My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me.. But Why?

Well im just wondering mostly from a girls prospective why my girlfriend broke up with me :/ well it was all back a week ago on thursday December 17 2009 almost 2 months dating :] im that kinda guy most girls wishes their boyfriends would act like, respectful, open minded to her ideas and thoughts, a good listener, knows how to make her laugh, and most importantly a good boyfriend as well as being her best friend. We could see each other at school everyday (im 15 freshman in highschool) and i thought she was amazing ive known her since kintergarden and her dreamy topaz eyes and dancer body made my eyes pop and her sweet laugh.. i couldnt help but join in laughing with her :) well id always thought wow i wish if anything i could have a chance with her.. and next thing i know shes holding my hand and im just head over heels for her. Time passes by too quickly it seems now.. we went to the movies, hung at my house, she loved to make out with me when we were alone and later on in the relationship we did some minor sexual things but what teenager doesnt am i right? well she'd been hanging out a lot with this guy rodney and i trust her 100% as i do with every girlfriend i have. I can tell they flirt a lot but thats nothing so we go on and its wierd how you never know where the peak of your relationship was until its over.. well it reached that point in time and she told me i was perfect and just too sweet because i wrote her a little love poem and gave her a present for our ';one month anniversery'; dont get whats so special about one month of dating but why turn down a celebration with your girlfriend? well the present was FOR our one month but i didnt finish it until around 15 days later (I tried to make it as romantic as possible because she loves that so it took a little while longer) and 2 days after i was ';perfect'; she broke up with me. Luckily i knew it was coming because all the ';i love yous'; and smiley faces dissappeared from the txts and well one year of psychology my mom made me go to from my first break up devastation(suicidal i was crazy %26gt;.%26gt; dumb reason i realize that now ) i had prepared myself as much as i could in the two day period so i had some cushion to fall on so-to-speak. I let her know and i quote ';its ok and when i told you i loved you i meant i want whatever makes you happy so dont feel bad ill always be here for you, im still the best friend i was before nothings changed and nothing will'; I asked her why soon after she thanked me for being so understanding and she just said and again i quote ';well idk i just dont feel the same about you as i did before'; Now lets think...i didnt change at all and my feelings for her grew everyday. i never sexually pressured her or gave her a reason to break up with me, now shes going out with rodney. I just want to know something despite my psychology classes i cant tell if she broke up with me for rodney or what she said, or if she was cold hearted enough to break up with me for no reason. My thoughts are a little foggy right now and i just need some help from you guys and a little comfort im still fragile over the breakup. But my statement stands i want what makes her happy but happiness sometimes comes with sacrifices which is fine with me. id just appreciate the truth which i dont know if she is telling the truth or protecting me from a hurtful truth about another guy. Thanks a lot :)My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me.. But Why?
Wow you wrote so much. She probably broke up with you because you talk to much.My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me.. But Why?
%26lt;i didnt change at all and my feelings for her grew everyday.%26gt;





That's where it went wrong. While your feelings continued to grow, you forgot to make sure that her feelings were growing also. To see if her feelings are growing you should look at at her actions. It's good that you noticed that her texts were less enthusiastic, but you should have seen this as a warning sign and adjusted. Then when she is flirting with other dudes you should have seen this as a big red flag. Next time you won't continue to fall in love with a girl who is falling out of love with you. It's more important to show her that you are not going to be a victim by withholding your calls, acting more aloof and start flirting with other girls around her. Only then will she respond more positively. Otherwise, you would have known that the relationship was doomed and had the opportunity to dump her first.
You need to start hanging out with some other girls. She seems to be the center of your earth, but she just doesn't feel the same way about you. When it comes to positive attributes in women you like, reciprocity should be at the top of the list. So get some female friends, and try to get yourself in a place where you feel comfortable and at ease being who you want to be.





Because right now, being who you want to be is far more important than being with the person you want to be with.
dude, that's too much too read.
She's a teenager and teenaged girls are notoriously fickle. Don't take it personally, she's young and needs to experiment to find out what she likes. This doesn't mean that she doesn't like you, it means that she probably doesn't know herself.





You sound like a great guy and this may not be much of a consolation but in 10 years time, if you stay the way you are, you will have women falling over you.
just to let you know i read your whole book.. i think you should cut back on the writing for future reference if you want proper responses...





anyways...





1. she obviously broke up with you to be with rodney





2. you guys are in highschool... there are no serious relationships and people tend to move on and like other people quickly





3. you were probably sufficating her with your ';sweetness'; i.e. being too clingy





4. i suggest you go back to the therapist it will help you.. remember to be confident in yourself





most important:





5. remember that its her loss that she dumped you and that she missed out on a great thing!
He wrote so much because he wants an honest opinion. What kind of 'tard breaks up with someone who is ';perfect'; just for talking too much about how they feel about something? every girl i've met would love for a guy to share their feelings. No... Its been a week you say? and she is dating this rodney fellow already? She must have either been talking to him and liking him or she already had feelings for him, and vise versa. Sorry dude. Wish there was some other explanation but there is none i can think of for such a quick transition.
cos u have a small wang
maybe its because you're so insecure and serious(not fun)