friends and stuff.
that made me think he didnt really want to be with me anyway.
but the next day he was weird and distant,
and he'd snap at me for no reason.
then finally he told me that he wasnt cool with it,
and he thought i was just tryna make excuses to get away from him.
he said he PRETENDED he didnt care because he didnt want me to know i hurt him.
eventually i asked him back because i decided that ultimately,
i'd never get what i really want if all i did was what other people tell me to do.
i might be making a mistake,
but its my mistake to make,
not my parents.
my advice to you is to find out where he really stands,
and what he really thinks about the breakup.
and to find out how YOU really feel too.
do you feel like he was holding you back,
or is that just what your parents said?
do what makes you feel right.After a break up, do you feel alone and miss your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot?
yes and forever cause i turly did love him.
Yes of course! This is a natural feeling. I mean you were with that person for some time, and became each other's worlds. Its hard to tear that apart.
There's no rule that says you can't call just because you ended it. You can still be friends.
if you really loved him you shouldnt have broke up with him just because you were caught making out with him. tell him you need him, and get back with him!!
I can't stop thinking of him for the past week, and i try to occupy myself with work and other things but somehow memories of us always come across my mind and it kills.
I WANT to talk to him so badly but i don't know if i should call since i'm the one who ended it. I just want to know how he's feeling and how he's doing but i know my parents would be upset if i talk to him so soon.
All my bf said was ';ok'; when i told him that i couldn't continue in our relationship.. which left me wondering if he even cares.. or if he feels as hurt as i do. I just feel like something is missing in my life now. I got used to having someone there always for me, i wish i didn't grow so attached.
I want to be atleast friends with him but i don't know if there's a chance to get together again.After a break up, do you feel alone and miss your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot?
woww this kinda sounds like what happened to me and my boyfriend...
i had to break up with him too,
because my mom didnt approve of us...
he said he was cool with it,
he told me we'd still be best friends and stuff.
that made me think he didnt really want to be with me anyway.
but the next day he was weird and distant,
and he'd snap at me for no reason.
then finally he told me that he wasnt cool with it,
and he thought i was just tryna make excuses to get away from him.
he said he PRETENDED he didnt care because he didnt want me to know i hurt him.
eventually i asked him back because i decided that ultimately,
i'd never get what i really want if all i did was what other people tell me to do.
i might be making a mistake,
but its my mistake to make,
not my parents.
my advice to you is to find out where he really stands,
and what he really thinks about the breakup.
and to find out how YOU really feel too.
do you feel like he was holding you back,
or is that just what your parents said?
do what makes you feel right.After a break up, do you feel alone and miss your boyfriend/girlfriend a lot?
yes and forever cause i turly did love him.
Yes of course! This is a natural feeling. I mean you were with that person for some time, and became each other's worlds. Its hard to tear that apart.
There's no rule that says you can't call just because you ended it. You can still be friends.
if you really loved him you shouldnt have broke up with him just because you were caught making out with him. tell him you need him, and get back with him!!
How do you deal with fighting through your boyfriend/girlfriend?
we just had a big fight and i have no idea what to do! how should we make up!!!!!!How do you deal with fighting through your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Just talk it out
ive gotten in plenty of fights with my boyfriend..ive ended up fighting more, crying and then..apologizing
talking about how you feel is going to eventually move things along and put more trust between you..i believe
You should call him :]
Just talk it out
ive gotten in plenty of fights with my boyfriend..ive ended up fighting more, crying and then..apologizing
talking about how you feel is going to eventually move things along and put more trust between you..i believe
You should call him :]
How would you react to your boyfriend/girlfriend if...?
If you showed up at the park one night to feed the ducks, and you saw your partner there with another person of the opposite sex.
I ask because I was there the other night with an old friend who came into town. She needed to talk to me so I said we could go to the park. My girlfriend showed up like 30mins later with her best friend, and was devastated since she hadn't ever met this person before. She tried to act as normal as she could and I tried not to make the situation awkward..
The next day my gf gives me an in-depth bitching about how suspicious it looked being in a ';secluded area';, and was pissed because when I started to leave and saw my gf, I turned around to say hi to her and the girl stayed in my car and didnt introduce herself.. (she was in the car crying about personal problems she had just talked to me about)How would you react to your boyfriend/girlfriend if...?
would not react, but would make it a point to clearly have you understand on how i feel and on how i feel i look in your eyes if i just said i understood and went on as if nothing in the relationship had changed as it actually had as soon as you took up with another relationship whether or not it has gone as far as physical, it still was an emotionally charged relationship. good luck.How would you react to your boyfriend/girlfriend if...?
Try her to explain ,in beginning she would not listen ,but keep on and with time period it should be OK,because she is also guilty.
sounds like you should have explained the situation to your bf/gf before you did it..
Better br calm, be true, understand and make her understand. Carry on with the relationship!
You should have been upfront and told her about this meeting ahead of time.
You have to admit it looked shady.
Hope she forgives you.
well, step into HER shoes, why wouldnt she suspect?
if that was me i'd be highly suspicious, whether you're guilty of not
sounds like you guys have some trust issues to work on. but yea u should have at least called ur g/f and told her ur plans. it would have made things way less awkward. but as a gurl i would probably be all up in ur face too. as a guy if u flip the situation i think u'd do the same.
First of all you two should talk about this situation. Talk about what happened that night with the truth.
That sounds like a tough one to get out, but just tell her the truth. You know what you were doing. It does look like a pretty tough situation though.
Life is full of awkward stuations. Your gf gets over it or not, and you decide whether she is worth the hassel, or not.
When you are that close with another woman it is going to be hard for any girl to understand and not be suspicious. What you need to do is be completely open about having this friend from the beginning. Being caught unaware like that is almost cruel for your gf to stand. I can't imagine the heart ache she's been feeling over a completely imagined circumstance. You need to sit her down and tell her all about this friend you have and if your friend is as good a friend as you say than she needs to make it a point to meet your gf and tell her that you are and only ever will be her friend.
Be honest %26amp; your friend was very rude that's wasn't so good. Put yourself your girlfriend's shoes...
i'd be pissed too.If I were you, id give your girl alot of credit for not flashin on you in the park. You guys made it look suspicious. I understand that you friend has problems and was upset, but she also needs to understand how the situation looks and that you have a girlfriend, if she was really your friend or just a friend, she should of stepped up and at least introduced herself.. whats 2 seconds to stop crying
Well just think of it this way...you have some explaining to do now, don't you?
If you are in an exclusive relationship with your gf, then it would seem mighty suspicious for the gf to find you in a secluded park with another woman. Perhaps if you had called her first to let her know what was going on with your old friend and where you were going to be.
But now that the damage is done, you should explain completely and hope that she understands.
I would think your full of sh*t and totally think you were cheating. I mean wouldn't you if you saw her there with some guy ? Come on.
Eh, shi% happens! Next time, just to be on the safe side, you should tell your ol lady whenever you're going to be alone with someone she hasn't met
Talk to her let her know exactly what this person means to you she just need comfort or to converse her problem and she trusts you and you had to help. All girlfriends are jealous but if you explain it all to her i'm sure she'll come around.
why the park? you could have took her to a cafe or something. Your girlfriend is in her full rights to get mad at you! you should have called her before going and told her what was going on. I hope you have learned your lesson!
That sounds shady! Why would you go to the park with a woman to talk about her problems? Why not tell your girlfriend about this mystery woman? You should have told your lady about this woman and you should have chosen a better place to take her to ';talk';. Lastly, what was your girlfriend doing in the park at that time of night? If you keep it up, you may be the one in the car crying.
NEO.
i would be very upset and jealous if i saw my boyfriend with a nother girl at a park. however, if he were to explain to me that it was an old friend that was having some problems and needed a person to talk to, i would try to understand. if your girlfriend is unwilling to forgive you then my opinion is that you really shouldnt date her any longer. if someone gets so upset over something so small its my opinion that they arent really worth it.
hope i helped you somewhat
I ask because I was there the other night with an old friend who came into town. She needed to talk to me so I said we could go to the park. My girlfriend showed up like 30mins later with her best friend, and was devastated since she hadn't ever met this person before. She tried to act as normal as she could and I tried not to make the situation awkward..
The next day my gf gives me an in-depth bitching about how suspicious it looked being in a ';secluded area';, and was pissed because when I started to leave and saw my gf, I turned around to say hi to her and the girl stayed in my car and didnt introduce herself.. (she was in the car crying about personal problems she had just talked to me about)How would you react to your boyfriend/girlfriend if...?
would not react, but would make it a point to clearly have you understand on how i feel and on how i feel i look in your eyes if i just said i understood and went on as if nothing in the relationship had changed as it actually had as soon as you took up with another relationship whether or not it has gone as far as physical, it still was an emotionally charged relationship. good luck.How would you react to your boyfriend/girlfriend if...?
Try her to explain ,in beginning she would not listen ,but keep on and with time period it should be OK,because she is also guilty.
sounds like you should have explained the situation to your bf/gf before you did it..
Better br calm, be true, understand and make her understand. Carry on with the relationship!
You should have been upfront and told her about this meeting ahead of time.
You have to admit it looked shady.
Hope she forgives you.
well, step into HER shoes, why wouldnt she suspect?
if that was me i'd be highly suspicious, whether you're guilty of not
sounds like you guys have some trust issues to work on. but yea u should have at least called ur g/f and told her ur plans. it would have made things way less awkward. but as a gurl i would probably be all up in ur face too. as a guy if u flip the situation i think u'd do the same.
First of all you two should talk about this situation. Talk about what happened that night with the truth.
That sounds like a tough one to get out, but just tell her the truth. You know what you were doing. It does look like a pretty tough situation though.
Life is full of awkward stuations. Your gf gets over it or not, and you decide whether she is worth the hassel, or not.
When you are that close with another woman it is going to be hard for any girl to understand and not be suspicious. What you need to do is be completely open about having this friend from the beginning. Being caught unaware like that is almost cruel for your gf to stand. I can't imagine the heart ache she's been feeling over a completely imagined circumstance. You need to sit her down and tell her all about this friend you have and if your friend is as good a friend as you say than she needs to make it a point to meet your gf and tell her that you are and only ever will be her friend.
Be honest %26amp; your friend was very rude that's wasn't so good. Put yourself your girlfriend's shoes...
i'd be pissed too.If I were you, id give your girl alot of credit for not flashin on you in the park. You guys made it look suspicious. I understand that you friend has problems and was upset, but she also needs to understand how the situation looks and that you have a girlfriend, if she was really your friend or just a friend, she should of stepped up and at least introduced herself.. whats 2 seconds to stop crying
Well just think of it this way...you have some explaining to do now, don't you?
If you are in an exclusive relationship with your gf, then it would seem mighty suspicious for the gf to find you in a secluded park with another woman. Perhaps if you had called her first to let her know what was going on with your old friend and where you were going to be.
But now that the damage is done, you should explain completely and hope that she understands.
I would think your full of sh*t and totally think you were cheating. I mean wouldn't you if you saw her there with some guy ? Come on.
Eh, shi% happens! Next time, just to be on the safe side, you should tell your ol lady whenever you're going to be alone with someone she hasn't met
Talk to her let her know exactly what this person means to you she just need comfort or to converse her problem and she trusts you and you had to help. All girlfriends are jealous but if you explain it all to her i'm sure she'll come around.
why the park? you could have took her to a cafe or something. Your girlfriend is in her full rights to get mad at you! you should have called her before going and told her what was going on. I hope you have learned your lesson!
That sounds shady! Why would you go to the park with a woman to talk about her problems? Why not tell your girlfriend about this mystery woman? You should have told your lady about this woman and you should have chosen a better place to take her to ';talk';. Lastly, what was your girlfriend doing in the park at that time of night? If you keep it up, you may be the one in the car crying.
NEO.
i would be very upset and jealous if i saw my boyfriend with a nother girl at a park. however, if he were to explain to me that it was an old friend that was having some problems and needed a person to talk to, i would try to understand. if your girlfriend is unwilling to forgive you then my opinion is that you really shouldnt date her any longer. if someone gets so upset over something so small its my opinion that they arent really worth it.
hope i helped you somewhat
After going through so much w/ him, he tells me to be his *friend*?! ADVISE PLEASE!?
okay so, our meeting hasn't been that long. it's only been a month we know each other. our first day was so romantic, it kind of was a date. he asked me out for marriage on the first day; or at least for something serious. i turned him down; because hey, it's only been a few hours.. so anyways. the next day, i kind of went back and said *sure*. i clarified EVERYTHING i wanted.. i clarified that i wanted to be serious. and he could be *mine* only if he was serious w/ me. sounded *cool*. then surprise surprise- i suddenly tease him about whether he has a girlfriend in Jamaica (that's where he's from by the way), and he says *yes*. it turns out that he really does. HOWEVER he's still been acting pretty serious with me. Goes on about 5 days, until he says, ';hey i don't know what i want';. i said ';why. well i don't care about your girlfriend (coz he doesn't seem to care about her either); i want you.'; he sounds serious.. but then, he backs off, EVERY SINGLE TIME. after the 5 days, he goes back to Jamaica, and he supposedly comes back in 6 months.. (well it's 5 months now). i thought it was a *long distance relationship*. then, surprise surprise- he asks me out to be his friend. we made out and stuff while he was here. we foreplayed but never got to sex. we agreed that we'll hold it off until 6 months. and then he asks me whether i can be his *friend*. of course i feel down about it; i like him a lot; %26amp; he knows. he was like, ';you know, i love you for who you are. i just wish you did the same for me';. i'm just like, ';hold it, what do you mean!'; i think what he meant was that i had to love him for *having his girlfriend*.. WHO WOULD DO THAT?? first he makes me serious, then he tells me to have patience, then he tells me to be his *friend*??! WHAT TA HELL? i was like, ';if you like us to be done right here, i can certainly do that. but i can't take u as a friend; we had more than that.'; there are certain people u can be friends w/ and certain u can't be w/. he goes like, ';i don't wanna lose u';. i'm like well then, make up your mind. OKAY SO.. i'll go on and on about this. but really, if ya'll can relate, where is this going?? i don't understand. should i just disconnect all of my communications with him? is that what i do? how do i do that? because he asked me to help him financially, and i promised him i will, regardless of what i am to him. ADVISE PLEASE! thanks for any help. sorry this was long. After going through so much w/ him, he tells me to be his *friend*?! ADVISE PLEASE!?
There is something seriously wrong w/this whole picture. To date someone one time, ask them to get married, then find out he has a g/f in another place? What does he take you for. One thing for sure, %26amp; that is DO NOT dare lend him or give him one red cent. This is truly what it sounds like he wanted from you in the first place, %26amp; the only thing he wanted you for. I also would tell him you do not care to hear from him anymore...no more communication. He's either a con artist, or doesn't know what he's doing except trying to hit you up for money. You do NOT need this person in your life to further confuse you in any way. Tell him to just stay in Jamaica w/his g/f %26amp; let her give him the money he needs, All you have to tell him is that you are not going to take anymore of his calls or have anything to do w/him from this date on. There are too many red flags waving in front of your face w/this man. Get away from him completely fast..please please do this for your own good. Best to you...:)After going through so much w/ him, he tells me to be his *friend*?! ADVISE PLEASE!?
I he has a girlfriend you need to kick the clown to the curb and one of the answerers said it too. Change the locks and do not answer the door. a friend is not a guy that goes out with other girls! He wants his cake and eat it too. Tell him to eat poop!
Go 2 Singles %26amp; Dating because your should not consider marriage.
He's just not that nto you. Look for someone better.
kick this clown to the curb
He just wants the best of both worlds girl! When he goes to Jamaica, he has a gf there that he can spend some time with and chill out and relax and have fun with. And when he comes back, he also wants to have someone that he can spend some time with and chill out and relax and have fun with. And that is YOU. I think he thinks you are stupid to agree to whatever he wants.
He wants to stay with his girlfriend, probably his wife, and have you on the side.
You took his marriage talk too seriously and all he wanted was a fling and was using words to get you into the sack.
If you can put up with his infidelity so be it, otherwise accept he is a player and get him out of your life.
There is something seriously wrong w/this whole picture. To date someone one time, ask them to get married, then find out he has a g/f in another place? What does he take you for. One thing for sure, %26amp; that is DO NOT dare lend him or give him one red cent. This is truly what it sounds like he wanted from you in the first place, %26amp; the only thing he wanted you for. I also would tell him you do not care to hear from him anymore...no more communication. He's either a con artist, or doesn't know what he's doing except trying to hit you up for money. You do NOT need this person in your life to further confuse you in any way. Tell him to just stay in Jamaica w/his g/f %26amp; let her give him the money he needs, All you have to tell him is that you are not going to take anymore of his calls or have anything to do w/him from this date on. There are too many red flags waving in front of your face w/this man. Get away from him completely fast..please please do this for your own good. Best to you...:)After going through so much w/ him, he tells me to be his *friend*?! ADVISE PLEASE!?
I he has a girlfriend you need to kick the clown to the curb and one of the answerers said it too. Change the locks and do not answer the door. a friend is not a guy that goes out with other girls! He wants his cake and eat it too. Tell him to eat poop!
Go 2 Singles %26amp; Dating because your should not consider marriage.
He's just not that nto you. Look for someone better.
kick this clown to the curb
He just wants the best of both worlds girl! When he goes to Jamaica, he has a gf there that he can spend some time with and chill out and relax and have fun with. And when he comes back, he also wants to have someone that he can spend some time with and chill out and relax and have fun with. And that is YOU. I think he thinks you are stupid to agree to whatever he wants.
He wants to stay with his girlfriend, probably his wife, and have you on the side.
You took his marriage talk too seriously and all he wanted was a fling and was using words to get you into the sack.
If you can put up with his infidelity so be it, otherwise accept he is a player and get him out of your life.
What would you do if you found that your girlfriend of 4 years is a lesbian?
I have been with my same girl since high school. We are both now 22 and we have a child together. I have recently found that she has been searching for other women online and seeking to meet up with them. I am jus confused our sex life is great so I don't think that is wrong. I am willing to make sacrifices for her and for our relationship, but how do I welcome her sexuality with out sounding like I am a perve?What would you do if you found that your girlfriend of 4 years is a lesbian?
If you're okay with your girlfriend cheating on you, then what's the problem? Nothing needs to be said.What would you do if you found that your girlfriend of 4 years is a lesbian?
isnt that cheating since she's with you and searching for a gf online?? does she know that you know?? it all depends on you babe, i wouldnt tolerate it but i'm not in your shoes
If she's with you and the sex is great why do you say she is not attracted to you at all? If she is attracted to you, and to women as well, then she is bi not lesbian. Hetero-sexual lifelong monogamy is just one of many forms of relationship/marriage that have been practiced with great success throughout the world throughout history. It's not even one of the more successful forms, as witness all the divorces. I've know many bisexual people to work out methods for making a marriage work, two examples: 1. A bisexual woman married a man and a woman, since she is the head of the household, she owns the house, after all, it is not a case of a man having two wives, but of a woman having a wife and husband; 2. A bisexual couple agreed to an open marriage, he had no woman but her but was free to swing with men, and vice versa, this worked for the people involved, and there have been no problems with either un-planned pregnancy or STDs. The married triple I mentioned is still going strong after over 20 years. You need to delete the word ';perve'; from your vocabulary, mutually enjoyable activities between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home are no one Else's business.
cheating is cheating
i would love, care for, accept, respect, need, and welcome he
r that much more. what is wrong with her being a lesbian? is t
hat some kind of deadly killer. are you going to get any lesser
sex, is the world going to end, are your dick going to fall off,ar
e you going to lose her over night, are her kids going to turn g
ay and screw your head off? then what is wrong if she is a les
bian? you should be thankful that things could remain the sam
e for the two of you.what do you want us to do, or say?
I would hope you would want a monogomous relationship. Whether she prefers men, women, or both, this probably doesn't include you. Searching for someone else is cheating. If she can't be with you exclusively you need to move on. This happened to my husband before we met. Happily he and she moved on to other people. It worked out for the best. (We've been married 11 yrs.)
Just wing it man. Have fun while you can...
if she's down wit the whole group thing then recognize a blessing when you see it
Maybe she's bisexual?
My wife is bi, and we swing to allow her to expore that side of herself.
Swinging isn't cheating. Doing things dishonestly or behind someone's back, is cheating.
Accept it or leave her.She will not change
maybe she is just curious about her own sexuality.
does she know that you know these things?
it is something you need to talk to her about. she might not have any plans to leave you or anything.
Well, if she's still with you, then she must be bi, y'know? Anyway, just confront her about it and ask her directly. No beating around the bush, here. Don't sound condescending, but let her explain what's going on. She really shouldn't be going behind your back, trying to meet up with other women, y'know?
Just be up-front with her and don't back her into a corner.
Depends, when your married your supposed to be dedicated to the person that your married to. Her trying to sleep with someone else while she's married is wrong regardless if the person would be a male or female.
Whether or not your sex life with her truly is great, there's trouble here. She is not being honest with you and she's checking out other lovers. Even if she hasn't yet met with anyone, it's on her mind and she may be breaking your emotional intimacy by getting close with someone else. She is either a lesbian who doesn't know how to tell you yet, or she's a bisexual. She may not even be sure yet which one she is! If I were you, I would go talk with her about her feelings, and find out why she isn't communicating with you. And if you really are going to ';welcome her sexuality'; then you should be aware that you probably won't be included in her involvements with women. When women get together, most of them typically don't want a man included. Women want their experiences to be more intimate and special and that means the men aren't invited. Not too many couples survive open-marriage... It sounds like you two won't be getting married either way.
If you're okay with your girlfriend cheating on you, then what's the problem? Nothing needs to be said.What would you do if you found that your girlfriend of 4 years is a lesbian?
isnt that cheating since she's with you and searching for a gf online?? does she know that you know?? it all depends on you babe, i wouldnt tolerate it but i'm not in your shoes
If she's with you and the sex is great why do you say she is not attracted to you at all? If she is attracted to you, and to women as well, then she is bi not lesbian. Hetero-sexual lifelong monogamy is just one of many forms of relationship/marriage that have been practiced with great success throughout the world throughout history. It's not even one of the more successful forms, as witness all the divorces. I've know many bisexual people to work out methods for making a marriage work, two examples: 1. A bisexual woman married a man and a woman, since she is the head of the household, she owns the house, after all, it is not a case of a man having two wives, but of a woman having a wife and husband; 2. A bisexual couple agreed to an open marriage, he had no woman but her but was free to swing with men, and vice versa, this worked for the people involved, and there have been no problems with either un-planned pregnancy or STDs. The married triple I mentioned is still going strong after over 20 years. You need to delete the word ';perve'; from your vocabulary, mutually enjoyable activities between consenting adults in the privacy of their own home are no one Else's business.
cheating is cheating
i would love, care for, accept, respect, need, and welcome he
r that much more. what is wrong with her being a lesbian? is t
hat some kind of deadly killer. are you going to get any lesser
sex, is the world going to end, are your dick going to fall off,ar
e you going to lose her over night, are her kids going to turn g
ay and screw your head off? then what is wrong if she is a les
bian? you should be thankful that things could remain the sam
e for the two of you.what do you want us to do, or say?
I would hope you would want a monogomous relationship. Whether she prefers men, women, or both, this probably doesn't include you. Searching for someone else is cheating. If she can't be with you exclusively you need to move on. This happened to my husband before we met. Happily he and she moved on to other people. It worked out for the best. (We've been married 11 yrs.)
Just wing it man. Have fun while you can...
if she's down wit the whole group thing then recognize a blessing when you see it
Maybe she's bisexual?
My wife is bi, and we swing to allow her to expore that side of herself.
Swinging isn't cheating. Doing things dishonestly or behind someone's back, is cheating.
Accept it or leave her.She will not change
maybe she is just curious about her own sexuality.
does she know that you know these things?
it is something you need to talk to her about. she might not have any plans to leave you or anything.
Well, if she's still with you, then she must be bi, y'know? Anyway, just confront her about it and ask her directly. No beating around the bush, here. Don't sound condescending, but let her explain what's going on. She really shouldn't be going behind your back, trying to meet up with other women, y'know?
Just be up-front with her and don't back her into a corner.
Depends, when your married your supposed to be dedicated to the person that your married to. Her trying to sleep with someone else while she's married is wrong regardless if the person would be a male or female.
Whether or not your sex life with her truly is great, there's trouble here. She is not being honest with you and she's checking out other lovers. Even if she hasn't yet met with anyone, it's on her mind and she may be breaking your emotional intimacy by getting close with someone else. She is either a lesbian who doesn't know how to tell you yet, or she's a bisexual. She may not even be sure yet which one she is! If I were you, I would go talk with her about her feelings, and find out why she isn't communicating with you. And if you really are going to ';welcome her sexuality'; then you should be aware that you probably won't be included in her involvements with women. When women get together, most of them typically don't want a man included. Women want their experiences to be more intimate and special and that means the men aren't invited. Not too many couples survive open-marriage... It sounds like you two won't be getting married either way.
Should I tell my ex how I feel? Or Just not talk to him.?
I'm 14 years old.
I started dating Jerod when I was 12 years old.
June 1st, 2008!
It was out of mistake.
Then we developed a lot of feelings for each other.
Neither of us could let go.
We were on and off a loooot.
Then at the end of August, I went to a campground with my friends,
And you know how your friends can be,
They put me and another guy's hands together, I pulled and pulled away.
But I couldn't get lose.
So now, I cheated on him.
I have felt terribly bad ever since.
We went out a week after that for two days.
Then two weeks after that, we went out again,
only this time, for a week.
Then he got a new girlfriend.
And in February he broke up with her for me.
We only went out for a a night and day.
Then he went back to her.
But the day after he broke up with me, 2-14.
He came to my house. And drastically cheated on Danielle.
Over spring break, we were talking about having sex and everything.
And now, he wont even speak to me.
I miss him like crazy.
What should I do?
ByTheWay, I'm sorry I wrote so much, just trying to give you some information about what has happened.
He tells his friends that I'm hot, then they run and tell me.
Everyone says that when my name's mentioned, he makes sure he's in on the conversation.
Is that a sign he likes me?
I am so confused.
So tell me what to do.
Thankkkk you(:Should I tell my ex how I feel? Or Just not talk to him.?
Give it time before jumping into anything.
I started dating Jerod when I was 12 years old.
June 1st, 2008!
It was out of mistake.
Then we developed a lot of feelings for each other.
Neither of us could let go.
We were on and off a loooot.
Then at the end of August, I went to a campground with my friends,
And you know how your friends can be,
They put me and another guy's hands together, I pulled and pulled away.
But I couldn't get lose.
So now, I cheated on him.
I have felt terribly bad ever since.
We went out a week after that for two days.
Then two weeks after that, we went out again,
only this time, for a week.
Then he got a new girlfriend.
And in February he broke up with her for me.
We only went out for a a night and day.
Then he went back to her.
But the day after he broke up with me, 2-14.
He came to my house. And drastically cheated on Danielle.
Over spring break, we were talking about having sex and everything.
And now, he wont even speak to me.
I miss him like crazy.
What should I do?
ByTheWay, I'm sorry I wrote so much, just trying to give you some information about what has happened.
He tells his friends that I'm hot, then they run and tell me.
Everyone says that when my name's mentioned, he makes sure he's in on the conversation.
Is that a sign he likes me?
I am so confused.
So tell me what to do.
Thankkkk you(:Should I tell my ex how I feel? Or Just not talk to him.?
Give it time before jumping into anything.
How do I stop acne without going to a doctor? make a guy like me as a girlfriend? and loose weight?
I need to stop my acne. It's not hard core or anything. Just annoys me, my parents tease me and i am fed up. I REALLY like this guy at school, he doesn't really notice me AT school more like on msn and things. He is amazing I would love to go out with him. I want to loose a bit of wait too, bikini season makes me nervous.
I am 14
Thank you for all of your help.
Any make-up tips would be apperciated too. I rarely have time to get ready before school in the mornings it can't take much time to apply.How do I stop acne without going to a doctor? make a guy like me as a girlfriend? and loose weight?
Sorry to say this but I don't now how parents could tease their teenage daughter for having acne that is so cruel, that actually made me feel a bit angry, sorry I know their your parents and that.
U need to cleanse tone and moisturise 3 times a day. There is kit U can get at Boots called Proactiv which is meant to be really good. It's from the states so U can buy it there too. I think the stater kit is around 拢20 Heres a link:
http://www.proactiv.com/
Also go on the acne.org website which has LOADS of advice and reviews for acne sufferers.
If U go to the doctor (I now U said U don't want to) they can give U a cream which is good at clearing acne BUT it has been known to dry the skin.
If U can afford premium products Clinique 3 step is good which U need to go to a beauty counter for (they are at loads of department stores) this helped me a lot when I was 15. Its actually not much more then Proactiv
Drink a lot of water as it helps flush the skin too.
Hope this helpsHow do I stop acne without going to a doctor? make a guy like me as a girlfriend? and loose weight?
I don't mean to be such a downer, but for God's sake, you have no business looking for a boyfriend or wearing a bikini at your age. Don't tramp out just because you clear your face up.
Just wash, use toner, moisturize. Keep in mind that you're a teenager and you're supposed to have acne. The key is to wash!
Okay...You're 14. I know you REALLY like this guy but trust me...you have MANY MORE YEARS ahead to make good decisions about guys...at 14 just try to keep your room clean and make good grades...the guy thing will happen when it's supposed to.
About the acne though...Walmart has a knockoff ';proactive'; brand cleanser that is as good as proactive but half the cost...WELL WORTH IT!
Hi You Can exfoliate every other day this will improve your acne
you must go to your local GP he will help you with loosing weight
you carnt make a guy like you
Ok don't try to make a guy like you it'll end up not working out, plus ur to young, and the bikini thing, don't worry about how u look as much and just have fun guys like that!
And the acne thing, apply a small amount of peroxide to each infected area with a q-tip every night, then wash ur face as you normally would, it really clears up fast i've used it for years! and it definitely cheap! make sure to do it every night though, not more, your face will dry up to much, and just wash your face regularly every morning too!
Hope this helps!!
Wash your face with Cetaphil which you can find at any Walgreen's. It's Dermatologist recommended. I personally went to my Derma and she prescribed Accutane. It's a very serious medicine, but it kills the bacteria in your body which is the source for your acne. It worked wonders for me.
For working out, try to find a workout buddy to jog with. Start out slow so you don't get discouraged, but try to increase your routine every week. Jogging and running are both free and work every part of your body!
Do this for yourself, though and not some guy that doesn't notice you now. Have you tried talking to him and becoming his friend? Oh, and for the makeup, I like to use a little mascara, mac blush, and some lipgloss or chapstick. Five minutes max!
1: get a product that contains glycolic acid this will bring out the acne it will get worse before it gets better use a green toned concealer if the acne is red remember a little go a long way and green makes red less noticeable
2: be yourself crack a little joke with this guy become friends first before you ask him out
3: go to the local gym see what classes they have on my favourite classes are body pump body combat and body attack these 3 classes will make you lose weight tone you up and make you more energised I should know because I used to be overweight slightly before these classes
For the acne problem I would cut down on greasy foods and sweets like candy, chocolate, etc. Also try to get at least 15-20 minutes of exercise each day! This will open your pores as well as help you to lose weight!
Also, buy something like noxema to wash your face! When you wash your face first take a cloth and heat it with slightly more than warm water,
(not too hot) place this over your face for a few seconds to open your pores. then apply noxema for cleansing by rubbing on your face with your fingers. (avoid the eyes) . After washing your face, rinse the noxema off and then turn the water to cold and splash this cold water on your face to close your pores. Pat your face dry with a clean dry cloth.
You are somewhat young to be dating! Although going out with a group of your friends would be pretty cool. Try just being yourself and just say hello to this guy from time to time. If he's a cool guy he will appreciate a nice hello and a nice smile! Oh yeah. At 14 you really don't need makeup on your skin! Peace!
Hello
First things first, what you are feeling is normal and part of growing up, we all feel self-concious about the way we look at some point. I would have a word with your parents about the teasing, I know they are only kidding around and don't realise how much it upsets you, ask them to stop and I am sure they will.
As for natural remedies there are a few things you can try. Lavender oil is a great anti-inflammatory, try a few drops on a cotton ball direct onto the spots every couple of days. Go to http://www.grannymed.com/meds/acne.aspx for a few more tips if you are wanting to avoid seeing your GP. however I imagine whatever I doctor can give you will be far more effective and work a lot quicker.Acne is nothing to feel ashamed about, around 1 in 6 people get it at some point, mostly in teen years.
As foe dieting....... I wouldn't recommend going on any fad diets for following any plans as you are only young and your body needs a certain amount of nutrients to help you develop properly. Just take regular exercise and try to eat a healthy, balanced diet. Again speak to your parents if they are the ones who make the meal decisions in the house, just let them know you want to eat a little better (you never know you could have the whole family making healthier choices all around, which is always good)
Good luck and I hope this helps
Liz xx
Hi, I used to have a bit of acne, I tried everything I could find. Eventually I got a doctors appointment and he prescribed me a benzoyl peroxide 5% cream. in two months my skin was completely acne free and it didn't cost a thing. Proactive might work for you but it's expensive. There are some benzoyl peroxide creams you can get over the counter, although I'm not sure if they work.
Start exercising, drinking lots of water and watching what you eat. Do some toning exercises and you should be able to get into shape by summer as long as you stick to it.
Make a move on the boy you like. He may be too shy to make the first move. You'll never know until you try. When you talk to him just be yourself and if he doesn't like you then he isn't worth having.
Good luck
I am 14
Thank you for all of your help.
Any make-up tips would be apperciated too. I rarely have time to get ready before school in the mornings it can't take much time to apply.How do I stop acne without going to a doctor? make a guy like me as a girlfriend? and loose weight?
Sorry to say this but I don't now how parents could tease their teenage daughter for having acne that is so cruel, that actually made me feel a bit angry, sorry I know their your parents and that.
U need to cleanse tone and moisturise 3 times a day. There is kit U can get at Boots called Proactiv which is meant to be really good. It's from the states so U can buy it there too. I think the stater kit is around 拢20 Heres a link:
http://www.proactiv.com/
Also go on the acne.org website which has LOADS of advice and reviews for acne sufferers.
If U go to the doctor (I now U said U don't want to) they can give U a cream which is good at clearing acne BUT it has been known to dry the skin.
If U can afford premium products Clinique 3 step is good which U need to go to a beauty counter for (they are at loads of department stores) this helped me a lot when I was 15. Its actually not much more then Proactiv
Drink a lot of water as it helps flush the skin too.
Hope this helpsHow do I stop acne without going to a doctor? make a guy like me as a girlfriend? and loose weight?
I don't mean to be such a downer, but for God's sake, you have no business looking for a boyfriend or wearing a bikini at your age. Don't tramp out just because you clear your face up.
Just wash, use toner, moisturize. Keep in mind that you're a teenager and you're supposed to have acne. The key is to wash!
Okay...You're 14. I know you REALLY like this guy but trust me...you have MANY MORE YEARS ahead to make good decisions about guys...at 14 just try to keep your room clean and make good grades...the guy thing will happen when it's supposed to.
About the acne though...Walmart has a knockoff ';proactive'; brand cleanser that is as good as proactive but half the cost...WELL WORTH IT!
Hi You Can exfoliate every other day this will improve your acne
you must go to your local GP he will help you with loosing weight
you carnt make a guy like you
Ok don't try to make a guy like you it'll end up not working out, plus ur to young, and the bikini thing, don't worry about how u look as much and just have fun guys like that!
And the acne thing, apply a small amount of peroxide to each infected area with a q-tip every night, then wash ur face as you normally would, it really clears up fast i've used it for years! and it definitely cheap! make sure to do it every night though, not more, your face will dry up to much, and just wash your face regularly every morning too!
Hope this helps!!
Wash your face with Cetaphil which you can find at any Walgreen's. It's Dermatologist recommended. I personally went to my Derma and she prescribed Accutane. It's a very serious medicine, but it kills the bacteria in your body which is the source for your acne. It worked wonders for me.
For working out, try to find a workout buddy to jog with. Start out slow so you don't get discouraged, but try to increase your routine every week. Jogging and running are both free and work every part of your body!
Do this for yourself, though and not some guy that doesn't notice you now. Have you tried talking to him and becoming his friend? Oh, and for the makeup, I like to use a little mascara, mac blush, and some lipgloss or chapstick. Five minutes max!
1: get a product that contains glycolic acid this will bring out the acne it will get worse before it gets better use a green toned concealer if the acne is red remember a little go a long way and green makes red less noticeable
2: be yourself crack a little joke with this guy become friends first before you ask him out
3: go to the local gym see what classes they have on my favourite classes are body pump body combat and body attack these 3 classes will make you lose weight tone you up and make you more energised I should know because I used to be overweight slightly before these classes
For the acne problem I would cut down on greasy foods and sweets like candy, chocolate, etc. Also try to get at least 15-20 minutes of exercise each day! This will open your pores as well as help you to lose weight!
Also, buy something like noxema to wash your face! When you wash your face first take a cloth and heat it with slightly more than warm water,
(not too hot) place this over your face for a few seconds to open your pores. then apply noxema for cleansing by rubbing on your face with your fingers. (avoid the eyes) . After washing your face, rinse the noxema off and then turn the water to cold and splash this cold water on your face to close your pores. Pat your face dry with a clean dry cloth.
You are somewhat young to be dating! Although going out with a group of your friends would be pretty cool. Try just being yourself and just say hello to this guy from time to time. If he's a cool guy he will appreciate a nice hello and a nice smile! Oh yeah. At 14 you really don't need makeup on your skin! Peace!
Hello
First things first, what you are feeling is normal and part of growing up, we all feel self-concious about the way we look at some point. I would have a word with your parents about the teasing, I know they are only kidding around and don't realise how much it upsets you, ask them to stop and I am sure they will.
As for natural remedies there are a few things you can try. Lavender oil is a great anti-inflammatory, try a few drops on a cotton ball direct onto the spots every couple of days. Go to http://www.grannymed.com/meds/acne.aspx for a few more tips if you are wanting to avoid seeing your GP. however I imagine whatever I doctor can give you will be far more effective and work a lot quicker.Acne is nothing to feel ashamed about, around 1 in 6 people get it at some point, mostly in teen years.
As foe dieting....... I wouldn't recommend going on any fad diets for following any plans as you are only young and your body needs a certain amount of nutrients to help you develop properly. Just take regular exercise and try to eat a healthy, balanced diet. Again speak to your parents if they are the ones who make the meal decisions in the house, just let them know you want to eat a little better (you never know you could have the whole family making healthier choices all around, which is always good)
Good luck and I hope this helps
Liz xx
Hi, I used to have a bit of acne, I tried everything I could find. Eventually I got a doctors appointment and he prescribed me a benzoyl peroxide 5% cream. in two months my skin was completely acne free and it didn't cost a thing. Proactive might work for you but it's expensive. There are some benzoyl peroxide creams you can get over the counter, although I'm not sure if they work.
Start exercising, drinking lots of water and watching what you eat. Do some toning exercises and you should be able to get into shape by summer as long as you stick to it.
Make a move on the boy you like. He may be too shy to make the first move. You'll never know until you try. When you talk to him just be yourself and if he doesn't like you then he isn't worth having.
Good luck
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