How do I make my girlfriend break up with me.?

Hi,





I'm in a very long and serious relationship. We're together for 2 and a half years now. I broke up with her a while ago, but we got back together. Everything was fine for the first couple of months, but then problems returned.





The relationship is really serious and everyone (her family, my family, friends etc) thinks we're gonna get married. I don't.





Now to the hardest part. I WOULD marry her, but I don't want to do it now. I've had only 4-5 girlfriends in my life, and she's the one and only one I slept with. So, I would like to make a ';break'; of 4-5 years, and then try getting back together. I know she would be hurt if I told her something like that, so I'm in an awful situation. I would never want to hurt her because I love her. On the other side, I don't want to grow up to a 40-year old wife-cheating bastard.





My idea is to do something that would make her break up, but wouldn't hurt her, rather make her mad. That means, I don't want to cheat on her or hurt her in any way. I'd like to stay friend with her, so we'll have a chance of getting back together after a while.





Can someone give me any tips?





She is really a special sort of girl and I want to break up with her only because I don't want to cheat on her or hurt her in some other way.





Actually, I want her to break up with me, so there would be a bigger chance of getting back together one day.





Thank you in advance for your advices, and I hope not to get bad comments here, because this is really important for me.How do I make my girlfriend break up with me.?
you need to break up with her and be honest, tell her exactly why, it wont be easy but if you break up on a lie there'l be no chance of yous getting back together. def dont stay together, your restless and having doubts, you need to get out there and enjoy yourself while ur still young enough too do this! You need to meet and go with new people and so does she, you obviously feel suffocated by everyones expectations, like u say, if u just float along and go down the course everyone else expects, ur restlessness wont go away and u will eventually cheat on her and then you will have lost her forever!





Be brave, everything will be ok :D And remember whats for u wont pass you :) if your meant to be with her in the end, you will be :DHow do I make my girlfriend break up with me.?
Um first of all....Why do u want to break up with her...Not to be mean, but it sounds like the only real reason is cause you want to sleep with more people and honestly thats shallow. She sounds like shes perfect for you and if you really love her then you wont cheat on her and youll be perfectly content with just her.
so ur plan is to make her hate u? really a girls not gonna want to get back together with u if u do somthing like that... i mean come on what makes u thing that she would want to if u like her then stay with her and dont be so selfish its that simple. dont make her brake up with u just cuz u want to do it with some other girls. ur such a jerk!
dont break up with her ..find someone cheat... and get married and have a happy life





if u do it shed never know just be careful u dont get caught
umm.. don't string him along if you want out.You just going to make if painful for both of you.
Break up with her or be honest!!! Your plan probably wont work if you make her break up with you! tell her that you need time alone or something because ur plan might backfire. but dont just take my advice for it...
tell her she smells like fish, and that you are hungry for vegetables instead of fish.
idkk sorry buddy
grow a pair and just tell her if it was meant to be, it will happen regardless of who broke up with who
You should show her that you wrote this, then she will probably dump you for sure...******* coward.
Seriously, be a man. Tell her exactly how it is. Don't try to get her to dislike you because your scared. How messed up?
Tell her!
i say just dump her but not hard just softly
y not sit her down and tell her all this and see if she can understand .
Grow some ballz Coward and tell her yourself. BE A MAN
My advice is if you really love her marry her, dont lose this, but if your even thinking about breaking up thn you probably dont





YOU MARRY HER NOW: You do not enjoy life at the fullest, barely meet any chicks, and as time goes by youll regret you didnt have more fun.





YOU BREAK UP: youll hurt her, what makes you think shell wait for you i wouldnt, but y6ou will get to enoy life
so, you didn't actually give a reason for you wanting to break up. She seems like the only serious girlfriend you've had, so you may be a little afraid (and don't try to be all masculine and say ';****, man... try sayin that with your *** in your face) because i assure you, i'm pretty much aces at psychoanalysis, or at least relationships, so putting on this manly mask won't prove anything....





so don't break up with her, spend more time with her, and maybe you will learn to embrace this whole thing. If your fear grows, then tell her you need time to think, and use that tiem to reflect...
Dude. Why are you breaking up with her? What makes you think that she will wait for you in those 4-5 years? You have something special with her. Don't fck it up just so you can have your own little fantasies. I mean, what if you take a 5 year ';break'; and she finds this great guy that is amazing to her, and you get nobody and want to go back to her and nope?





Maybe you should think about HER instead of yourself.


If you are really going to go through with this you sleazy jerk, why not just tell her instead of being cowardly and getting her to break up with you?





You disgust me.
Well the first thing that you have to do is go to a private place like a park or your living room, but no place to private like your bedroom because that could lead to another hook up. After you make her comfortable then explain to her that even though you two have had your great times that you feel that it is time for you guyse to go your seperate ways. Good luck
That is not a good idea. Think, if your plan works and she finds out about it, which she will, then where will you be? If you love her then stay, if you don't then go. Try not to get caught in between. No one is telling you what to do or how fast to go. You decide and if you think the relationship needs a little time off then tell her gently that a little time off would be good for both of you. And also, to those that put an answer for your question and decided to be mean: What is the point in putting something like that? To make the person feel bad about his problem? It's rude to not take other peoples problems seriously. They ask questions to get help, not hurt. If you have something to say then you can put it nicer than you did there. Oh, and good luck, a little luck is always good to have.
Best thing is to break up with her bc girls can be stubborn and if you do something to piss her off bad enough to piss her off after that amount of time she's going to hate you and you will have no chance. Straight up tell her that you love her but you want to know how it feels to be with someone else or something along those lines. Then play round for awhile then after having your fun be like i really love you and idk why i ever left you can you take me back blah blah. Dont make it too much time playing around tho bc she will lose interest and not sayin this will work its just an idea
What I don't get is if you love her so much and want to get back with her/Marry her some day why break up. So you have had many girlfriends so what. You've found someone that you click with and makes you happy. It's obvious you really care for her.





But if you do have your mind still set on breaking up then.....Do it yourself. It's going to hurt her either way if you guys are so serious. So just be a man and do what has to be don.