My girlfriend`s parents forced us to break up after seeing us make out...how do I get us back together?

I was dating this girl for 3 month when I was at her house and her parents caught as making out. It wasn`t the first time we made out at her house before, just the first time we got caught. You see her bioligical father was sexually abusive to her mother causing her to be very protective of her daughter, and her step-father isn`t much better. She lives on a farm and being an only child, her and her parents are quit busy. So when im there, her parents gave her permission to stop what she`s doing in order to spend time with me... so we figured that we`d have some time ALONE while her parents work. How wrong could I be? Before I get into what happeed let me state the rules that her parents had for us: Rule #1: No touchy feely (no kissing, no hugs, NOT EVEN HOLDING HANDS). Rule #2: Do as your told. Rule #3: No stay at her house for more than 2 hours. Rule #4: Your not allowed in the house alone or together without adult supervision. Lets get to the good part, shall we? Well, it wasn`t pretty. Her parents didn`t know what to do at first. Her mother did tell us that we could still see each other, but that`s what she said then. They said that they`ll call my mother (who was on my side) in a week and instruct her with what they wanted to us. The WEEKS WENT and still no call, so my mom called them. They said that they didn`t put much thought into it and would call her back with the plan. This went on for about a month before my mom called them again. The results not so good. My girlfriend`s step-dad said that her mother felt like she was gonna throw up when ever she thought about it. He then said that they would`ve possibly charged me with rape if I had my hand 6in. lower (then I would`ve had my hand on her butt). Finally he told my mother that the police would get involed if I ever try to make contact with her...well too bad! Its not like we go to the same school, so I can`t see her there. We both love each other dearly. My girlfriend proved that to me on Dec. 23 (2 months after the incident) when she tried to call my cell (I didn`t answer because I had no bars at the time) with one of her friends cell phone (she didn`t have a cell phone, her parents made her use a phone with cord during our daily talks) at a dance. If I knewn a way to contact her without getting caught I would, but so far, I don`t know of any way to do that. SO HELP ME PLEASE!!! HOW CAN I GET US BACK TOGETHER?My girlfriend`s parents forced us to break up after seeing us make out...how do I get us back together?
wait till she's 18, then her parents have no say. trust me, she wouldn't forget you anyway. it's like a romeo and juliet complex. if you can wait, then it's real love. if you can't, then its not (it's just infatuation, which will pass with time).





not to mention that her parents would respect you a great deal more than if you tried to keep the connection now. trying to force the relationship on them will cause a terrible tension that will ruin the relationship in the future. If you want her, wait. whenever you get the chance tell her you will wait.My girlfriend`s parents forced us to break up after seeing us make out...how do I get us back together?
Not worth it. Get out before its too late!!! I'm not joking, I had a girlfriend who had an evil father, and ditching her was priceless!!!
Maybe, you could send her letter. If it is not possible, be brave and face her parents. Prove your love to her.
You broke her parent's rules... there fore you pay the consequences and lost your gf. Move on.
i really have no clue what to tell you. her parents are mental. its just making out! im really sorry this all happend :(
I know it's not much, but you could always try windows live messenger or something. Any contact at all would help. :)
This is a tough one, and believe me, I feel for you.





The hard truth is that you just cannot and should not do anything outside of her parents' wishes, even if you feel they are unreasonable. That does not mean you have to give up on her, however. Your question sounds panicked and frantic. Try to calm down and trust that if you are patient and willing to respect them and take the time to regain their trust, her parents may change their minds about you in time.





If they do not, then you just have to wait. Going against her parents wishes, if she is a minor, will end in disaster for you. Do not do it.
doesn't seem like a big deal. She got a myspace, facebook? If so, do you have the same? If so, can you both access it via your phones? If not, try using the internet at your local library. Heck, go old school and mail her letters. Put a nickname she would recognize but the parents wouldn't. No return address cause if her parents see, they'll know. Best I can think of.
You'll only get yourself into trouble if you try to get back with her.





Your best bet is to wait until she is legal and can move out. Once she is an adult, she can do what she wants. If the love between you is real, you'll still love each other by then.





Good luck.
Dam I would shoot my self if my parents were such assholes. Well I mean if your moms on your side you could make out at your house. You can tell her parents that you will videotape what you did and show it to them (and you can photoshop if they are rednecks lol) so if you do that it will be good. You could tell them how they had their crush and stuff. You can also pretend to be super nice but not a lot or they will suspect it and try to suck up to them so they can trust you. If nothing works out and you really want to see her go Romeo and Juliet (not recomended lol) and if someone dies please dont sue me


Ok maybe not last part but I just finished reading that book so had to say it lol


O ya massage me for more help
her parents are being a bit ridiculous


i dont understand, how could they charge you with rape? are you kidding me? she let you do it, and its not like you two werent boyfriend and girlfriend.


its just because of the moms past, and quite frankly i think it might have something to do with her life now.


maybe she is getting raped day in and day out by her new husband, but too scared to say anything and is just protecting her daughter.


but hopefully thats not the case, because if so that would be sad.








the only way you can get her back is secretly because there is no way that her parents are going to let you by her


wait until you have your license (assuming you dont) and go out for a ride one night. call her before though and just take her out someplace


avoid going to her house, because that would just make matters worse.. well for a little while though.


next time you go over (if the parentals ever let you over) make sure you arent all ';touchy feely'; with her, and even if you think the parents arent home, BEWARE! they might be, they are sneaky. so just be careful





if you really love her, then tell her parents that, dont be a wimp


confess your love to her AND her parents


they need to know you arent just dating their daughter to get some action


show you really care


send her some flowers, maybe once a week or once a month until the parents get the picture


just have a rose delivered to the door step, just something sentimental and nice.





i am terribly sorry this is so lengthy, but i could just go on and on, but i will spare you the time and the boredom.


but i really hope you consider some of the possibilities





good luck!
Your story is really long.


Maybe you should change your grammar a little.


Use %26amp; not and, 1st not first.





But your girlfriend's parents are assholes.


Tell them to go to hell %26amp; maybe fight them.


Or make them have a talk with me.


I will be happy to tell those ******* off.
1st a phone call doesn't mean your in love (not that im judging but most likely it's a strong crush)


2 make sure you've apologized to her parents that you'd never do that again


* allot depends on you and her are you willing to have a relation ship with out much physical contact


* u can't be sure she doesn't want to break up (there is an extremely wide range of emotions she could be feeling)


3 prove to her parents that you can be good.


* call to apoligize and ask if you can have dinner or some thing with them under there supervision)


if they let you then do more things under there super vision till you get them to trust you


* you may not get to kiss her for years


*also they could not sue you for rape as long as there daughter didnt lie and say u raped her
check for a computer, her parents obviously don't give her a cell phone, which probably means they don't know much about computers, as soon as her parents barge in her room, she changes to miniclip.com or something
Get the phone number of the friend's phone that she called you off of, text it or call it and ask that person when she see's your ex (gf/whatever she is) again to call or text you from that phone, just talk it out with her and figure out what to do together, maybe bring your mom to go talk with her parents, try to convince them that it won't happen again, try to get your gf to talk to her parents and let you off the hook.
I'm really sorry, but you should have respected the rules that her parents set up in the first place. They had good reason for them, even if they were being slightly paranoid. Physical contact is not necessary to a romantic relationship, and now the two of you can't even see one another. I hope you learned your lesson.


But as to anwsering the question . . . if there is some way you can prove to the girl's parents that you are respectable and honest, like trying to apologize to them (do it yourself, don't have your mom call them), and promising (honestly) to never do it again, then you should do that. IRegaining her parents' trust is the only thing you can do to get your girlfriend back. Just remember, if you break their trust again, they probably will separate you two for good.
Hmmm...Try this. Go see her parents and APOLOGIZE for breaking their rules. This was your fault so accept responsibility and grow up. Ask for another chance and promise not to break the rules again. Be a man instead of a sniveling little boy asking people how to break rules again. If you really care for her this shouldn't be a problem.
although, this would be completely scary, you could talk to them in person. sheesh, they could be more considerate, it's not like yall were having sex...i'm so sorry!!! =( i hope you figure something out!
nike. just do it. be a man.