Monday, August 16, 2010

How to make it not so 'weird' with your girlfriend?

My girlfriend said she (and I) wanted to bring it up to the next level. I am soo glad too. Like start hugging, holding hands, all that good stuff! I am so happy for us! The only thing.. how do i make it not so un-weridish and not be so scared to do it? I want to do it, its just that im kinda scared. This is normal right? Help with this?How to make it not so 'weird' with your girlfriend?
Congratulations! well, let's see... you should probably be the one who initiate the move of holding hands first. You can do that by asking her if she's cold? and take her hand and warm them up and dont let go? it's chessy but it works! and take things slow. if you are going to give her a hug, don't rush into the hug... make sure you see where her head and arms are... you don't want to bump into her like an idiot... give her kisses on her hands, then cheeks then watever... but like I said, take it slow and be aware of where you are and who's watching.. make sure she's in a comfortable environment. don't worry about it, this is what makes being in a relationship fun! goodo luckHow to make it not so 'weird' with your girlfriend?
It depends on how old are you, if you are in your early teens....do not take it to the next level, please!





You might end up being a father at 14?? 15?? or worse worse, getting a STD......stop, and think,,,,





enjoy your life,,,,wait for those ';next levels'; to happen at the right time......good luck and be wise! .
I think the classic date at the movies is perfect. May be a little old school, but it is dark, there is a distraction, if it gets too wierd you can bail for a soda.





Start with hands, don't worry about anything else. Just hold hands. Learn to walk holding hands, it is very fun. Next don't be shy to link arms, old fashioned style. I still hold mine that way, it seems not to bug him too much and you still get the joy of a cuddle.





When you finally make it to kiss, just leave it at long lingering lips. Don't worry about anything else. Let her lead for now, as much as possible, sounds like she is the one pushing for it.





You are liked (maybe even loved) enjoy it.
No, it's not normal. You shouldn't be scared to do those things with your girlfriend. She isn't a stranger is she??
You're probably 11 if you're asking this question, in which case you'll get over it, but you probably shouldnt have a girlfriend anyway.

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