If you knew your girlfriend was being dishonest what would you do.?

Bit of a weird question but i have no idea what to do i know my girlfriend has lied to me about how many sexual partners she has had and i do believe she has been with at least 1 person behind my back ( no proof she has though )but i can say that she does talk to other men about meeting up and even as far as helping her get pregnant and it just so happens that the guy she asked to help her get pregnant is 1 of the guys that i know she has been with previous to me but she doesn't know that i know any of this. I love the girl to pieces and don't know what i would do without her but if i confront her about anything then she will have a big argument with me about how i know everything she will make sure that she gets the last word in be for hanging the phone up and making me out to be the bad person and if your wondering why i say on the phone that's because she still lives with her parents and doesn't want anyone to know we are together so talking to her in person is out the question. anyone have any good advice as what to do i would love to just be able to call her a slut and walkaway but in my heart i know that's not what i want to do. HELP!!!If you knew your girlfriend was being dishonest what would you do.?
Sometimes, love makes us irrational and do stupid things. I sympathize with you because I have been there. I was duped by my girlfriend and left me after borrowing a large sum of money (i.e. to me, a pretty large amount because I am still a student) and she never paid me back, and even bad-mouthed me to make me feel guilty, the same technique being used by your girlfriend. My friendly advice to you is to move on, even though you will be devastated for a few months after the relationship ends. But take heart, my friend. Better to leave her now rather than be enmeshed with possible pregnancy problems of your girlfriend and to think that you did not cause the pregnancy. Please move now and leave her. You will curse me a few months from now, but after a year or two you will thank me for advising you on the matter. Good luck to you and God bless.If you knew your girlfriend was being dishonest what would you do.?
all you have to do is talk to her in person not in phone.listen to her side then after that try to share your side also so that she will know what you fell .try to fixed everything then if its not working you will be the one to decide what will you do next.if you think she need space or time give them to her..manage everything if you want her back to you. the communication will be forever.
The problem you have is that she is ';Wearing the trowsers...'; so to speak. It sounds like your relationship is largely decided by her. Unfortunately without making your presence know in the relationship there is no way she will take you seriously as it is human nature to pull on a long leash.
To be honest, i think she doesn't love you. Are you sure you still want to be wif her? Y would she asked the guy to help her get pregnant and not you? Is she taking you for a ride?? Please give up and find someone better for you unless you dun mind being the reserved then you dun need help jus live wif it.
try talking and if all fells ignore her for a while, shes bound to come back. keep little connection with her but ignoring always works. or if shes being a b!tC* just break up with her...
did you play scarecrow in the wizard of oz by any chance? if not, you should.
Glass the b*tich
Kick her in the face.
show her the back of your hand. Tell her to make you a sammich
stab her in the face
u can only communicate with her with serious confrintations by phone?She doesnt want ANYONE knowing ye are together?


This girl is taking you for a ride and has you wrapped around her little finger,your so mad about her and deep in your heart you know she's cheated. Even she knows that you know this,and yet,she gets to 'win' arguments?!She makes no sense.


You ever hear the saying love will kill you. Love is what you want to believe it will be,I desperatly suggest you walk away with your head held high beofre you feel real heartbreak.


Communication is key in relationships as well as honesty,so,do you call not being able to sit down with and try to sort out a few things with her without her freaking out communication?I think not. Believe me,we'v all been there when it comes to that one person that rules our hearts and we'd bend over backwards like fools for them,thing is,some people have the oppurtunity to be smart about it and escape that foolishness. Think long and hard about this and I wish you the very best.


From an Irish lass in Ireland.x
Who she has been with before you has nothing to do with you or your relationship. Why guys insist to dig into things that make pain, I will never know. Take her for what she is or let her go. If she is doing something now, while she is with you, and behind you back, then you have every right to ask about it. If she lies to you, then make your decision, based on your moral code and hers. If you choose to continue seeing her after you know what she did, then you can not complain about it over and over again, like most people do. So either keep her, or let her go, if she did something, or if she lies to you, or if you don't believe her story. But if you break up, then stay broken up.
Ditch her. I know you were expecting this, but she's craving the cock of someoene else. I'd take that as a personal insult. Get rid of her, and remember, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else. Be a man. Real men aren't manipulated by women. That's what she's doing, she's manipulating you, and every time you bend to her will, she likes you less and less, and craves someone who won't. Be done with her and get a girl who can respect you enough to be honest.





Also if she's looking to get pregnant you are in a world of ****, avoid that like the plague. Why would you want a kid with a woman you don't trust?





EDIT: I read everyone elses reply and it's obvious they didn't read it all. Don't worry about losing a girl, if you do that, then you WILL lose them. Sometimes the best way to keep a girl is to risk losing them, but in this case, I reccomend getting rid of her completely. I've never been in a relationship where a girl wouldn't trust me enough to tell me about their history. The point of a trusting and meaningful relationship is to accept each other for who they are, but you can't have that without honesty. If she's not being honest, she doesn't want a relationship, she want's a pet. You aren't a dog. You're a man, dammit. Tell her, without tears, without regret, and without emotion, that you can do better. Don't listen to her tears, don't listen to her desperation, and if she doesn't cry and doesn't act desperate, then she obviously doesn't care. Stop being USED.
Instead of finding all this info out about her, you ask her yourself. Oh wait, you did...


She's probably lying about it because she's too embarassed to tell you herself.





And in my honest opinion, her past history is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. DOES IT F*CKING MATTER? NO.





You're gonna lose her if you act this insecure. Stop being a f*cking baby and just like her now for who she is. If you stay relaxed, laid-back, and not let a darn thing bother you, she will eventually open up and feel more comfortable telling you her past vibes.