What do you do when your ex-girlfriend screws up all future relationships for you? (check the details)?

Okay, so our highschool is having our Winter Formal this Friday, and I figured I'd ask my friend, Nicole, to go with me...


now here's the odd part. I broke up with my girlfriend the day after Thanksgiving -- and she's still ruining stuff for me, with her numerous acts. To some of her friends, I'm depicted as a ***** and all, but in this case...


Well, Nicole goes to private school. and as it turns out, her and my ex knew eachother back in 3rd grade (we're in 9th now), but haven't really talked for about 2 years. So when I asked Nicole, she said that my ex called her out of the blue and gave her this sob story of ';ohh woe is me... I'm still not over Nick, and blah blah blah blah blah.'; This is definatly a load of crap, considering she does what she can to make my days miserable (and succeeds, though i don't show it).


But as a result, I don't have a date to the dance (even though nicole said she really likes me (w/sincerity), and so now, what would you do? revenge, or ignore it all? how?What do you do when your ex-girlfriend screws up all future relationships for you? (check the details)?
well, sounds like she ISN'T over you. You need to tell her flat out that its over. She needs to get that through her head. And tell Nicole that you are over ur x 100%, so she doesnt become worried.What do you do when your ex-girlfriend screws up all future relationships for you? (check the details)?
TELL HER TO MIND HER OWN BUSINESS








you guys broke up... and now its over she doesnt have a right to interfear with your relationships..








and ignore her the girl might understand
tell that ****** that she's being a huge ******. i hate it when girls do that. it gives other girls a bad name.
Ignore it all. High school is just a blip on your radar. Don't give it a second thought. Trust me. I went to college 360 miles away from home. Turns out, so did some of the people I knew in high school (we hated each other). Next thing you know, we are all good friends. As you get older, people change, grow and forgive. In three years, you won't have the same kind of drama.





Ask out another girl. There are lots of them.
TELL NICOLE WHAT SHE'S DOING AND THAT IF SHE REALLY LIKES U TO TELL HER 2 IGNORE UR EX COS SHE'S JUST JEALOUS OF HER THAT SHE DOESNT HAVE YOU,AND IF ANYTHING...DONT DO ANYTHING BACK.JUST IGNORE HER N TELL THE PEOPLE THAT SHE SAYS CRAP 2 THE SIDE OF UR STORY.IF THEY CANT TRUST U..SOME FRIENDS THEY R.
A 9th grade girl can only ruin your life if you let her. Call your friend Nicole back and tell her you really want to go with her and that NOTHING is going on between you and the ex. If she doesn't believe you, tell her you would be more than happy to call your ex 3 way on the phone and tell her that is over and that you want her to move on, like you. If that doesn't work, Nicole isn't the chick for you. You want someone who will be down for you regardless of what your ex is doing.
if i were you id call ur ex girlfriend out... i would find out what her deal is, tell her you dont have any feeling's for her, tell her to move on, shes in grade 9, shes got lots of dating to do, she shouldnt be caught up in one guy.. as for nicole, if you like her aswell, dont let anything get in the way of that, take her to the dance, whats ur ex gonna do? she needs to get over herself.
I am sure Nicole is being sympathetic to your ex...but why, I'll never know! The only thing you can do is try and explain to Nicole what's really happening and you can probably best illustrate that with facts plus the icing on the cake. That would be to find out if your ex has a date for Friday night with another guy and ask Nicole if she doesn't think that's odd seeing as your ex is still sooooooooooo heartbroken. What a crock but what goes around comes around. Until it does just chill and if Nicole still won't go with you as a friend, see if you can go away for the week-end and be sure to let her know you went away because you had a better offer! I don't like playing games but she sure deserves it if what you say is true!
you should talk to your ex and tell her to stop, the reason that she is probably making things hard for you is because she probably still cares about you and it hurts her to see you with someone else. Be patient with her and try to talk to her
Just ignore her she will eventually get bored or find someone else and leave you alone
The best revenge is living well..... go to the dance and try to honestly have a good time.





That ex is going to be trouble for you until she finds someone else to torment. Do NOT do/say anything to provoke her..because I'm sure she'd blow it out of proportion.
Too bad you didn't point out to Nicole how convienient your ex's timing was to ruin your chance to go to the dance.





Your ex's ploy is transparent to keep you from going with anyone else.





Heck, go stag with some other friends and show your ex you won't let her hold you back.
dump her
She's an ex for a reason, and the only way to keep her out of your life, is confront her, tell her it's 100% OVER, and you're done with her.
thats some bull!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just ignore it because if the person really likes you then they wont care what she says. Also if you try yo get revenge then your ex will be on yahoo trying to get us to tell her what to do when you are ******* up her life.
revenge is petty and will solve nothing. If she learns she's getting to you she'll keep it up, ignore her. And if she ever grows up she'll stop....and if she doesn't confront her about it. (In a nice but firm way)
talk to Nicole about it, especially if youre real upset and cant find another date for the life of you, then tell Nicole that : ). or find some other cute girl to ask. remember, it is only a high school dance. or you could always get back at Nicole by convincing one of her closer friends or maybe someone she really doesnt like to go with you to the dance
revenge makes you a small person. look at your ex!





Go to the dance on your own and show her how much you don't care. Say hi if she does otherwise keep your distance, some girls are poison





if nicole really liked you to begin with she never would've listened to your ex
What you need to do is confront your ex about this in a very neutral way. If you are not able to sit down with her and talk to her about it face-to-face while keeping your cool, then write her a letter. Explain to her in the least harsh way possible that she needs to let you go. But also, remember, 'bros before hos' works for girls too (at least the nice ones). If these girls were good friends, even one time, they probably are going to back each other up and support one another. You have to respect that. And if it were me, I would not want to get mixed up in anyones ex-bf/gf drama. No thank you! It's a lot easier to stay away, so I don't blame this girl, Nicole.





Talk to your ex. Maybe she can be understanding and let the two of you go to the dance together. If not, find a new date or go alone. You can still have fun without a date. Plus, I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who think your cute. You might just not know it.
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Ignore it. Your best revenge is to 'kill em with kindness'!! If Nicole really likes you, she will dance with you regardless of what others say.





Go to the dance stag or with the boys and have fun... no commitments there!





Good luck!
Ignore her if you do anything for revenge you'll just fuel the fire even more.
I would just say that it is up to the people she talks to


whether they believe her or not.





You can find out who your real friends are, that way.





You will find other girls in the future and no one


can ruin your future relationships.





Ultimately, your past behavior and current behavior


will speak for itself and the truth comes out to people


about who you really are.





Revenge is only good if you come up with a way to


get even without anyone knowing you are behind it,


and the targeted person can learn a lesson about their bad


behavior from the revenge you select.
I've had a few ';psycho'; gf's. They've threatened my other gf's or just made my life hell. They can and will make things horrible for you, if you get them that way. I've found it works best just to stay on they're good side, be friends with her dude. You moght think she's crazy as ****, but it's the best way. And if she still doesn't stop, the only other thing to do is to kill her ( I don't recommend that though )





-M@
just ignore it. 9th grad is too young to be dating anyway.
listen dude!! u hav to make like a cow and moooooove on!! if u broke it on wit yur ex it is done!! if u like this new girl i would just ignore yur ex!!
well, revenge is definately not your answer because then all the bad stories about you would be (at least sort of) true. Is you ex beyond talking to?
you dont need revenge, you just have to talk to her about this. tell her she is ruining things for you, though im sure she already knows, maybe she just want you to recognize it.
I say REVENGE!!!!!!!! (its what i would do.)
Damn, Im really sorry to hear this Nick! Well you have to tell Nicole there are 2sides to each story. And if she honestly decides to side w/your ex.... theres not much you can do. If she is mature she will realize how your ex is trying to get between ya'll. Btw, theres nothing wrong going to the dance alone either!





Can I ask why ya'll broke up with out being to intrucive?