so, i screwed up really bad today. it was my gfs birthday, and i DIDNT forget, i ordered her present like 2 days ago, but it didnt get here yet. so i went to school, but i didnt say happy birthday right when i saw her, i wanted to say it when we were alone for some stupid reason. then at lunch she was kind of hanging out near me and i couldve said it then, but my other friend was talking my ear off. i ended up skipping lunch for a test anyway, and so i didnt sing her happy birthday in the caffeteria. later in the locker room we were hanging out with a bunch of friends and they were like ';so brittni, r u going to say happy birthday to your girlfriend now?'; so i just like blurted it out cause i was embarrassed. then later i had to tell her her present would be late. she thinks i forgot about her birthday. i apologized so much, told her i DID NOT forget, but shes still hurt i think. I WANT TO MAKE UP FOR IT ASAP, I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING!!!! PLEASE HELP ME OUT ON THIS ONE, BEST ANSWER GETS FULL POINTS IF THATS ANY INCENTIVE!!! PLEASE, IM BEGGING.....(and yes, i KNOW im an idiot....)How do i make up for missing her birthday?
show up with the gift and act all excited and say happy birthday. when she says my birthday was the other day on for example the 12th, you say, '; oh my god, i thought today was the twelvth. i am so sorry i can never keep dates straight.'; it will look like you did not forget but instead got confused.How do i make up for missing her birthday?
COMMUNICATION is the most important part of a relationship. Just be honest with her. Explain what happened and that you wanted themoment to be a little special. nd it just never worked out for you. It won't be the last time this happens in your life. You will learn to handle it better. But please just talk to her and be honest. Have a little something to give to her at the moment. A single flower- her favorite of course. A stuffed animal. A book of poetry. Something small but special. And make sure she knows that something was coming but didn't arrive in time. She may not be as sad as you imagined or she may be hurt more than she shows. Just show her you care. And you weren't forgetful. HUGS!! to both of you
do something speacial for her, ask her to forgive you, and look her in the eyes and tell her you are sorry and that you didnt mean to make her feel like shes not speacial. dont give her excuses just say you are sorry. and that you respect her and want her to feel wanted and loved.
send her the link for this question via email and tell her you would like her to answer a yahoo answers question.
If you decide to go with it tell me to delete my answer first (before she sees this) and then give her best answer.
make her happy
if you ordered her present show her the receipt or some other dated documentation of when you purchased it. forgive her if she feels like an idiot.
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