Make up with girlfriend??

My girlfriendand I have been fighting, we kinda broke up but i dont think she really means it because when I told her to come get her stuff she acted all strange...She left a bunch of stuff at my apartment and on saturday she came by and just asked for her boots..so then sunday she tells ';next sat one of the girls is having a dinner on 80th and 3rd, I was thinking i'de park by your apt, and we could have a drink after..up to you'; I said..';ide like that..'; she responds..';thats close to you, right'; i said ';yeah..'; She says..';ok, cool';.. So any any tips on how to approach the situation??


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she is the one who broke it off but she was acting under emotion..she later said ';maybe I over reacted because of all the other stess I was dealing with..';Make up with girlfriend??
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She made a mistake, she kinda realises that now she hasn't got you. So many people break up in the heat of things and then reality hits! Maybe you shouldn't let her back into your life so quickly. Your in control, meet up for a drink and ask her if she wants to leave her stuff or pick it up (Stay or leave) and see if she gets the hint.
I know it sounds harsh and you probably don't want to hear it, but... Dude, drop her like a bad habit.





If she's that erratic in her emotions that she'd break up with you once, she'll do it again.





Send her stuff back to her, delete her off your email list, your phone list, your IM contact list and go complete NO CONTACT with her.





It's the best option for both you %26amp; her. Sounds harsh, I know, but the reality is that she's not for you.
I think that she must have got angry and emotional from other stress and taken it out on you.


Im sure she does regret it now and wants another chance,


I think it would be good for you guys to hang out again and see how it goes.


But if you dont like her in that way anymore then thats the way it goes, Tell her you just want to be good mates, dont cut off all contact cause thats what would really tear her apart.


GOODLUCK :) :) :)
yes she is having second thoughts because you are not begging her to come back. If you love her get back with her but make sure that you make it clear to her that you will only let someone do that to you once.
Sounds to me like she wants to reconcile. If you like this girl and want to give it another shot I say go to dinner with her.
Simply confront her about it. Ask her whats going on and if she still cares for you. If you wanna still be with her ask her back out. If she says no then you have your answer
mr arsecheese!!!
shes still luvs u shes just waiting for u to give in and her to worn away the anger in herself
shes deff. didnt mean it. shes trying to work it out with you kind of playing hard to get.
go out for a drink and talk things through.
Thats a tough one. Maybe she is trying to hint that a possible come back is on the horizon, however maybe she just doesnt want to lose a friend and thats why shes coming over for a drink. Possibly the best way to handle this, if you would like to get back with her, is to be friendly and inviting, and show a little bit of caring. If she does want to get back with you, shes probably looking for some signs in which she could use to decide if she should make that move. Its just up to you how you handle the situation and how you feel about making up.