Girlfriend broke up unexpectly?

ok my girlfriend works 7 days a week and works from 10am to 8 pm





her alone time has olny been for 4 hrs after she gets off work in our 8 month relationship.





she asked me for some alone time cuz we spent everyday together and she had no time to do things like Laundry,read,go to the store, and do normal things she needs to do. she even said she would love to run around with curlers in her hair and not feel embarrassed.





so i said ok thats fine.well she continued calling me like 5 times a day and texts all the time even though she asked for space.





the funny thing is she texted me that she was a month late on her period and she took 4 test and were neg. but she can explain wy she hasnt had her Period


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anyways she said she would call me to talk about it and she didnt.





the next morning i texted her and said can we get together cuz we need to talk. and the response was ';YEAH we need to talk about how im not your girlfriend anymore';





so it was shocking but she ended telling me on the phone is does love me and cares about me but she isnt in love with me anymore and she doesnt even want to be friends.





im trying to figure out why she doesnt want to sit down face to face and talk about this its been 2 weeks since we seen each other.





i dont get her at all i ask her that i wish i could be as cool as she is acting acting cuz i miss us being together and she response ';I dont know what im talking about.





i tell her that why dont she ever want to see me again and she says. cuz u have feeling for me and it wouldnt work. now i dont know why is is acting like this there are many things going on with her.





1 her best friend broke up with her boyfriend and told her to break up with me.





2 her friend also told her to hold back sex cuz it would make it feel special again





3. she works all the time which she is stressed





4. has major family problems- brother calls her and says hes killing himself





5. used coke and was a pill popper for over a year but went to rehab and is now clean for 3 years.





6.says she needs meds for stuff she has but can afford it





so there are alot of things that come into play but its funny because she broke up with me over the phone and text.





is that right to do and refuse to talk this out after this long..





she was a really clingy girlfriend thats why im shocked.





we even worked side by side at our old job before we both quit so we can be together and had a strong connection,she was even talking about kids,weddings,living together the works





Also about a possible other guy....look she says she has no other guy or even a guy she likes or anything she says she has been at home by herself this whole time and i can come and check her phone,texts email, and even ask her people that lives around her if there was another guy cuz they are always outside and sees everything. she was really mad that i brought this up.





so i dont know guys is it right to break up over the phone with no


reason why?





i think its wrong but i wanted to know what you guys think





i am hurt and and trying to work threw this but its hard as hell.





thanks for reading this.





i just cant believe two people with a great friendship/relationship would have enough reason to just say its over out of know where. even when she would get upset with me she would always say she lovedme so much.





im 23 and she is 21 .........she even rushed home to put single on her myspace.but i have to admit i did it before her cuz i was upset.





anyways thanks again and if you have anymore question feel free to ask.





FYI we did have sex everynight we were together for the first 3 months before her friend ****** it all up by talking. Girlfriend broke up unexpectly?
It sounds like she is back on the drugs. Stay away from this one she has more problems than you are equipped to deal with. Sorry this one is not for you.